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Topic: 8th House Moon in synastry
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LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 01:51 AM
Does anybody have experience with moon in your partner's 8th house? And their moon in yours. I'm talking about actual experiences from people who have dealt with this.Thanks! IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 05:25 AM
My Moon falls in my SO's 8th house ... it's a very transformative connection to say the least.IP: Logged |
LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 05:40 AM
Has it been transformative for you or your partner?Thansk! IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 06:12 AM
That's hard to say, actually. I think it's been transformative for the both of us. He might feel it even more than I do, though.IP: Logged |
LeoPisCan unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 05:55 PM
SagSun:Do any of his planets fall in your 8th house? IP: Logged |
Bucketrider unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 06:21 PM
Ive had many times. It feels more like a saturn contact and is more binding and LTR feeling - like you belong together on a basic level than being particularly spiritually transformative. IP: Logged |
LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 21, 2008 06:27 PM
Ahhh Bucketrider that sounds so beautiful. By the way, what do you mean by LTR? Has it been your moon or theirs? Who do you think felt it more strongly?Thanks! IP: Logged |
Maire31 Newflake Posts: 10 From: here there and everywhere Registered: May 2009
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posted January 22, 2008 10:34 PM
Mmmm, yes this is so binding for us - against all odds (backgrounds, age, education, etc). We met two years ago and it was "instant karma". We're still together in a very Uranian type relationship and for some reason it works.Neither of us can imagine severing the tie forever. I just can't imagine it ever happening with him for some reason. My Cancer Moon in his 8th, conjunct his Cancer Venus, Mercury & Vertex all within 2 degree orb. It's a MAJOR soul connection with us. Hard to say if it's a house thing or the conjunction. We're so moody and passionate. We each have said how "safe" we feel with each other. We can fight, argue, whine and complain then soothe, comfort and give in to the other... It's indescribable IP: Logged |
LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 22, 2008 10:46 PM
Ohhh Marie it sounds yummy. :-)IP: Logged |
SagSun unregistered
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posted January 23, 2008 03:42 AM
quote: SagSun:Do any of his planets fall in your 8th house?
Sorry for getting back to you so late. I had completely forgotten about this thread. Sorry!!! So, yes, his Uranus and Ascendant both fall in my 8th house. Like Bucketrider said, it is a very binding connection, particularly on a spiritual level. It feels very karmic. IP: Logged |
LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 23, 2008 03:46 AM
Hey SagSun, I think I read a while back you had planets land in your 12H as well? If so, which do you feel was more intense? IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1277 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2008 04:15 AM
During college I had an LTR with someone who had my Moon in his 8th house conjunct his NN. My NN, Mars, and Jupiter were in there too. His Moon was in my 4th house conjunct my SN.I don't know if what I felt was primarily his Moon in my 4th, but I can relate to what Bucketrider said about feeling like we belonged together. I felt bonded with the ex before I'd ever even spoken with him. We had a class together our first year. We sat on opposite sides of the room and never spoke to one another, but every comment he made resonated with me. It was like he was speaking my thoughts. I enjoyed hearing them in a sexy male voice. So even though we never spoke, we both had that sense that we understood one another and felt bonded. It wasn't until a year later that we actually met and spoke and we grew close very quickly. He's someone I still feel close to, even though we broke up over 6 years ago. Every time we meet up, the awkward politeness lasts for about 15 seconds, then everything's smooth and comfortable again. I can't imagine him not feeling familiar and like home to me. But this must be the 4th house influence. I wouldn't characterize our relationship as transformative. In a way it was for me, but I think that had more to do with transiting Pluto conjunct my Sun. Even though we naturally understood one another and loved one another, there were things I wanted in a relationship that I could tell he wasn't comfortable giving me. I have Chiron in the 7th house forming a grand trine with Venus and Jupiter/Mars, and I think that may be why in close love relationships I need my partner to be a little bit of a therapist at times. It makes me feel loved when I can talk about the hurts I've experienced with my partner, and the ex couldn't really handle that. I remember the first time I mentioned a family problem to him and his eyes nearly bugged out of their sockets. The poor Aqua Moon man didn't know what to do. I only brought those sorts of things up a couple of times after that, but he was prepared those times and kept a blank poker face. I could tell how uncomfortable he was though and after that, I started not feeling as attracted to him. So in a way, the relationship was transformative b/c I learned about something I very much need in a relationship and would no longer go back to one without it. There were some transformative aspects for him too, but overall I wouldn't describe our relationship in that way.
