posted February 09, 2008 07:16 AM            

Well, it seems that transits last 2 weeks were in my favour, including Eclipse on my Venus, Jupiter sextile Uranus and Moon, Progressive Moon conjucting CHiron in 4th house, brought NOTHIN.
I tried to do something good of it with my ex, but all went bad again...
So much events and obstacles that it seems that whatever I do in my personal life has no effect, positive one...
It is not problem to be alone, like a lone wolf...but no one can enjoy being for some time like that. I am just human.

It seems that even this year will bring solitude. No Jupi or NN can make difference.
Dunno what to say, but whatever I do, cant change things to better...and If I sit and wait, nothing happens.

posted February 09, 2008 07:50 PM              

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i would have loved to help you but i'll have to pass on that one cause i don't know if it's the eclipse or what, but this week end i'm knackered.

ps: i'm the first one to be tempted to have an overview of what the universe hold on store for me but i doubt if it's necessary.

the best advice i got in my life came from my sister(leo sun/aries moon) in a time of great stress for me, and i'll never forget that one:

posted February 09, 2008 08:28 PM            

But I am one of ppl that don't fall in love very often, searching for something in eyes, that will awake my Piscies Moon. If don't it is my Sag AC that makes me run away...

My data: 26th December 1976, 6:15 AM, Zagreb, Croatia.

Some said, even I, that this is a year when I will met "She", but I think it is BS...

posted February 10, 2008 05:31 AM            

But this is gone to far...

posted February 10, 2008 05:10 PM              

I don't know who told you to expect love this year, but I don't agree. They probably put too much emphasis on your progressed chart's venus in pisces. I don't put too much stock in progressed charts. I only use them as an adjunct to the natal.

So, the natal: Neptune is closely conjunct the AC - You delude yourself about how people see you and you project an image that is not really who you are...then you become angry when people react to this fabricated persona. Keep in mind, it's opposite your DC (of relationships). You think you give people what they want, but you hurt yourself in doing so.

You have mars and sun in the 1st house also. Do you come on a little strong? This could turn people off. It's important to note that both natal mars and sun are completely unaspected. This either makes you seem overbearing and aggressive to others or the opposite: a doormat. I don't really know without knowing you, but I suspect it's a little of both. You really are one way, but you project the opposite to others. This makes your relationships very difficult. You need to develop your sun more before you will have a relationship. The ruler of your sun is in the 8th house; further evidence that you hide your true self from others. You need to get more in touch with your feelings and learn to share them in a healthy way - not just when you're angry.

Your venus is in your 2nd house of values and self-worth. This is significant. You must build your self-esteem before you can have a real, deep relationship. It's square jupiter. This probably makes you defensive and a bit resentful - you may feel everyone is trying to abuse your good nature. Venus opposite saturn will give delays in love.

Venus trine pluto. Again, you come on too strongly...become obsessed even. The solution is to go back to your venus in the 2nd in aquarius. You have to develop your self-worth without a relationship first. TN in the 10th reinforces this. Focus on your career - focus on anything but finding a relationship until your more secure. Try to regain the detachment of your aqua venus, but not as a game, but for real.

I suspect you have many unrequited love's. You go for people you know (subconsciously) you can't have, because you are not ready for a real relationship.(Moon in pisces square neptune)

Your transits are difficult and have been for some time. You've had Pluto going through your 12th house (now it's in your 1st). It's crossed your AC in the past, conjuncting that which is intense. Then, it was conjunct your mars - anger problems and confrontations were most likely abundant as were power struggles. Right now it's conjuncting your sun. It will return to pass over your mars again in the summer.

tMars is currently at the end of your 7th house of relationships and open enemies; people want to challenge you and there is much discord in relations. This and pluto in your 1st must've been difficult and brought more fights with others.

Most of the transiting planets are in your 2nd house. So, the stars are forcing you to examine your values and self-worth. Do some soul searching to figure out who you are and what you want. The significant one's are: neptune, TN, and chiron - all sitting on your natal venus - the REAL reason for this question you've posed.

Uranus is on your moon right now, stirring up your emotions.

This is an emotionally turbulent time for you.

Also, the February 6th eclipse just really impacted your natal venus with under a 2* orb. It happened in your 2nd house, reinforcing the advice I gave you about developing your self-worth.

