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Topic: Synastry chart: Me and Guy I met online
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Urania*
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posted December 18, 2007 03:52 PM
 
I feel awkward writing about this, dunno why. The whole thing screams cliche. I met this guy online quite a while ago. We just talked, flirted, talked about our lives etc. He was very funny, very clever with refined tastes (or so he appeared, how can you ever be sure about someone you meet like this?). He was nothing like anybody else I've ever met. Talking to him made me feel like I was in an old classic romantic comedy. Everything had humor, charm and rythm. Anyway, me being my usual self of course, I was at first very excited about him, felt that at least intellectually I found my match. I felt so smart and charming around him too. I can't explain it.
Still though I never actually wanted to meet him face to face as I feel that I would be really disappointed since I already have a very vivid picture of what he's like. Anything slightly different than that and I will feel cheated somehow. We never even exchanged pictures. It was always more than enough for me to flirt with him. Plus he's sixteen years older than I am. I'm always attracted to younger guys. It just didn't seem to fit. Lately I realized that he saw this thing a bit more serious than I did, so I started hinting -very discreetly at first as I didn't want to hurt his pride- that I was not looking for anything more than this. After seeing that he kept talking about us meeting, I decided to tell him that I was not interested in doing that, and in order to get my point across, I told him I had feelings about somebody else (which is not a complete lie, but not completely true either  ). After that, he became very mean. He never called me names, he wouldn't do that, but he was full of irony and bitterness. He chose the perfect words to ridicule me, and make me feel small and insignificant. I'm mad at him and feel guilty at the same time. Did I make a mistake to not even give this guy a chance?
These are our charts, (i'm the inner wheel) and it does seem like we have some good aspects between us. Shame he's not a bit younger. Or me less shallow. :S 
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Knowflake Posts: 1344
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posted December 18, 2007 05:35 PM
At a glance ~ forgive me if I am reading the chart wrong ~ * Jupiter in Taurus opposite Venus conjunct Mercury in Scorpio.The pattern is repeated with Mercury conjunct Jupiter in Virgo. ~ there's your battle of wits. * Moon opposite Sun doesn't scream compatibility. Is age the real reason you didn't get involved? Maybe you just have good instincts? p.s * {Mercury conjunct Venus} Trine Venus and Mars ~ the charming part * Your Mercury square his Saturn ~ what a downer. I did hone in on those red lines, lol. IP: Logged |
Urania*
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posted December 19, 2007 03:40 AM
Really? I thought Sun opposing Moon in synastry was a good aspect. A bit rocky but balanced. I find that the aspect that seems to describe the whole thing between us is his moon conjuncting my uranus. He's the emotional one, I'm the detached one.To answer your question blue moon, I'm pretty sure that if he was closer to my age I would consent in the end and I'd agree to meet with him. I wouldn't expect anything to happen between us because like I said, these kind of relationships are based on wrong assumptions, but I would want to give him a chance. I just can't see me with an older guy. Like I said, I'm more inclined to be drawn to younger men than the opposite. Other than that, he's very absolute and inflexible about certain things, not to mention full of himself. He was so sure I was gonna fall completely in love with him. Please. IP: Logged |
Love
Knowflake Posts: 54
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posted December 19, 2007 03:53 AM
Well, his NN falls into your 11th house so maybe all you're feeling is "friend" energy??Interesting too that his Mars falls in your 12th and your Mars falls in his 12th... IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 1344
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posted December 20, 2007 04:46 AM
Well that could be his ego (Sun) opposing your instinctive reactions (Moon) - he certainly seems to have irked you!IP: Logged |
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posted December 20, 2007 04:58 AM
Sounds like he felt deceived. The possibility of meeting may have been what was motivating him to develop your online relationship. Meanwhile, the whole time not only were you content with it never developing into that, you had already decided that it never would develop to that point. It looks like your Neptune squares his Sun, which reflects him feeling deceived.
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Urania*
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posted December 20, 2007 02:55 PM
That Mars in the 12th thingy. Yeah. It must have something to do with the fact that we both tried -using cunning and indirect ways- to know as much information about each other as possible. There was a lot of 12th house related activity for awhile. quote:
Well that could be his ego (Sun) opposing your instinctive reactions (Moon) - he certainly seems to have irked you!
Well it's true. I don't know why I'm so disappointed from all this though. Maybe I've just been too much time without a real boyfriend. Pfff! quote:
It looks like your Neptune squares his Sun, which reflects him feeling deceived.
He did constantly believed things about me that were simply untrue. And no matter how many times I explained that to him, he kept believing them. That's what I meant about wrong assumptions. But that's to be expected from this kind of a relationship I think. He imagines me the way he wishes me to be. He does have that natal Moon/Neptune conjunction going on. I don't think it has so much to do with me misleading him, as him misinterpreting and twisting things I said. IP: Logged | |
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