Lindaland
  Astrology
  8th House Moon in synastry

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq | search

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   8th House Moon in synastry
LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 01:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anybody have experience with moon in your partner's 8th house? And their moon in yours. I'm talking about actual experiences from people who have dealt with this.

Thanks!

IP: Logged

SagSun
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 05:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Moon falls in my SO's 8th house ... it's a very transformative connection to say the least.

IP: Logged

LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 05:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has it been transformative for you or your partner?

Thansk!

IP: Logged

SagSun
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 06:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's hard to say, actually. I think it's been transformative for the both of us. He might feel it even more than I do, though.

IP: Logged

LeoPisCan
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 05:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SagSun:

Do any of his planets fall in your 8th house?

IP: Logged

Bucketrider
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 06:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ive had many times. It feels more like a saturn contact and is more binding and LTR feeling - like you belong together on a basic level than being particularly spiritually transformative.

IP: Logged

LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 21, 2008 06:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahhh Bucketrider that sounds so beautiful. By the way, what do you mean by LTR? Has it been your moon or theirs? Who do you think felt it more strongly?

Thanks!

IP: Logged

Maire31
Newflake

Posts: 10
From: here there and everywhere
Registered: May 2009

posted January 22, 2008 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maire31     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mmmm, yes this is so binding for us - against all odds (backgrounds, age, education, etc). We met two years ago and it was "instant karma". We're still together in a very Uranian type relationship and for some reason it works.

Neither of us can imagine severing the tie forever. I just can't imagine it ever happening with him for some reason.

My Cancer Moon in his 8th, conjunct his Cancer Venus, Mercury & Vertex all within 2 degree orb.

It's a MAJOR soul connection with us. Hard to say if it's a house thing or the conjunction. We're so moody and passionate. We each have said how "safe" we feel with each other. We can fight, argue, whine and complain then soothe, comfort and give in to the other...

It's indescribable

IP: Logged

LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 22, 2008 10:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ohhh Marie it sounds yummy. :-)

IP: Logged

SagSun
unregistered
posted January 23, 2008 03:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
SagSun:

Do any of his planets fall in your 8th house?


Sorry for getting back to you so late. I had completely forgotten about this thread. Sorry!!!

So, yes, his Uranus and Ascendant both fall in my 8th house. Like Bucketrider said, it is a very binding connection, particularly on a spiritual level. It feels very karmic.

IP: Logged

LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 23, 2008 03:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey SagSun,

I think I read a while back you had planets land in your 12H as well? If so, which do you feel was more intense?

IP: Logged

jane
Knowflake

Posts: 1277
From:
Registered: Jul 2009

posted January 23, 2008 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
During college I had an LTR with someone who had my Moon in his 8th house conjunct his NN. My NN, Mars, and Jupiter were in there too. His Moon was in my 4th house conjunct my SN.

I don't know if what I felt was primarily his Moon in my 4th, but I can relate to what Bucketrider said about feeling like we belonged together. I felt bonded with the ex before I'd ever even spoken with him. We had a class together our first year. We sat on opposite sides of the room and never spoke to one another, but every comment he made resonated with me. It was like he was speaking my thoughts. I enjoyed hearing them in a sexy male voice. So even though we never spoke, we both had that sense that we understood one another and felt bonded. It wasn't until a year later that we actually met and spoke and we grew close very quickly. He's someone I still feel close to, even though we broke up over 6 years ago. Every time we meet up, the awkward politeness lasts for about 15 seconds, then everything's smooth and comfortable again. I can't imagine him not feeling familiar and like home to me. But this must be the 4th house influence.

I wouldn't characterize our relationship as transformative. In a way it was for me, but I think that had more to do with transiting Pluto conjunct my Sun. Even though we naturally understood one another and loved one another, there were things I wanted in a relationship that I could tell he wasn't comfortable giving me. I have Chiron in the 7th house forming a grand trine with Venus and Jupiter/Mars, and I think that may be why in close love relationships I need my partner to be a little bit of a therapist at times. It makes me feel loved when I can talk about the hurts I've experienced with my partner, and the ex couldn't really handle that. I remember the first time I mentioned a family problem to him and his eyes nearly bugged out of their sockets. The poor Aqua Moon man didn't know what to do. I only brought those sorts of things up a couple of times after that, but he was prepared those times and kept a blank poker face. I could tell how uncomfortable he was though and after that, I started not feeling as attracted to him. So in a way, the relationship was transformative b/c I learned about something I very much need in a relationship and would no longer go back to one without it. There were some transformative aspects for him too, but overall I wouldn't describe our relationship in that way.

