posted February 02, 2008 03:16 AM              

Are there certain aspects or placements that might denote the individual to be naturally or instinctually good in bed? Does anyone have any experience with past relationships or lovers?

posted February 02, 2008 03:22 AM            

tisk, tisk.

posted February 02, 2008 03:29 AM            

I would say good Mars Jupiter Contacts.

posted February 02, 2008 03:30 AM            

It takes two - doesn't it (unless you are talking about DIY or threesomes)? You both have to put some effort in. Or maybe I have been doing this wrong.

Check out what Mars is doing would be my first thought. Both on the natal chart and the synastry chart. Hard aspects with Mars tend to show up in my personal experience.

posted February 02, 2008 03:38 AM            

are gemini women the best?

hard aspects to Mars eh? I guess I qualify I also failed to mention a big factor my Mars in the 7th house.

posted February 02, 2008 03:44 AM            

S.S, you sound like a sensitive, caring guy. I'm sure with that and your big Mars you will make ladies happy.

posted February 02, 2008 12:10 PM              

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted February 02, 2008 12:53 PM            

Im not worried about satisfying ladies I was just asking you about what sign you think is the best.. but you would prolly tell me yours.. so I guess I should be asking a man. My ex's still dont hesitate to tell me I was excellent. one tells me Im the best ever. even after she has been with other people. She is a sun scorp 9th conjunct pluto in the 8th with her mars and merc also in the 8th trine the AC. But I was still dominant. yes a cancer over a scorpio believe it

posted February 02, 2008 01:13 PM            

He probably would though, because of his 4 serious girlfriends, 3 were Geminis. Two of us share a birthday, one had hers 2 days later. (not same year)

posted February 02, 2008 04:12 PM            

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Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

posted February 02, 2008 05:16 PM            

To me the best would be someone I see as FREE and not hung up on anything.. open to everything, optimistic, honest - and free lol

To be that he'd have to have:

- a nice childhood (good sun/moon aspects)

- fairly good relationship with both parents (good sun/moon *and* saturn/mercury)
and if the relationship turned bad - then someone who has truly forgiven and forgotten and isn't on autopilot to hurt people due to anger towards parents(or exes for that matter)

- like for his own body (self esteem) (venus/asc)

- no guilt attached to sex whatsoever (seeing sex as an awesome and positive thing) (Jupiter/Venus and Jupiter/Mars, Sagittarius sun helps hehe)

- like/love for the opposite sex (venus/mars)

- respect for himself and others (Jupiter well placed)

- passion - lots of passion (some fire in his chart)

- and being able to tune into women so he knows what they want (Neptunian aspects/Pisces in chart)

posted February 02, 2008 06:43 PM              

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted February 02, 2008 10:48 PM            

coral- good basic analysis, and I agree.

I love that I come back to LL and all these great sexual topics are up. i guess it's february.. or is it always like this here?

hhhmmm..now for fond reminiscing. by far the most fantastic male lover I've had so far-
~scorpio sun.merc.venus.pluto.
~venus/pluto conjunction.
~aqua mars conjunct descendant
~leo asc.
~jupiter in pisces in the 7th.
~venus trine jupiter

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........

if it were like a pot on the stove, I'd say a dash of all the elements helps- makes the person have all those different types of understanding and intuition.. because they're all important, aren't they? and it's great when they're all present

water for feeling/intuition/connection
fire for passion, spontaneity, confidence
air for mind melding, words also intuition
earth for sensuality, physicality..