posted December 31, 2007 03:58 PM              

Can someone please tell me about this man? I am so excited as l have been talking to him online for about a month and am going to meet him in January!!

We have fantastic synastry and great composite between us but l am no good at natal charts.

I just want to see what his chart says as he is confused as to his direction in life.

Also wanna make sure he is not violent or aggressive

posted December 31, 2007 04:23 PM            

Not to scare you or paint this man with a brush without ever having had a discussion with him, but there are two things to bring to your attention about his chart in reference to his temper and the "Worst Case Scenario".

1.) He has Sun conjunct Mars in Leo which can suggest a quick hot dramatic temper.

2.) He has Mars square Saturn. This is also a suggestion of a STRONG PROBABILITY of him being a rage-a-holic.

The absolute worse case scenario with hard Mars-Saturn measurements is BRUTALITY. The person most likely experienced it in some way, shape or form and/or they exhibit it in some way shape or form.

I repeat, this is the worst case scenario of these measurements. However, part of me thinks you may have sensed at least a little of this in him or else you may not have asked. But then after only a month of internet conversation, you might not have known it.

Before a lot of people get on my case about it, the reason why I want to stress the worst case scenario is because YOU DON'T KNOW THIS GUY and you're going to meet him in person after speaking with him for only a month. If it was me, and I saw those measurements, I wouldn't meet him alone.

Personally, hard aspects between Mars and Saturn are my least favorite aspects in a person that I meet. I do have 2 friends with tense aspects of Mars and Saturn. One of my friends expresses it in the form of being a serious mountain climber. She prefers ice climbing in places like Alaska. My other friend expresses that energy through his sculpture, his heavy metal drumming, his love of knives, swords, forging metals and military strategy games.

Many people with hard aspects measurements between Mars and Saturn also tend to have tremendous control in areas like surgery, carving, etc. I want my surgeon to have a Mars-Saturn conjunction for precision.

Every Mars-Saturn person I've read in my astrology practice has either broken bones in their early childhood life or they have broken someone elses bones whether by mistake or on purpose.

The mountain climber had her arm broken at the age of 4 when her big brothers convinced her to swing on home made swing hanging from their tree. This occurred when her Solar Arc Saturn conjoined her Natal Mars.

The heavy metal drummer broke a girls arm by kicking open a door and not knowing that the girl was on the other side.

Last but not least, my best friend's ex-husband has the conjunction of Mars-Saturn and last year he ACCIDENTALLY broke his best friend's leg while they were playing team soccer. He was devestated at having hurt his friend.

Well, there you have it. Please be careful meeting anyone you meet on the internet. And now I brace myself for everyone's response whether kind or not.

I hope he turns out to be a good guy, that's coming from the romantic in me. Good luck and may you go with many blessings on your head.

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posted December 31, 2007 05:56 PM              

Thank you for that. It is good to be forewarned!

Interestingly, the longest relationship l ever had was with a scorpio who had mars conjunct sun lol

He also had venus square saturn.

I am going to meet him in a hotel bar - so l can scream if need be and there will be people around.

I guess it is better than what friends of mine do, which is to meet a guy in club/bar and pretty much go home with him the same night!!! CRAZY

One can never be sure, can one? I guess l have to use my instincts and judge how l feel. The synastry is really good though and the only harsh aspect is mars square mars.

posted January 01, 2008 03:56 PM            

It's great that you're being careful regardless of any astrological aspects...good or bad.

Geo,

Your posts are always very insightful. I have Mars in Scorpio quincunx my Saturn Aries within one degree. No broken bones for me, but I did accidentally kick my older brother in the teeth on the swings as a child. He had to have them replaced.

I just checked our synastry and his Mars (in Libra) is opposite my Saturn within 2 degrees! Wow...do you count broken teeth in with the broken bones!?!?