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Topic: I got rejected today
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Lucia23
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posted December 18, 2007 12:58 AM
  
I wrote and told the Scorpio I've been obsessed with for so long that I had feelings for him.He rejected me in the most bland, trite way with a note full of cliches. All the "right" things to say, but the slickness of it made me feel like he doesn't care about me at all or value me in any way. I feel so hurt that it's making me sick. IP: Logged |
SattvicMoon
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posted December 18, 2007 01:13 AM
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All the "right" things to say, but the slickness of it made me feel like he doesn't care about me at all or value me in any way.
Value your self, have self worthiness - that solves the pain you have now. IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted December 18, 2007 01:26 AM
I say...have yourself a good cry first & foremost
Then, as soon as you can...quit telling yourself that you were rejected, because that's not true. When someone ends a relationship it's about them...even though it hurts-like-hell!IP: Logged |
alma-noble
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posted December 18, 2007 05:03 AM
Lucia, i am sending all my love to you, I understand you perfectly because I am in very similar situation.The one I've been obsessed as well with for very long time is avoiding me now after we met and talk a bit last week. Only I didn't mention about my feelings, even he guessed I suppose. I feel it like rejection as well ... and it hurts like hell!IP: Logged |
taurus/gemini cusp
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posted December 18, 2007 05:25 AM
My heart goes out to you. But this is no rejection my girl - this is his sad loss, not yours. All the best - chin up!  IP: Logged |
Diandra23
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posted December 18, 2007 05:53 AM
Lucia23  Nobody here can heal the pain you must be feeling but we can at least tell you some words of encouragment and what ´s the best in these ocasions. Let all go out and cry whatever you want for now; time will let that wound heal and the most important thing is that you are more worth than that. Obssession still is obssession and not necessarily love - he rejected the oportunity to have sth with you but it wasnt gonna be Love - cause that higher treasure is be kepting safe till the right moment and person comes along. So,before entering this New Year, consciencialize yourself of that  - what it´s yours it will come as well what your heart needs and deserve. IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 18, 2007 07:09 AM
Sorry about how things turned out but like everyone said, don't see it as a rejection, maybe look at it as a push forward onto better opportunities. Kudos to him for being honest instead of taking the chance to use your feelings for him for something else. It hurts now, but there will be a time when you are in the same position and you have the choice of either letting the person know you don't feel the same way or using those feelings against them. IP: Logged |
Green Fairy
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posted December 18, 2007 07:34 AM
I've been there, we all have.
Don't feel sorry about yourself, i believe it's for the better.
You will move on and eventually find someone who is wonderful and amazing and appreciative. Keep your hopes up.IP: Logged |
Aria
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posted December 18, 2007 08:22 AM
Lucia:I know how difficult it can be to put yourself "out there" and express your feelings - and not have them returned. However, everyone is right. It's a cliche, I know, but things happen for a reason and when the maker closes a door, he usually opens a window! Keep your chin up (okay, you can let it drop while you get a good cry out of the way) and look ahead to a future that will offer many more possibilities! Hugs IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted December 18, 2007 11:09 AM
so sorry that happened to you Lucia  IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted December 18, 2007 12:40 PM
a good person would have never done this the way he did; you deserve a much better guy, I know it's cliche, but believe me it is a fact in this case!I admire you for your big heart and courage!  IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
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posted December 18, 2007 12:42 PM
I am very sorry that it happened to you. Nobody wants to be rejected,and I hated being rejected by myself. But it's a good thing that you know how he feels about you now. The truth can set you free. Now you won't waste your time,and can find somebody much better for you. You will find succeed in doing that. I definitely did. Please keep your chin up and don't ever give up on romantic love. You will find it or it will find you.
I wish you the best.
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Lucia23
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posted December 19, 2007 12:15 AM
Thanks for the support, everyone! I am hanging in there.IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted December 19, 2007 12:21 AM
The right person will come along someday(you've probably heard this before)but its so true, there is someone for everyone...you'll find someone that you really connect with and watch the feelings be very mutual, the emotions will just flow between you. Its worth waiting for you'll see ------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer "I seem to have the blind self-acceptance of the eccentric who can't conceive that his eccentricities are not clearly understood" IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
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From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2007 12:39 AM
Hi Lucia23,I'd like to add how sorry I am. I've also been rejected many times and...well...I just want to hug you and say that he's probably a big old boogie head, even if he's not, it just feels better to say it.  And most importantly, do your absolute best not to let it make you sick. It always worries me when someone says they feel sick when things like this happens. It's natural to be very sad, but please, as best as you can, really try not to let it hurt you physically. That's my highest wish for you today and I hope this passes very soon for you. Take care of our Lucia23, Geocosmic Valentine
YOU are a star, Lucia23. IP: Logged |
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