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Topic: Conflicting influences
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lisasimpson243 unregistered
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posted February 23, 2008 09:17 AM
If there is an influence that mars and venus is moving into a sign and that's a good thing in terms of romance and personal strength but saturn is in the 7th house and will cause stress until august, then which one will overpower the other? What happens when there are good and bad influences at the same time? Does Saturn always overpower the good influences? blue aka not a fan of Saturn! IP: Logged |
starrym unregistered
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posted February 23, 2008 01:24 PM
hey lisa, i have saturn in my 7th now for a few years! my jupiter-venus return was powerful enough to bring a lot of luck into my love life- and it followed right after a Saturn square Venus transit which was rough. Uranus trine Venus was also powerful enough to have a noticeable effect on my love life and add some freshness to it. the effects of the transits of venus and mars are no stronger than a good feeling and pleasant interaction with others for a few days in my experience. my feelings about saturn in the 7th is that its made everything it touched in the 7th get ultra "serious". i cant lighten up to a relationship, and become more cautious about it. i feel like ive matured a lot though in understanding what i want, who i need, and how to be in a relationship when you really want to be in one- and do it without hurting other people.IP: Logged |
kindjali Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Sep 2009
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posted February 23, 2008 01:26 PM
Got married or made stable relationship while Saturn was transiting in 7th house?K. IP: Logged |
lisasimpson243 unregistered
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posted February 23, 2008 02:09 PM
Thanks Starrym....i've had uranus trine venus a couple times last year that brought someone very erratic into my life. The eclipse recently removed him.Funny, but I actually feel like moving away from relationships and people right now. I'm in a place where if someone doesn't want to keep me, I'm not gonna try to keep them. I guess at least I've learned that much. I wish I could actually get into a real relationship though, never had one, would like to see what it's like. Lisas IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 35 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 25, 2008 02:13 PM
"Funny, but I actually feel like moving away from relationships and people right now."Sounds like that is how it will play out for you... Saturn sometimes plays out as SQUASHING anything heart-related. When I had Venus and Saturn conjunct by transit, I promptly got involved with a guy whose Saturn was conjunct my Sun, who was in his Saturn Return at the time. Asking for trouble...oh lord, yes. I got squished when he did his Aquarian thing and ran away. All things considered, skipping having a relationship at this time might be better! IP: Logged |
lisasimpson243 unregistered
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posted February 25, 2008 05:09 PM
Thanks for that Jen, makes sense. I just have to fight off my lonliness.Lisa IP: Logged |
starrym unregistered
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posted February 26, 2008 01:04 AM
>>>Funny, but I actually feel like moving away from relationships and people right now. I'm in a place where if someone doesn't want to keep me, I'm not gonna try to keep them. I guess at least I've learned that much.lisa, you _couldn't_ have done a better job at explaining Saturn in the 7th or Saturn-Venus contacts than this. it really is right on the mark. basically- its a defense mechanism. Saturn in the 7th says- "okay, commitment and partnerships are a _real_ thing. they're not light-hearted. i've been hurt too many times now from those light hearted things. i'm going to start to take them seriously. i won't let anyone in unless they are SERIOUS about what they're ready to be involved in. i am not going to be unrealistic anymore about my expectations in relationships - if you can't meet some basic requirements, than im sure this is going to fail." thats basically what it is in a nutshell. the result is usually a period of loneliness where everybody else gets a feeling that your relationship standards are really high.. and you dont feel swept off your feet anymore by the one night or disappearing act lover... you ask "what can you really bring to the table?" in the process, youll find out what you need and you may find yourself in a very stable commitment. IP: Logged |