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posted February 07, 2008 04:33 AM            

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I have edited the post.

The person righted their wrong. and I will not expose them to the forum. for now.

good day!

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posted February 07, 2008 04:54 AM              

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Yikes! Sounds pretty CREEPY!

EDITED OUT....

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posted February 07, 2008 05:06 AM            

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YFIS.

I didnt post on that thread at all and please notice the revision to my first post in this thread.

thanks and good day hun!

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posted February 07, 2008 05:15 AM              

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Heee...heee...
Just noticed, I confused this moment with another members post, LOL!

*silly me

Anyways, glad that you are able to move forward and find a sort of resolution

*Remember too...
You still have that boomerang thing.
No one dare mess with a man holding a boomerang

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posted February 07, 2008 05:55 AM            

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What happened?

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posted February 07, 2008 03:46 PM            

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hah.

yea or I might throw it. nah my pincer works alot better. and the snap and kebab from it can be pretty malicious. sadly most down realize this until they have already started to feel it. People should just take it from me when I say I can be the sweetest guy you can ever know. but never have me as an enemy!

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posted February 07, 2008 03:59 PM              

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but never have me as an enemy!

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Well you did admit to torturing animals while growing up so it's best not to be your enemy.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:08 PM            

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Oh, the mystery continues.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:21 PM            

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perhaps. but i wouldnt for the world think about doing anything like that today. to humans and animals alike. And perhaps tormenting would be a better word. its not like I tied them down and pin pricked them.. lol. Just messing around like many other boys do at such a young age when they dont know any better.

on the contrary im much rather prefer harmony over fighting any day. and in this case I didnt even need to see the person living all the way across the country. the problem was solved with some well placed words and wit, I like doing things this way

anything else cupcake? lol that sounds funny.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:23 PM            

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I feel ignored, but it's ok, I'll figure it out. I just haven't been here for days.

Well, be good people.

Cheers.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:40 PM              

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Kevin, you just made me laugh at this memory.
We "My brother and I" used to take clear tape and roll it over itself so that all sides were sticky then put it on the underside of our kitties paw. Watching him do a silly dance and twitching that limb was flippin' hilarious! No harm was done and it was great enjoyment.
Kids do, do these things... LOL!

I also recall a not so friendly event of a neighborhood boy who liked to put his kitty in the dryer (to get him dizzy) he was kind enough to put it on fluff dry where no heat was used but sad all the same...

Poor little kitty...

Children are learning boundaries while testing the ground with animals, people, nature, etc. This is a normal part of growing up. As an adult it may seem barbaric but it is a part of human discovery all the same.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:43 PM            

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unmoved.

a person from the forum seeked me out and got ahold of me through I.M. and txt messaging and called me.. from what I learned from the person. they were not at all right in the head and clearly didnt belong on the forum. so I exposed them.. but then they apoligized and I decided to change the post.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:46 PM            

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I am sorry to hear that SS. Are you ok though? I would feel violated. Well, from what I am reading, you sound like you have confidently sorted it out, but still... it should leave a bitter taste in your mouth.

Sorry to hear that, again.

And... I tortured animals too when I was a child. I am not proud of it, but nowadays, I would not hurt a living thing. So, I suppose, as YFIS said, it is part of growing up.

I read somewhere that serial killers tortured animals when they were young. I felt really bad about the possibility of becoming a serial killer later in life, but I am over it now. If I can't kill a roach, I doubt that I would graduate to humans.

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posted February 07, 2008 04:59 PM            

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nah

I wasnt violated. I was a little flattered. Through the name calling and arguing I was confused as to why she wanted to know about me. I thought maybe she didnt like me or something and she said I was fake. but when it all came down I guess she had an attraction for me and was "flirting" but that is not the way to win a crabs heart lol. although i am partial to the idea of competing with someone I could hold an attraction for and arguing with and fighting.. the passion and fire worked up in that.. gosh. lol a Mars well placed in Aries sitting in the 7th .. thanks astrology. love/hate I dont see much of a difference..