IP: Logged

SagSun
unregistered
posted January 23, 2008 04:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
I think I read a while back you had planets land in your 12H as well? If so, which do you feel was more intense?

Yes, his Moon falls in my 12th house ... I think I feel this connection more than the 8th house thing, simply because his Moon also conjuncts my Ascendant. His Eros and Psyche both fall in my 12th house as well. Overall, I feel both the 12th and the 8th house can make for very karmic bonds in synastry, especially if other contacts indicate this as well.

IP: Logged

LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 23, 2008 04:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, great information girls, Thank you so much!

PERI, I have chiron 7H as well but I feel like mine is doing the work to help them rather then helping me. So I guess I'm the darned therapist :-P. But I have Pisces in 7th so there you go, they always seem to be able to find me.

IP: Logged

jane
Knowflake

Posts: 1277
From:
Registered: Jul 2009

posted January 23, 2008 04:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I'm not Peri, but I'll take that as a compliment. I like her a lot.

Yeah, I play therapist too, but that's in all my relationships. In love relationships, I need a man who doesn't mind letting me lie down on the couch.

Does your Chiron form any aspects with your other planets?

IP: Logged

LeoCat
unregistered
posted January 23, 2008 03:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh sorry, Jane!

My chiron aspects:

Square moon exactly - 4H
Trine Mercury - 11H
Trine mars - 11H
sextile saturn - 9H
opposes uranus - 1H
135 degrees from Neptune (dont know what
that aspect is) - 3H

It makes 2 yods in my chart, pretty tight ones too, I don't know if I should count because they're with black moon lilith.

And my chiron is stationary retro which I'm just now researching.

I kinda' hate my chiron, seems like you've learned to work with yours or at least accepted it's role in your life, I haven't gotten there yet. How do you feel about its placement in your chart now?

IP: Logged

jane
Knowflake

Posts: 1277
From:
Registered: Jul 2009

posted January 30, 2008 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LeoCat - Subconsciously I must've been so hurt being called the wrong name that I couldn't face this thread again. Apparently my psyche has had enough time to heal now.

I can understand you being less than fond of Chiron. It's doing some pretty rough things in your chart (the Moon square especially), and then it's gotta go and be SR, to boot. Yikes.

I like Chiron. I do feel its placement in my 7th house, though. Probably from witnessing my parents' own horrendous marriage, I've always been aware of how painful partnerships can be. As a kid, I never daydreamed about a Prince Charming, or weddings, or any of that romantic crap. I started out jaded, and I've had to deliberately teach myself to be more trusting and innocent. But then again, maybe that's my Venus in Cap.

IP: Logged

carl
Knowflake

Posts: 465
From: China
Registered: Apr 2009

posted May 14, 2011 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have an ex from long ago who had a moon in my 8th house

IP: Logged

Doux RÍve
Knowflake

Posts: 463
From:
Registered: Dec 2010

posted May 15, 2011 06:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How did it play out Carl?
Did you feel a deep connection?

IP: Logged

carl
Knowflake

Posts: 465
From: China
Registered: Apr 2009

posted May 15, 2011 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry not to explain. Yah, it was her moon in my 8th house, but near the DC (so almost cusp but not quite) and I felt I became more confident, sexually, andfor the first time found I was expressing my deepest emotions, almost too comofortable in fact. She awakened a deep desire that had never been felt, the desire to travel. What do you mean transformative though? In what regard, maybe I can add something.

Also, my moon was in her MC, but again, close to the 9th house, but not quite on the line.

IP: Logged

Doux RÍve
Knowflake

Posts: 463
From:
Registered: Dec 2010

posted May 15, 2011 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It WAS transformative, you've just said it
Means that it made you change, "evolve".

Did you have a hard time letting of that person, Carl?
The 8th house is a fixed house, after all.

I think the 5th house can trigger sexual feelings even more.. did any of her planets fall in your 5th also?

IP: Logged

carl
Knowflake

Posts: 465
From: China
Registered: Apr 2009

posted May 15, 2011 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think we both held on for a real long time but she finally got tired. The actual break up, though it hurt, was not too bad and I was over it pretty quick.

Planets in 5..
Merucry (almost on the line (cusp) of IC/5 but barely in 5), Uranus, Venus and Neptune were all in her house 5. None of her planets were in my 5th house.

Her houses were very evenly spread out through out my houses 1-12, maybe lending to her balanced approach to "us"..maybe. She was good at focuing at different diverse faucets of our relationship I think.

IP: Logged

lunatic
Knowflake

Posts: 184
From:
Registered: Oct 2010

posted May 15, 2011 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lunatic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She has her Moon in my 8th house and I have my Sun in her 4th House in a conjuction. I felt she is my Soul. I will never let go.

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2011

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a