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SagSun unregistered
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posted January 23, 2008 04:21 AM
quote: I think I read a while back you had planets land in your 12H as well? If so, which do you feel was more intense?
Yes, his Moon falls in my 12th house ... I think I feel this connection more than the 8th house thing, simply because his Moon also conjuncts my Ascendant. His Eros and Psyche both fall in my 12th house as well. Overall, I feel both the 12th and the 8th house can make for very karmic bonds in synastry, especially if other contacts indicate this as well. IP: Logged |
LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 23, 2008 04:40 AM
Wow, great information girls, Thank you so much!PERI, I have chiron 7H as well but I feel like mine is doing the work to help them rather then helping me. So I guess I'm the darned therapist :-P. But I have Pisces in 7th so there you go, they always seem to be able to find me. IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1277 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2008 04:46 AM
I'm not Peri, but I'll take that as a compliment. I like her a lot. Yeah, I play therapist too, but that's in all my relationships. In love relationships, I need a man who doesn't mind letting me lie down on the couch. Does your Chiron form any aspects with your other planets? IP: Logged |
LeoCat unregistered
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posted January 23, 2008 03:55 PM
Oh sorry, Jane!My chiron aspects: Square moon exactly - 4H Trine Mercury - 11H Trine mars - 11H sextile saturn - 9H opposes uranus - 1H 135 degrees from Neptune (dont know what that aspect is) - 3H It makes 2 yods in my chart, pretty tight ones too, I don't know if I should count because they're with black moon lilith. And my chiron is stationary retro which I'm just now researching. I kinda' hate my chiron, seems like you've learned to work with yours or at least accepted it's role in your life, I haven't gotten there yet. How do you feel about its placement in your chart now? IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1277 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 30, 2008 01:12 AM
LeoCat - Subconsciously I must've been so hurt being called the wrong name that I couldn't face this thread again. Apparently my psyche has had enough time to heal now. I can understand you being less than fond of Chiron. It's doing some pretty rough things in your chart (the Moon square especially), and then it's gotta go and be SR, to boot. Yikes. I like Chiron. I do feel its placement in my 7th house, though. Probably from witnessing my parents' own horrendous marriage, I've always been aware of how painful partnerships can be. As a kid, I never daydreamed about a Prince Charming, or weddings, or any of that romantic crap. I started out jaded, and I've had to deliberately teach myself to be more trusting and innocent. But then again, maybe that's my Venus in Cap. IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 1126 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2011 08:14 PM
I have an ex from long ago who had a moon in my 8th houseIP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 06:22 AM
How did it play out Carl? Did you feel a deep connection?IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 1126 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2011 11:44 AM
Sorry not to explain. Yah, it was her moon in my 8th house, but near the DC (so almost cusp but not quite) and I felt I became more confident, sexually, andfor the first time found I was expressing my deepest emotions, almost too comofortable in fact. She awakened a deep desire that had never been felt, the desire to travel. What do you mean transformative though? In what regard, maybe I can add something.Also, my moon was in her MC, but again, close to the 9th house, but not quite on the line. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 01:15 PM
It WAS transformative, you've just said it Means that it made you change, "evolve".Did you have a hard time letting of that person, Carl? The 8th house is a fixed house, after all. I think the 5th house can trigger sexual feelings even more.. did any of her planets fall in your 5th also? IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 1126 From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond) Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2011 05:14 PM
I think we both held on for a real long time but she finally got tired. The actual break up, though it hurt, was not too bad and I was over it pretty quick.Planets in 5.. Merucry (almost on the line (cusp) of IC/5 but barely in 5), Uranus, Venus and Neptune were all in her house 5. None of her planets were in my 5th house. Her houses were very evenly spread out through out my houses 1-12, maybe lending to her balanced approach to "us"..maybe. She was good at focuing at different diverse faucets of our relationship I think. IP: Logged |
lunatic Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 15, 2011 07:04 PM
She has her Moon in my 8th house and I have my Sun in her 4th House in a conjuction. I felt she is my Soul. I will never let go.IP: Logged |
ashxoxo Newflake Posts: 15 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 05, 2019 06:09 PM
I have this with my honey. For me, I’m way more honest with him than anyone I’ve ever been with. That might be something else though. I can honestly say that I have TONS of issues with jealousy, suspiciousness and mind games. I always RANDOMLY get suspicious, and so does he. We both have jealousy issues that we try to hide. I let mine out way more though. We also have a composite scorpio rising. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 109161 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 05, 2019 07:02 PM
Welcome! Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |