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GemGemGem
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posted February 15, 2008 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, can anyone give me some insight into this person, such as personality, love style, etc.. from looking at his natal chart?

http://s263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/?action=view¤t=Chart.gif

Does his chart show a person who is stable/loyal, flighty/inconstant, etc...

Is this person capable of loving deeply, and lasting, or does he have some afflictions that may prevent this?

Any insights would be greatly appreciated!!
Thanks so much!!!


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Belage
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posted February 15, 2008 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, I'll bite.

First of all, I want to say that even if he is stable, loyal, loving and faithfull in nature, unless you have the right synastry with him, it won't really matter. Synastry is like chemistry. Either it's there or it's not.

To answer your questions:
He is Aquarius. Though Aquarians are a fixed sign, they are not very stable or committed, because they are ruled by unpredictable Uranus. This might be tempered by the fact that Neptune sextiles his sun giving him a dreamy outlook and qualities of tolerance and love. Neptune is tolerant and all-embracing, while Uranus is revolutionary and unpredictable.

He has Capricorn rising, which does confer an air of stability and seriousness. Cap is ruled by Saturn, and no planet is more stable and committed than Saturn.

Look at his 7th house, his house of marriage. His natal Saturn is placed there. Saturn while serious, is not a very loving planet. Most likely, this guy will be either afraid of marriage, or he will take marriage VERY seriously, or he might end up marrying an older person, or someone who comes across as serious and dutiful. It might not necessarily be someone he is in love with, since the same Saturn is squared by his Chiron.

He has Venus in Capricorn, so he approaches loves seriously, maybe even in a mercenary way, as in "what can she do materially for me?". Be on the lookout for that, considering Saturn falls in his 7th house of marriage.

That same Venus is squared by his Pluto, his moon and loosely by Jupiter, so this squares take away some of its saturnian quality. You might find obsessiveness (pluto), over indulgence (Jupiter), moodiness (Moon) in his love nature.

I noticed that Venus is in placed in the 1st house. Does it mean he likes himself quite a bit? lol

Moon in Aries, he has a fighting spirit and may like aggressive women.

As you can see, it is a mixed bag. We are all capable of love and hate, horoscopes show promise, not definite destiny.

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GemGemGem
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posted February 15, 2008 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Belage, thanks so much for the response. It was very helpful!

I can see glimpes of the "what can she do materially for me?" Venus in Capricorn description of him...

The Saturn in the 7th House description alarms me a little, since i feel like it is crime to marry someone you may not be in love with. I feel that love should be everything!

But you are so right, when you said, "horoscopes show promise, not definite destiny." So, I will not jump to conclusions so quickly about him.

Thanks so much!

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posted February 15, 2008 08:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
actually, aquarians are often very commitment oriented, and once they make up their mind to love you, they put their whole self into it, generally.

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posted February 16, 2008 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've heard such mixed things about Aquarians in this forum which ranges from people saying things like Aquas are the liars of the zodiac...to saying they are the most committed, wonderful, and loyal individuals.

I don't know what to think anymore. That's why I posted the chart, so I could get an idea of the whole picture of the individual and not just the Aqua, which seems to have such mixed interpretations.

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posted February 16, 2008 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just be careful in the beginning of the relationship of relying on astrology too much, you could easily take away the energy you two need to bond.

I think it is better used as an adjunct and you can creep into his psyche later with the help of the natal chart.

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posted February 16, 2008 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ps: follow your heart, for in your heart lies your most accurate indicator.

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posted February 16, 2008 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know you are right hippichick. I think I just get so freaked out sometimes by all the negative stuff said about Aquas.

The last thing I need right now is to completely fall for a man, and have him treat my love like it was all a mind game.

I don't really trust my judgement anymore either, b/c I obviously I didn't see very clearly when it came to my ex-husband. I guess I am turning to astrology to help me see a bit more clearly in a detached way.

...or maybe I'm using it as an excuse to be able to tell myself I can push this person away because of such and such negative aspects in his chart.

I am trying to protect myself from getting hurt in love...but in reality I know there is nothing we can really do to protect ourselves and guarantee that we won't get hurt.

Thanks for listening to my ramblings.

