posted December 14, 2007 06:24 AM            

Without knowing any of the circumstances of your relationship, it will be hard to give you advice.

However, if you think that it's good overall and you're not sure why you're having second thoughts, then you might want to wait until the Jupiter/Pluto transit passes. I've read in several places that people will be anxious to make decisions, but that judgement is impaired.

It may have been on one of these threads.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/015747.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/015528.html

If the only reason that you're staying in the relationship is not to be a quitter, then I'd end it. I'd rather be a happy quitter than a miserable hanger-oner!

posted December 14, 2007 07:47 AM              

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I ve been soooo back and forth and utterly confused about my love life these days.. Im so afraid to make the wrong decision and too scared to change things ..although i am not happy with the way things are now. I m afraid if i end the relationship i might regret it and make the biggest mistake of my life. Im also afraid because cancers dont like to "give up" on relationships.. I'm determined to make it work ; and not a quitter!! Can any help? Any advice at all will be greatly appreciated.

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At least you are not one that feels the need to get married because he is not a quitter and someone is in love with you, so the right thing to do is to suck it up and sacrifice because you started something a while back and you are not going to be "the bad one".... *sights*

I am pass the Cancer=martir stage in my life, I wonder if this doesn't make me a cancer anymore LOL

Anyway, sorry about your luck but I say you can't make anyone happy if you are not happy with yourself and true to you first.And it is not about being selfish it is just that as time goes by you will feel trapped, unfulfilled and incomplete then you will get moody and this is where the little fights start that become bigger over time....

ok, sorry done ranting, I just know I am a Cancer and was in this situation and I know of a Cancer boy that feels the same way you just described.

posted December 17, 2007 04:02 AM              

ME--
Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Cancer 27°20'08 in house 6 direct
Moon Pisces 20°57'34 in house 1 direct
Mercury Cancer 27°24'50 in house 6 retrograde
Venus Leo 24°05'20 in house 7 direct
Mars Aries 18°07'23 in house 2 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 8°31'40 in house 12 retrograde
Saturn Gemini 28°31'51 end of house 4 direct
Uranus Libra 19°10'28 in house 8 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 4°51'43 in house 9 retrograde
Pluto Libra 2°04'08 in house 7 direct
True Node Capricorn 7°31'31 in house 11 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Aquarius 17°16'16
2nd House Aries 14°12'48
3rd House Taurus 18°13'49
Imum Coeli Gemini 10°20'09
5th House Gemini 28°45'21
6th House Cancer 18°20'58
Descendant Leo 17°16'16
8th House Libra 14°12'48
9th House Scorpio 18°13'49
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 10°20'09
11th House Sagittarius 28°45'21
12th House Capricorn 18°20'58

HER--Planetary positions planet sign degree motion
Sun Capricorn 9°59'26 in house 11 direct
Moon Pisces 10°07'36 in house 1 direct
Mercury Capricorn 22°07'41 in house 12 direct
Venus Aquarius 8°54'04 in house 12 stationary (R)
Mars Libra 6°57'23 in house 7 direct
Jupiter Scorpio 6°02'16 in house 8 direct
Saturn Libra 21°26'03 in house 8 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 2°40'39 in house 9 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 25°08'22 in house 10 direct
Pluto Libra 26°41'06 in house 8 direct
True Node Cancer 22°28'00 in house 6 direct

House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Aquarius 14°13'02
2nd House Aries 15°47'08
3rd House Taurus 19°40'42
Imum Coeli Gemini 10°45'45
5th House Gemini 28°03'39
6th House Cancer 16°24'33
Descendant Leo 14°13'02
8th House Libra 15°47'08
9th House Scorpio 19°40'42
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 10°45'45
11th House Sagittarius 28°03'39
12th House Capricorn 16°24'33