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Topic: Do Sagittarius Women having staying power in relationships?
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mizzsafiyah
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posted February 19, 2008 11:24 PM
 
I'm a sag woman with a venus is aquarius, moon in leo and an aquarius rising, mars in virgo. please give me your thoughts on Sag women in relationships. Can we marry just ONCE and make it last? If so, what does it take? ------------------
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BlueTopaz124
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posted February 19, 2008 11:32 PM
Most Sag women (including myself, I have four planets in Sag: sun, ascendant, mars & jupiter) are strong and their love of truth cuts through the bull most of the times.That said, Saggie women are a lot of fun, smart but don't put up with a lot of b.s. Unless, of course they're just out for a good time and can throw it right back. Relationships are important, but a strong man is required for us to look up to, lean on if necessary and to respect. I will listen to and empathize with a guy having a rough go of it, but if all they're after is sympathy and don't hold their own very well, doesn't sit well with me. Many Saggie women I know are very happily married and content. It just takes the right man and someone who will take the time to understand her and let her be herself. Works both ways. IP: Logged |
mizzsafiyah
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posted February 19, 2008 11:38 PM
I couldn't have said it better myself Blue! That's what I have experienced in the past...a lot of BS in my relationships and my venus in aquarius always wants to SAVE my partners, but now I have a man who I can respect and look up to and keeps me interested...he does understand me and let's me be myself and loves me for it! Your words are encouraging and reassuring! Thanks!------------------
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Sarai
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posted February 20, 2008 12:25 AM
I used to work with a woman with lots of Sag in her chart. Sun, Mercury, ASC, and I a few outer planets. She was Sagittarius personified.Anyway, she's happily married and so in love with her husband who is also a strong personality. Meek men needed not apply! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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posted February 20, 2008 12:47 AM
My girlfriend is a Sag with Venus in Aquarius (Capricorn Rising). I've been surprised with her ability to stick around. The whole first year it seemed she could take off at any moment, but she never did.My observations on Sagittarians as a whole suggests that most marry twice. Male and female. They have a practice run, and then they get it right the second time around. I hope that if I marry my Sag that she'll be ok the first time 'round. She's in her 40's already, so hopefully she's already got a good grasp of what she's looking for. IP: Logged |
Cekana
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posted February 20, 2008 01:52 AM
Bravo for the post!
Later today I'm meeting my BF, and it's one of those moments when I'm asking myself should I stay in the relationship or should I just move on. I'm a Sag, Venus aqua, and he is Scorpio/Scorpio/Aries... I guess there is no need to explain the details...
I do appear as a fun-loving, free-spirit person, but I'm not just that. There was only one person that I was sure he did knew me and respected me as I am, but I was too foolish (and young) to read the signs on time.
So, how do you know that he's the one to stick with? Do you rationalize, or just feel it?
I think that I am happy for all the Saggie women who found that person to trust and simply be with. IP: Logged |
Sag-Cap cusp
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posted February 20, 2008 12:48 PM
Hi I am Sag sun/moon/merc and I would generally agree with most of the posts. We need the right guy to look up to, trust and respect -- then we will stick it out forever. We do tend to marry late, sometimes with a practice run (grin) But my personal story is posted up in SOUL UNIONS and PILGRIMS PROGRESS. As a post script to my story I want to add that my Taurean husband has twice, quite early in the relationship, accused me of not finding him earlier, and how I should have found him when he was 21... and if I 'knew' then I had wasted too much time... sigh. How can I win. I have also been accused of roaming all over the planet 'for years' instead of flying directly to his house.... ------------------
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mizzsafiyah
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posted February 20, 2008 08:02 PM
For my saggies with venus in aqua (I also have an aqua rising), do you find once you have made your mind up about leaving a relationship, its easy for you to detach yourself emotionally? I recently got out of a relationship with a capricorn and he thought I was so COLD after I told him I didn't want to continue the relationship. He couldn't understand how I could just shut my feelings off almost like I didn't care. I told him I couldn't help it...its the way I've been all my life. Its not that I didn't care or love him, its just that I was done-once I get to that point I don't even see my partner the same way. The wall goes back up and it's like nothing happened. Lol Does anyone else experience this? ------------------
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flaming red
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posted February 20, 2008 11:59 PM
Most sags women i know are just great they always ready for so much fun. Sadly they never can be tamed and surely no one can posses them or maybe for a night only.IP: Logged |
jane
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posted February 21, 2008 12:41 AM
I'm a Sag who love you long time.IP: Logged |
Cekana
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posted February 21, 2008 01:51 AM
You were right about getting to that point when you realize that the men next to you isn’t what you thought to be. Or simply- the fun is over. But I never changed my behavior drastically so that I could lead someone to wrong impressions. I just simply leave, but before that I make sore that I prepare the ground.