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heart cakes
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posted February 18, 2008 05:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
gemini and aquarius are very compatible. i dated an aquarius who was a liar though, big time. he had some other stuff going on that i think accounted for it though, in his chart. GENERALLY, since aquarius is fixed, once it makes up its mind, it stays on course. i think most of the weirdness about aquarius is that they don't tend to commit too easily. but my sense is that when they do, it's for real.

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posted February 18, 2008 05:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i also think communication is key with aquarius, and for you, as a triple gemini, is probably totally necessary, i would think. as long as you don't get too emotional too fast and try to talk things through about your relationship, just keeping it on a light level, musing, curious, etc, i think you should be able to talk about pretty much anything with an aquarius! good luck! just relax and take it one day or date at a time.. feel it out..

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posted February 18, 2008 07:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I could see the capircorn rissing adding some problems.

Its just my suspicion, but if you ever get hurt I whould blame his cap rissing.

Is he vary creative with his own interesting ideas, but also vary stubburn with his ideas???

You know with the "I'm right attitude"

I can see that maybe happening because of the capircorn rissing with an air sign.

While being vary passionate on what he thinks.

I have a capircorn rissing and I'm like that most of the time.

I have my own creative ideas on things, but have a hard time getting acceptence from my class because there a bunch of quarter brained morons, who like tradional ways of doing things.

I'm taking Game Design and all of them I swear have "Developmental issues".

So, if he's in a position were he has well thought out ideas and has enought to back it up and still get resistance.

He might be vary cold.

I had an Aqua proffesor who has a capircorn rissing and he was like that he had his own ways of teaching, I agreed with them and he had enought to back up his claims.

But he turned cold to everyone but me,since most of the class didn't like his style.

So that might happen with him.

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posted February 18, 2008 07:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with heart cakes aqua and gems do get along.

But I think the two signs are better off as really close freinds.

I know the two signs will always come to rescue the other in times of need.

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posted February 18, 2008 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GemGemGem,

How do you experience his mars in gemini? What do you feel comes out more in the romantic context his venus in capricorn, or the mars in gemini. i.e. did you get the impression in the initial stages/courtship that he used the respectability and seriousness of his venus in capricorn more in trying to impress you. Or was it the chatiness and banter of a mars in gemini with which he was trying to impress you/flirt with you?Very curious...I know someone who has a similar chart as this guy, except his moon is in a different sign.

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GemGemGem
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posted February 18, 2008 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL...he does have an "I am right attitude!" His friends all call him stubborn!

I agree that one of the strongest parts of our relationship is communication. We talk a lot, and listen to eachother. We can discuss any topic in depth for hours. There is nothing off limits.

annaf, to answer your question, I definitely felt, and continue to feel his Capricorn Venus more during the courting process. He is very responsible...calls when he says he will, emails just enough days apart to be courteous yet not overwhelming, he acts in a very chivalrous manner, and is a gentleman. All of the places he has taken me have been very nice, upscale,(to impress)and classy. He listens when I talk, and never interrupts. It's almost too good to be true. I'm kind of waiting to see his bad side...haha. And some of his Aqua side too, cause I haven't seen much of it yet.

He is actually very affectionate too, and is always holding my hand, or has his arm around me, or on my back. I always thought that was not typical of an Aqua.

If I described his personality from what I've experienced it so far, it would probably be closer to Capricorn. But then again, I've only known him for 4 months. It was my understanding that typically the rising sign is the first aspect to come out, and then the Sun emerges later?

As for his Mars in Gemini, it is conjunct with my Sun, Moon, and Mercury. I feel a lot of intensity when I'm with him. Sometimes it's hard for me to take. I also feel an incredible physical attraction towards him.


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posted February 18, 2008 03:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It probably a no brainer, but i beat he's short tempared too??

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GemGemGem
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posted February 18, 2008 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually no...he is a very patient person. A very mild temperament.

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Glaucus
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posted February 18, 2008 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"I'm taking Game Design and all of them I swear have "Developmental issues"."

ummmmmmmm......so do I

Dyspraxia and Dyslexia which are known as developmental disorders.

ADHD too....but I don't consider that as a disorder.

I even refer to it as Attention Divergent Hyperactivity Diversity.

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