posted March 02, 2008 10:26 AM              

Last Year i became conected with a forum where predictive astrology is the main focus.For curiosity,i started reading,and also put down a question to see its accuracy.
Yesterday, i received a message from there and went to that forum for the 1st time in many months.

Now,reading the replies i got,i can say that question had a pretty accurate reply.

And put down another question regarding romance and love,im now reading 2 replies there where it says " my bf os not interested to have a committed relationship with me like marriage"and that will be better for me not to make that commitment or else thereīs a real probability of me regretting it.

Obviously,this particular reply didnt made me " BUMP" and got me doubting; so im asking whatīs your experience with this kind of astrology and if you checked if its accurate or not

posted March 02, 2008 10:51 AM            

This is my opinion. Over the years I've learned never to ask a question when I am not ready to hear the REAL FULL TRUTH. You have to be prepared to hear the negative answer if that is what could be.

Getting a psychic reading or an astrological consultation is not for entertainment purposes only, and when you are dealing with issues of "truth" you have to be prepared to hear the truth.

If I am asking a reader that I trust to read my chart or to do a psychic reading for me, I make sure that I'm not asking them just for "wish fulfillment", just to have them tell me wonderful things and that everything will be alright. That's putting your reader in the position to lie to you. I would hope that my reader or consultant is skilled and compassionate enough to explain to me clearly what they are seeing or reading and if there is negativity, please help me understand how to deal with it, help me to be resourceful in dealing with the negativity and help me to move on from there.

The negative incidents in our lives don't exist just to make us miserable, they are there for a reason, to teach us in this life.

It's part of the reason why I never post my chart in public, even for readers that I trust, I don't necessarily like everyone's interpretations of my chart, I don't feel that everyone has sensitivity or compassion even if they have fabulous skills.

Also remember, YOU CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY, YOU HAVE FREE WILL, FREE WILL, FREE WILL.

I also tell some people that deep down they already know the truth, they just want it reflected outside of themselves for validation and sometimes, permission.

In the future, really think about whether you truly want the answer to certain questions, whether you're ready for the truth. And you should really make sure that you trust the person that you are entrusting with your chart or your personal intimate vibrations and aura. Not everyone is careful or sensitive or compassionate.

My experience was this. I used to work in a place where many of my friends and aquaintances were coming out to each other as psychics. One day one of my aquaintances just looked at me and said, "How does it feel to know that you won't have any children?"

What a horrifying thing to just blurt out to someone, it's incredibly insensitive and abusive. Many of his predication for me have already come true and I am middle age without children. But I've had readings before his where I was told that I would have no less than one child, no more than 3. I have no idea what will be, I'm not trying for children now, I'm not menapausal although I have female health issues, but I could have children if I want them. My point is to be careful with whom you entrust your most intimate issues. And always remember that you have FREE WILL.

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posted March 02, 2008 11:21 AM            

You're making me blush

Thank you for the lovely compliment.

posted March 02, 2008 11:36 AM              

youīre right: most of the times,we arent ready to hear the Truths and we get lost in our own world of idealism.

Im keeping the psysichs answer in my head,with the certainty that human beings arent condemned to a Destiny where there isnt the Free Will you talked about it.

The Truth i know (and that is why i asked that queston,)is that my bf runs from committed relationhips like marriage and whenever that "issue" comes to light, i always sense in him his loving of freedom and space.

So, i see here the "WHY" of the answer of the psysich,and i just wanted to see if tht other knowflakes had accurate results on doing this typf of readings.

posted March 03, 2008 09:58 AM              

thank you for replying!

It was extremely good for me to have done thar cause it taught me important things

We are always learning isnt it?

Belage,

posted March 03, 2008 10:49 AM              

Once I got a prediction telling me about my death and I was devastated (for a few hours... hasnīt stopped me asking for more predictions though ;-) - Iīm very curious!

However, these days I only believe want I want to believe and I donīt take it too seriously. And I also think that if you hear a prediction, from a psychic or from an astrologer - itīs possible for you to change the outcome.

I believe that there are about a billion different "destinies" for each and every one of us and the predictions are only the road you have chosen when you havenīt really thought about which road to take nor read "the inner intuitive map" - kind of "default road"...he, he, he...

Donīt worry about what some people have told you... Turn it into something else; see it as a good reminder not to choose "default road" but go with your inner intuition and your own free will

Take Care
Skybound

posted March 03, 2008 05:48 PM              

It must have been awful when the psysich told you that - must exist some rules there cause its not of a sensitive person to say sth so cruel and rude like a clientīs death

Certainly that after that you decided to Do your Own Road and follow it