I'm not really going to get into your solar return, but you have neptune and chiron in the 7th house this year. Venus is in the 5th - further proof you should not have anything serious this year, but should focus on you and just date casually.

posted February 11, 2008 06:51 AM            

But I know what I want. I don't want casual relationships and to be with somebody just because I am alone.
I know my type of woman, and I will fight for it even I lose...I dont want to go below that.
Emotions are my guide, and If I start to approach love with realism and logic, I am dead person.

I agree about self-worth. I should be proud when things get going, not compromising too much. That is true.

Regarding transits this year I think you missed 3 things that I found interesting:

Chiron conjucting Venus
NN conjucting Venus
Progressive Moon conjucting South Node
Jupiter conjucting Mercury (ruler of the 7th house)

It happens in May and June in same time,
THis are not common transits, and from my experience, one thing that always had "strike" is transiting NN.

posted February 11, 2008 09:07 PM              

I did talk about NN and Chiron contacting your venus. I didn't mention the progressed moon, because I didn't want to get into the progressed aspects.

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Most of the transiting planets are in your 2nd house. So, the stars are forcing you to examine your values and self-worth. Do some soul searching to figure out who you are and what you want. The significant one's are: neptune, TN, and chiron - all sitting on your natal venus - the REAL reason for this question you've posed.

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I think you're expecting those contacts to be good, when they really are pretty trying - not bad but not good either. I think they are there to make you re-evaluate your wants and values in love and get you more in touch with your aqua vibe.

I didn't do jupiter conjunct mercury because I don't think it will affect your love life much.

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I know my type of woman, and I will fight for it even I lose...I dont want to go below that.
Emotions are my guide, and If I start to approach love with realism and logic, I am dead person.

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According to your chart, this won't work for you. I also think you need to stop coming on too strong - it's scaring love's away.

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I agree about self-worth. I should be proud when things get going, not compromising too much. That is true.

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That's not quite what I meant. I think you need to gain more self confidence before you find love, so that you can detach more like your aqua venus wants to. I think you and I have different meanings for "detached." I don't mean casual, but I mean less obesessed. I could explain more if you want to know.

Good luck.

posted February 12, 2008 04:38 AM            

Chiron conjucting Venus and NN are rare transits regarding emotional life. I think it is not just about re-evaluate. Maybe through some decent relationship (Zala said something 2 months ago as I remember).
Regarding too strong approach, there is true to some point, but I think that in this case I need intesive and passionate woman.
I don't need to re-evaluate anything, I am doing that for 3 years now and If you ask me it was enough. I need to keep my emotion below the horizont and be cool, that is all I can do. I hope some intense Scorpio woman comes .

posted February 12, 2008 08:49 PM              

You keep neglecting Neptune conjunct venus. You have to be on the look out for being delusional or foggy where love's involved.

My advice (you can choose to listen or not) what you've been doing obviously hasn't been working, so you need to change what you've been doing. TN is there to make you do it, chiron will wound you if you don't; and neptune will delude you if you let it.

posted February 13, 2008 02:37 AM            

Neptune conjucting Venus is one of the problems, but it "left" Venus 2 months ago. Uf....

Embrace Aquarius?

posted February 13, 2008 11:31 AM              

Neptune is tightly conjunct your venus right now - it's 2 degrees away from it. It's sitting right on it now. That's probably making you feel foggy, but it's separating, so that's good. Right now though, it's right there.

Chiron is applying (getting closer) it's 3 degrees away.

here's some info on chiron/venus.

Chiron-conjunct-Venus initially indicates a deep longing, a deep sense of being cut off from close personal relationship, a feeling that there is not enough love to fill the void within us.This aspect confers enormous empathy and sympathy for others in emotional need.The impulse to try to rescue others, to wrap them in cotton wool, so to speak, is highly evident here.

As we attend to our Wounds, blockages and unresolved issues, this aspect will increasingly give us an awareness of the Love that is within us and around us in our lives, but that we mostly do not see or acknowledge.In this way, we are increasingly able to share our Love with others in a way that 1) does not seek to rescue them, protect them and/or 'fix' their lives, 2) does not necessitate emotional dependence on others and 3) does not involve trying to plug our umbilical cords into others.Ultimately, we will merely seek to Love Unconditionally, knowing that Love is the greatest Healer.

NN won't hit it until the Fall - I'm not sure - I would need to check the ephemeris. It moves backwards (usually) and it's pretty slow, but it's approaching.

Embracing aquarius means picking up some venus in aquarius traits. So, not being so obsessive about love. This isn't to say you should change completely or that you should be cold, but that you should try to get in touch with this side of yourself.