posted February 06, 2008 11:13 AM              

For example:
Someone with Pisces-DSC would be drawn to someone with Pisces-ASC, Neptune in 1st house or ASC in strong aspect to Neptune.
Do you have something like that?

I really think, the attraction starts there, with a comparision of what everyone needs.
I`d look at 7th house and 5th house for that (maybe also 8th house) and compare if the other one has Sun, Moon, ASC or chartruler-placements that fit.

If nothing`s there - well, then nothing`s there.

Also, how about aspects between 5th, 7th, 8th house ruler with the ruler of 5th, 7th, 8th and 1st house of the other person?
Particularly, any connections of 7th and 8th house of one person to the 1st and 5th house of the other person?

posted February 06, 2008 04:06 PM              

It's like how serial killers have really amazing synastry/composites with their victims, and vice versa.

posted February 07, 2008 02:26 AM              

Sun Scorpio 7°50'01 in house 4
Moon Pisces 21°53'36 in house 8
Mercury Sagittarius 1°26'56 end of house 4
Venus Scorpio 25°29'10 in house 4
Mars Leo 20°45'14 in house 1
Jupiter Virgo 5°41'38 in house 2
Saturn Virgo 23°16'42 in house 2
Uranus Scorpio 20°28'22 in house 4
Neptune Sagittarius 18°43'53 in house 5
Pluto Libra 19°52'28 in house 3
True Node Virgo 6°40'13 in house 2

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Leo 6°51'04
2nd House Leo 29°08'25
3rd House Virgo 25°44'03
Imum Coeli Libra 27°40'09
5th House Sagittarius 2°50'58
6th House Capricorn 6°44'09
Descendant Aquarius 6°51'04
8th House Aquarius 29°08'25
9th House Pisces 25°44'03
Medium Coeli Aries 27°40'09
11th House Gemini 2°50'58
12th House Cancer 6°44'09

Him:

Sun Libra 18°29'57 in house 6
Moon Scorpio 16°20'57 in house 7
Mercury Scorpio 13°31'15 in house 7
Venus Virgo 7°46'06 in house 5
Mars Scorpio 29°34'46 in house 7
Jupiter Virgo 26°48'15 end of house 5
Saturn Libra 2°29'30 in house 6
Uranus Scorpio 23°38'52 in house 7
Neptune Sagittarius 20°20'55 in house 8
Pluto Libra 21°33'58 in house 6
True Node Leo 18°11'20 in house 4

posted February 07, 2008 04:43 AM              

for example, your moon-sun opposition forms a 9 deg orb which i think is too big to be potent. your venus at 25 Scorpio is still pretty far away from his moon(though this aspect is active), and a 7 deg orb from Mercury. but i think your Mars is playing a much more influential role here, as the orbs are tighter in squares to his Scorpio stuff. As being that you are a woman, Mars comes more prominently in play when it comes to who you are attracted to. i think most of the mild attraction is through the Leo-Libra sextile from your Mars to his Sun which is a positive aspect but not enough.

posted February 07, 2008 06:26 AM            

The friend will find someone else.

quote:

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He's actually crazy about the friend of mine that introduced us.

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because he told u that?

posted February 07, 2008 11:56 AM            

But, you have some important planets falling in HIS 7th house, and that could indicate indeed a relationship leading to marriage.

I see that your 7th house of marriage, Aquarius, falls in his 11th house, the house of friendship, so the friendship thing is big for between you.

posted February 07, 2008 09:18 PM            

I once had a "friend" that I had incredible synastry with. There was a considerable age difference, so it was unlikely that anything would have came of it. Then he stabbed me in the back and betrayed me. I can't be around people that I can't trust, so I told him goodbye. He still calls my cellphone sporadically, but never leaves a message.

My placements:
Sun in Scorpio 23 1st house
Ascendant in Scorpio 11
Moon in Leo 13 9th house
Mercury in Scorpio 4 12th house
Venus in Scorpio 21 1st house
Mars in Aquarius 17 3rd house
Jupiter in Cancer 29 9th house
Saturn in Scorpio 13 1st house
Karma asteroid in Virgo 10 10th house

His placements:
Sun in Libra 8 8th house
Ascendant in Aquarius 14
Moon in Scorpio 8 8th house
Mercury in Scorpio 2 8th house
Venus in Scorpio 20 9th house
Mars in Leo 17 7th house
Jupiter in Libra 17 8th house
Saturn in Libra 13 8th house
North Node in Cancer 29 6th house
Vertex in Virgo 10 7th house

Composite chart has stelliums in the 9th, 10th and 11th houses, including Venus/Mars conjunction in the 11th house and Moon/Uranus/Pluto conjunction in the 9th house. It was a very intense relationship.

posted February 07, 2008 09:30 PM            

Unless they are
- dating
- going out
- in a relationship
- de factos
- planning on being de factos
- getting engaged
- getting married
- planning on having babies (u get the drift lol)

It's hearsay (subject to interpretation - including your friends) and obviously not set in any stone.. so maybe he loved her that night when he said it lol.. I don't know - based on what you said so far there could be a lot between them or there could be nothing at all.

You should get to know him better.. if you think you guys could be right for each other and see where things go from there.

posted February 08, 2008 08:11 AM            

I wasn't saying 'flirt with him' or 'hit on him'. You asked whether you should stay away from him. There is a lot of grey area between staying completely away from someone and putting the moves on.

I just meant be normal around him - see him as you would anyone else.. if the situation comes about, and talk, get to know him..

Only if you want to, off course.

If you're completely uninterested in him as a person and a man.. then don't worry about it. Astrology won't *make you* be interested in someone. That's your free will at work.

posted February 08, 2008 02:13 PM            

I noticed that none of the big 3 are in compatible signs

Your Suns aren't in compatible elements
Your Moons aren't in compatible elements
Your Ascendants aren't in compatible elements

having all of your big 3 in incompatible elements is a big sign of incompatibility in traditional astrology

2 of the big 3 in compatible elements would indicate some good basic compatibility.

the Mars in tight opposition also is very challenging as actions,passions are at odds with each other. This can be rather challenging if you don't have basic compatibility.

You didn't list your Uranus,Neptune,and Pluto placements....so I couldn't see how they compare with the other planets,points. Also the aspects to the Midheaven/Imum Coeli axis are important to. Cosmobiologists and Uranian Astrology believe that Midheaven/Imum Coeli axis is the most important point..even more important than the Ascendant/Descendant axis.

posted February 08, 2008 02:27 PM            

Your Suns aren't in compatible elements
Your Ascendants aren't in compatible elements
Your Moons are in compatible elements

So 1 out of your big 3 are in compatible elements... that's doesn't show a good degree of basic compatibility. at least 2 out of the big 3 would be good for compatibility.
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also to add to that....Your Marses aren't in compatible elements either nor are your Mercurys. Your Venuses are.

There is also no telling what's going on in the declinations.

like others have said in here,

free will is the ultimate factor.

there are many factors in why people with good synastries might not be interested in each other.

some factors could be things like age difference,ethnic differences,racial differences,intellectual differences,social background differences,religious differences,educational differences....they may not like people who do drugs,alcohol,or party a lot.....some might think that person is not attractive looking....some might prefer a person of the same race,some might prefer a person of a difference race, some might like partners who have lots of money, some might like partners who are muscular, some might like partners who are thin...............it really depends on the person.

There was a couple that had numerous trines and only one hard aspect - Saturn square Neptune.