posted January 23, 2008 12:31 PM
Thanks - though it would be easier with a chart to look at, and there are no signs so this is really a quick look. Are you about the same age? Saturn, Neptune, Uranus and Pluto are all conjunct.
Pluto can indicate powerful connection but given its long orbit period, to be relevant the aspects need to be close in orb, and it of course says more if they are connected to a personal planet. Otherwise it could apply to anyone around the same age.
His Sun/Venus/Pluto group of planets is Sextile your Ascendant which suggests there is some nice chemistry going on that could make you feel more confident about your attractiveness and how you express yourself physically. The Venus/Pluto is also Sextile your Mercury so there could be a mental combatability that is a bond between you.
Your Mercury is also Conjunct both his Saturn and Neptune - is that on your natal as well? The mix of Mercury and Neptune is suggestive of wishful thinking so watch that one!
Moon Trine Jupiter is lovely, sympathetic and caring. Moon Square Saturn, as you pointed out is more jarring. Sun Trine Mars is energetic and enthusiastic, Sun Square Sun has will-power and egos clashings.
Like in most relationships there is a mix of harmonious and less harmonious. Whether there is enough to pull you together and keep you together I couldn't say based on this information, and even if I had it all I couldn't say, either. Whether relationships get off the ground depends on timing as well as chemistry. But if you're not already with him, why not grasp the nettle. A brief moment of dignity is all you've got to lose.