posted January 09, 2008 02:52 PM              

If I can speak of me being an astrologer I don't make conclusions so easlily so I wait till I see more and more signs, maybe more then other astrologers do. It was how I understood the role of that girl in my life.
regards

posted January 13, 2008 05:08 PM              

It's very interesting, there are some similarities in charts between you and thaty guy and me and that my girl (she is a Chinese from Taiwan).

Both in your chart and Chinese girl's chart woman's psyche conjuncts man's Venus in synastry.
Chinese girl and me have juno – juno conjunction and you and that guy have juno square juno. Juno is a marriage asteroid.
Chinese girl has strong venus conjunction anteros (anteros – a brother of eros, love returned, love revenged....) and your guy has mercury conjuncts anteros.
Chinese girl has juno conjunction uranus, that guy has juno square uranus.

My juno-pallas conjunction conjuncts Chinese girl juno–urans conjunction.
In your case, you two have your natal juno-pluto conjunction conjuncts his uranus-mercury-sun conjunction. But it squares his juno-mars conjunction and oppposes his chiron too.

in your natal chart you have a nice mercury-venus conjunction in Sag in 9th, without bad aspects, where mercury is ruler of your marriage house. It is a marriage with a foreigner, or in a foreign country... You have juno in your 7th too in separating conjunction with pluto.
Also, there is Uranus in your marriage house. Hopefully it is in separating square with Moon, but 2 deg is still strong. A bad aspect indeed, but I believe that other positive ones will prevail. Maybe it was just about what happened with you and that guy. Even without bad aspects Uranus in 7th could be unstable regarding marriage. So, maybe your nice Mercury-Venus conjunction is a sign that you will finaly find the other partner, with a hapy end.

You guy has venus, ruler of his marriage house in his 10th in separeting trines with Saturn and Mars.

It's interesting and a kind of synchronicity that your guy and me both have mercury-uranus-sun natal conjunction. And we both have scorpio ascendants too, about 4 deg. orb. So, your eros is on my Asc, closer that on his Asc lol!.
And your juno conjuncts my north node (0.5deg orb) and is close to my eros (2deg orb). Lol again!
It's really funny and that way I want to tell you that you sould not be unhappy if that guy doesn's come back to you. Some other could appear, you never know.
Try to look at things as a game that the universe plays with us and where it wants to see how good pupils we are.

You guy will soon have saturn transiting her natal venus, and before that jupiter will be on his mars, giving much energy and action. This year juno will stay in Sag. very long, so things about marriage could become very important to you. In a year or so, saturn will transit your Desc. and later, your vertex, and Juno (4.57 Libra)... Be open to the destiny....

I can't make an exact conclusion. It seems that the situation between that Chinese girl and me is clearer than with you and your guy. In fact that my girl doesn't write to me since the middle of June. She has venus-anteros conjunction in tight opposition with my uranus – very unstable aspect, but what gives me a sense that we will get married is our other sinastry and our natal charts- how our marriage partners are showed there etc.

But believe me fanyface, I feel can accept anything regarding her and I will do absolutelly nothing, because I feel i did everything that was up to me. The game is up to her now. During last year or so I saw many nice synchronicities and signs from the universe that shows everything in our lives has a meaning, so I should not to be worried, just to be true to myself.
last year I met one wonderful and so sensitive woman (Pisces) she is devorced and lives abroad, we are true soulmates but I don't believe she will become my wife... Few days ago, I met a girl though the web that have a really nice and strong synastry with, and I have so strong sense that I have something to do in her life. It seems she is scared a little,I understand... So, you see, the universe is playing with me, so many years alone, without a girl and then three or more girls at the same time...And not just that – I feel the the universe wants me to learn something and even to teach someone what I learned.

That mercury-anteros conjunction in the chart of your guy could be even a slight sign that deeper feelings about you could appear again in his heart. But it could be a question how stable your relationship will be because of his natal juno square uranus.

The opposite thing is possible too, that he could get married with an other girl and later break up that marriage (juno-mars conjunction – too rush marriage, and juno square uranus – break up), so he could come back to you later. You juno opposes his chiron is not a good sign for that, neither your natal Mercury-Venus conjunction that squares his North Node.

posted January 28, 2008 12:47 PM              

Yes, I know you have Valentine close to your Asc (2 deg orb). The menaing - here is one quot. from the web:
Astrologically, Valentine seems to have, as one might expect, a strongly seventh-house influence: that is, it indicates one-on-one relationships of any kind and the urge to form and maintain them. This can mean not just love relationships and marriages, but business partnerships, counselor-counseled, attorney-client, or adversarial relationships, torturer-tortured, or any other kind of relationship involving two entities. Valentine can also indicate to solicit another's approval or send something to another on a personal basis; this could be anything—a valentine, a letter, a legal document, a shipment of merchandise for sale, a piece of junk mail
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You know, on the Asc meaning is very significant.

What changed when I calculated his natal chart with correct birth time was:

Your Jupiter is in his 7th house.
His Moon conjuncts your IC
His Jupiter, ruler of his 7tth house conjuncts your Uranus in your 7th house.
Mercury ruler of his Asc conjunction Anteros in his 5th house

He has Jupiter ruler of his 7th house conjuncts Sun in 5th and both squared with Mars. (7.5 and 2 deg. orbs). I am afraid he will have one unsuccesful marriage, maybe even more.
Mars conjuncts Juno in 8th and squared with Uranus in 5th is very bad for marriage. Hopefully, that Mars-Juno conjunction trines Saturn, he will learn some lessons once finally.

And last time I wrote about Mercury- Anteros conjunction in his 5th that suggests me that either he will return to an old love or will have love returned from someone.

Now, with correct birth time, he has Moon square Mercury and square Pluto, very bad aspects. It seems to me he is very contraversal, doesn't understand himself well and doesn't have his inner peace.

You have Juno-Saturn trine in your natal as well as Juno NN trine.
You both have Juno square Juno synastry. It is a bad aspect but maybe it is just a big chalenge, not a sign that the marrige between you is impossible or to be ruined.

It is difficult to make a conclusion about you and him. I could say that everything is possible, but am almost sure that he will have one marriage ruined. And he will get married again, I am not sure if it will be with you but it is possible too.