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misterhank
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posted January 29, 2008 08:18 PM
 
Hello. I haven't asked specifically anyone about this question...but I'm hoping someone here would give me an accurate answer.I've been overwhelmed with so many changes throughout the last 4-5 months, it almost feel like a certain part (or certain *parts*) of me being stripped away so slowly. I had room changes, new case workers who barely know me, and I feel like I'm being slapped so hard by Pluto for not accepting change. But I can't accept trust with new strangers because it feels like strangers can do bad things and get away with so much murder. My question is this: How can I accept change when it gets so overwhelming that is beyond controllable? *P.S.: I have an active hobby now. It's collecting art from the Internet. So far I have over at least 80 people in my roster and have collected hundreds of artwork.
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Hank Campbell
Far Rockaway, Queens, NY
*Sun: 8th House/Leo, Moon: 3rd House/Pisces, Venus: 8th House/Leo, Mars: 6th House/Cancer, Jupiter: 8th House/Leo, Saturn: 8th House/Virgo, ASC: Capricorn "A gifted mind needs a gifted heart to sympathize others who are in vain." IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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posted January 29, 2008 09:54 PM
Your art collection sounds interesting, Hank  I've collected a lot of art off the web too, and saved it to my hard-drive.....It sounds like you already know the answer to your issue -- if something is "beyond controllable," what else can one do except Let Go and Go With the Flow?? Trust does not come easy, but you might say to yourself "I trust in the Universe to give me what I need" when you get anxious -- and stop fighting it. The old way is gone/done -- the new way is being shown to you. That's what my last Pluto transit was like..... if you continue to fight against and be apprehensive about changes in your world, Pluto will dig you a VERY deep hole to work your way out of. Resistance is Futile!!  IP: Logged |
Purple_Chick_71
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posted January 29, 2008 10:41 PM
Howdy! There have been a few threads talking about Pluto transits. I was trying to find one in particular, and I cam across this one, too. There's a link in it, as well. Good luck!
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Sun - Capricorn (10th House)
Moon - Gemini (2nd House)
Mercury - Sagittarius (9th House)
Venus - Aquarius (11th House)
Mars - Aries (12th House)
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blue moon
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posted January 30, 2008 06:00 AM
?How can you accept change when it gets so overwhelming that it is beyond control? Because you don't have any choice. There is only a limited extent to which we are in control of our lives and what happens. Plenty of things are imposed upon us that we just have to live with it, like it or not. As an example, right now Pluto is Square my Moon. I'm getting over a major bereavement, a tragic early death in the family. It would be trite to say something good has come out of it, whatever that may be just isn't worth it. I don't like it, but that's tough, just got to ride it. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
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posted January 30, 2008 09:34 AM
Blue Moon is right. The changes brought about by a Pluto transit are not changes that you want to resist. To answer you question about the uncontrollable changes, it sounds like you are being pushed to trust. I think I'm repeating something else that someone already said here but it's times like these when you need to have a higher power to trust whether it's God or a Universal Higher Power and then you realize that you can only live your life one day at a time. That's what that phrase is for, when you realize that you are powerless and your life has become unmanageable, you have to trust that a higher power can restore you to sanity. The main energy of Pluto is destruction for regeneration or rebirth. What Azalaksh quoted from "Star Trek" characters "The Borg" is true. Resistance is futile. When you resist the changes that Pluto focuses on, it can literally ravage your system, whether is psychological, physical or spiritual. The rule with Plutonic changes is to put on your seat belt and roll with the changes. The only way to get relief from the pain you're in or the pressures you feel is understand that life is demanding changes of you, demanding that you be resourceful in a different way and to understand that you are here to learn, to grow and to expand. May God bless you through these difficult times. Blue Moon, I'm sorry to hear about your loss and may God bless you and yours during your difficult time. Geocosmic Valentine ------------------
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blue moon
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posted January 30, 2008 11:14 AM
Thanks, G.V, we are doing O.K. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted January 30, 2008 11:19 AM
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BLKFox
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posted January 30, 2008 11:30 AM
--What I don't like about some "New Age" thinking is that all circumstances in life can, & should be controlled...it simply ISN'T TRUE...life really is to be lived one day, & one step at a time.
I think it's important to remember that we only see part of the big picture---and our perceptions are often distorted by prejudices based on past experiences.
When we resist change, we may very well be blocking some wonderful gift the universe has in store for us, moreover, we are conditioned by conditioned American society to fear change!
I say, treat change like the adventure that it is...Act As If only good can come from change, & watch what happens...IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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posted January 30, 2008 01:16 PM
I completely feel for you, and understand what it's like when life seems to be stripping away everything you know yourself and your life to be. I think life sometimes has to deconstruct you in order to build you back up on the right path. It's very simiar to the patterns of nature, where every once in a while, there will be an immense fire, or natural disaster that will burn or destroy everything, so that things can start anew. A pure, fresh beginning. Don't fight the change, let it pass over you and through you. Just go with it, and try to grow through it. Meditation is an immense help...to sit and shut off your mind and listen to the universe. Be strong, this chaos will not last forever. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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posted January 30, 2008 01:27 PM
blue moon ~I am sorry to hear about your loss 
I just spent over two years with Pluto sq Moon myself..... IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted January 30, 2008 03:47 PM
Thanks, Zala. IP: Logged |
SattvicMoon
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posted January 30, 2008 03:58 PM
quote:
I've been overwhelmed with so many changes throughout the last 4-5 months, it almost feel like a certain part (or certain *parts*) of me being stripped away so slowly.
I can relate with you. I would attribute it to Pluto transit as well. Because, when I look back, I do realize such life-changing episodes way back in 1995, the previous Pluto transit to Sagittarius. Atleast this time, I am wise enough to acknowledge the changes spiritually. quote:
My question is this: How can I accept change when it gets so overwhelming that is beyond controllable?
The answer is in the question itself brother. If it is beyond controllable, what is the point in worrying? Let be.
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*P.S.: I have an active hobby now. It's collecting art from the Internet. So far I have over at least 80 people in my roster and have collected hundreds of artwork.
Cool, good luck with that. ------------------
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