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posted February 07, 2008 05:04 PM            

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How did they get your personal information?

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posted February 07, 2008 05:07 PM            

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Went into my profile clicked my facebook link followed that and got my screename.

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posted February 07, 2008 05:18 PM            

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Well, you're more solid than I am. I get freaked out easily. I have had stalkers. One used to camp out my house and follow me everywhere. He felt harmless but... he was intense. Fortunately, he died mysteriously. I know I shouldn't be smiling, but I felt safer thereafter.

My buddy, a producer in the entertainment industry, had a female DJ do that to him. She fought with him, and when he wasn't interested, she went on a rampage to defile his name. Their's ended awfully because he told her that she wasn't his type due to her manner of approach which was just too forceful and psycho, and that's when she retaliated by creating difficulties for him, spreading lies and making him lose credibility, with false stories in the papers etc.

Now, I did not take that lightly, and this girl is going to pay because she didn't know that I was his friend. My Cancer Moon (vindictiveness) and my Scorpio Mars (passion) and my Virgo Sun (patience) are going to have her groveling for his forgiveness soon. Thing is; he is a sweet guy and he didn't deserve her scorn.

Yeah, some do have a funny way of showing attraction. Like in pre-school when a kid punches you because they like you.

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posted February 07, 2008 05:24 PM            

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Unmoved..

lol thats so true. and wow that story sounds intense.. like i said i dont have so much objection against it. I like the idea of a girl coming at me a different way.. but when it looks like they have issues.. then it starts to lose the attraction on my part.

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posted February 07, 2008 05:32 PM            

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You let her off easily bud (or he...) and gotta say this person was the milder type. The stalker I had to deal with was so adamant at it, I had to threaten legal action. So really, these days I really do take care as to who I add in my MSN list and who goes on my facebook, zorpia, etc. account.

Good thing this person let off easy man.

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posted February 07, 2008 05:37 PM            

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lmao..

think of Helga from Hey Arnold!

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posted February 07, 2008 05:43 PM            

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It is intense, the scale of it is bigger. She is a diva, so now, she shall learn a little thing called humility. His Moon, ny friend, is also Cancer... so imagine when we are put together. LOL...

The weird thing is, he and I are the sweetest people, ever... but abuse our kindness and we flip. And currently, I am not expecting anything less than a public retracting of her lies in the same manner and medium in which she made these lies.

Or, she can undo all the damage she did to his name. The woman cried harassment to the radio bosses! That was after my buddy, quite forcefully told her to "f" off.

Anyway... that's why I get upset about experiences like yours. People think that they can say and do anything without consequences... WRONG!

Xodian is right. You let her off too easily. I guess you're wiser, but...

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posted February 07, 2008 05:43 PM            

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Oh Helga atleast kept her distance and admired Arnod from afar. That's OK IMO. But staking... it ain't romantic or cool ppl.

People don't think about that when they post up things like "Possesiveness is ok" or "Jealousy is just fine." No it ain't fine if its taken way too far. Stalking is a perfect example of why it can turn into a "not so fine" situation.

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posted February 07, 2008 06:07 PM            

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Xod.

that post about hey arnold wasnt a reply to your post.

but that doesnt sound good and you seem pretty sensitive about it. atleast it got resolved.. were you really that worried and or afraid of her?

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posted February 07, 2008 06:19 PM            

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Is Jen back?

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posted February 07, 2008 06:21 PM            

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I know it wasn't but I was just using your analogical example as a key definer as what stalking is .

And no, I wasn't afraid of her; Just weary after the fact that the things she posted up on my blog, the emails, she sent, etc... Well lets just say if it were a 14 year old or someone minor, it would sound really freaky. And yes indeed it took a while to get her to stop doing it.

I am not sensitive on the issue but I do want people to know that there is quite a bit of difference between a healthy crush and an unhealthy obsession. Some of us don't appreciate it.

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