Guess that someone could consider it cold and detached, but that person probably didn’t know me at all, he just had a wrong image about me. Saggies are very emotional and sensitive, they just look for the right person to share it with.
And when I left my Cappie guy with a smile on my face, he ended up the same night with some other girl. Nice.
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mizzsafiyah
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posted February 21, 2008 03:36 AM
Cekana,How did it go with your boyfriend? I say if you have to question, then it's time to go...  IP: Logged |
Cekana
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posted February 21, 2008 12:16 PM
He won me all over with his Shakespearean style... But I know deeply inside of me that the end is near. I stated every reason why our relationship is going the wrong way, but he just doesn't want to let go. It's hard to deal with double Scorpio.
Anyway, I know what I want right now, and that is the most important thing. IP: Logged |
mizzsafiyah
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posted February 22, 2008 10:01 AM
cekana,When is your bday? We both have venus in aquarius in the 12th house (i saw your post in venus in aqua...) What are some of your other placements? ------------------
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Sagitaur
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posted February 22, 2008 01:26 PM
I have Sag Sun, Cancer Moon, Aqua Venus, Gem Rising. I find that once I make a committment I fully intend on keeping it. I'm not one to be in a relationship just to be in one. I may keep a lot of "friends" around but they are just that "friends". I was with my daughter's father for 7 years and he was a Sag. I decided to leave him because he just could never settle down and be stable and dependable for me and our daughter.I see a lot of Sag women on here with Venus in Aqua. For me, it must be my Cancer Moon, I've always wanted a family and to settle down and have 4 kids and have a home, etc. I consider my relationship with my ex my marriage practice run since we were together so long but never got married but we lived the married life. I'm seeing a Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Leo Venus right now and so far so good *knock on wood*. I'm hoping he's the one. I feel like he is. Time will tell. IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
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posted February 22, 2008 01:34 PM
Hey all,interesting topic! Am a saggie woman...(just been burned a bit by a Pisces but it's all blown over now and i've happily moved on). Staying power? With a moon in leo and mars/venus in libra i think i have staying power with the right, strong willed man. (Yes no needy men please!) Have feelings (which have been put on hold whilst he is abroad) for a Cappie/Saggie moon guy. I reckon he could be what i need, a strong, knows his mind guy who also loves travelling. But yeah, i could see myself settling down and heading out into the big wide world with someone to share it with. Sparkling IP: Logged |
Cekana
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posted February 23, 2008 05:08 AM
Hey mizzsafiyah and all the Saggie women,So I have Cancer Moon too. And I'm Pisces rising. But that makes me more caring person, and very emotional, but not the "staying just for the sake of relationship" type. I never done such a thing, and I'll never will. I got Neptune-Sun-Mercury conj (10 Sag), sextile Pluto-Saturn conj (7 Libra), Venus sextile Uranus trine Mars and so on... (only my Monn doesn't fit anywhere). And I do think that it's very courageous and mature to end up a relationship no mater after how many years and in what conditions if you feel that it doesn't bring you no good, only fake security.
Maybe I'm to harsh, don't know... IP: Logged |
LeoCat
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posted February 25, 2008 12:52 AM
One of my best friends is Sag sun, Sag rising and Scorpio moon. She's sooooo very loyal to her friends and her lovers. Perhaps its the scorpio moon....IP: Logged | |
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