posted March 08, 2008 04:10 AM            

I'd say the letting go issue is more than Sun-sign. There seem to be a lot of Plutonic persons on Lindaland who have struggled with this issue - Moon CNJ Pluto, Venus SQ Pluto, etc.

posted March 08, 2008 04:51 AM            

But a bit of respect for your partner is only reasonable. If Mr BM said he didn't want someone around his house and gave a good reason, I would take his view on board. He's done it over a friend, and he was proved 100% right. In this case, it was the excuse I needed, but letting go can be hard. Gotta do it to death

posted March 08, 2008 04:55 AM            

Piscean men treasure their ex relationships dearly. The reason to treasure their Ex relationships is because it contains a lot of sacrifices they made. (Well, the Ex doesn't even know that this Mature Soul had been sacrificing throughout the relationships). By bringing up their Ex relationships, they are always subconciously trying to say that 'my life is a GARBAGE - everybody dumps on me, and that is the Purpose of my life'. Now, highly evovled Fish Devils will act tough against what happened to them, yet Sacrifice is what they have to do to find Soul (SUN) recognition.

Just like how you are trying to show the deeper truth behind the emotional undercurrents of human lives, he is also trying to show the undercurrents of sacrifices.

Generally, when Scorpio comes out of a relationship, he or she Completely Destructs the relationship.. but Pisces.. never.. they never ever destruct anything or anyone else. They only destruct themselves and then go into the Neptune world of RETREAT where nobody is allowed, not even a very highly evovlved Eagle.

In my view, this is one of the most difficult side of Piscean Men that Scorpio Women have really really hard time with. Why? Well, because one side you care about him and you don't want to be a straight shooter so that he doesn't get hurt. But, on the other side you also don't want to get HURT again and again.

I know you really want him to NOT bring up these topics because they touch your heart deeply. You need to win him Spiritually. The way to fix this is to walk Piscean man through a New Dream World.. a new Dream with You and Him and an ability to show that in this new world - He will only sacrifice for you. How do you create this new dream world? Well, Communication. While Pisceans are very deep - they are the Communicative agents of the water world (Cancer is a Leader, Scorpio is an Organizer) So, you talk with him a lot more, you give him calls every night..by doing so.. he will already start imagining about you and will start putting you in his dreams all over. The process of dream world happens fast once the communication comes in Piscean world.

As soon as he brings up his Ex, tell him very Openly that "Just like how he was HURT by his Ex, you get HURT when he brings up a topic about her." You will have to clearly tell him that he is HURTING you - but only after his new Dream world has been built with You. With this approach, he will sacrifice and will not bring up his Ex anymore.

Let me also confirm one thing; Scorpio woman will generally lash out the seething truth against a Pisces man when she realizes He is not under CONTROL (Mind you, you have a Cappy Moon too!) - and that will be the Moment of Destruction.. if the Man is still around after that Seeting truth came out, then yes.. the Sacrifice begins.. But, good news is.. Scorpio woman will Heal Pisces man and give the strength he desires and both will Love each other deeply.. Also notice that Piscean men do not cheat when they are in a relationship with Scorpio women.. In fact, that's whom they come for emotional sympathy and strength.

posted March 08, 2008 10:21 AM            

I have a fix for this one. Do not provide any rational answer. Provide an irrational dream. Tell him that last night you had a dream in which you already saw him married with someone else and she was a wonderful woman, she was very beautiful and they made an amazing couple. Also tell him in the same dream you also got married with someone else and you are happy in your life too..

Main thing is you don't want to wound him - so tell him - he is happy with someone else in future and you are happy with someone else as well.

posted March 08, 2008 11:31 AM              

Even though I´m a pisces I´m the opposite – I can´t stay good close friends with my ex-s. Just don´t see the point … when it´s over it´s over and especially if it ended badly, but also if it ended well. I prefer to move on and away - or as Mblover said: to the Neptune world of REATREAT

Mblover said: “Piscean men treasure their ex relationships dearly. The reason to treasure their Ex relationships is because it contains a lot of sacrifices they made”.

posted March 08, 2008 12:09 PM              

i have a very deep need to understand Pisces men, because of one that has captured my heart. i have posted our chart info in another forum, and am waiting for a reply. anyway, i'm kind of embarrased to admit this, but we met online last year, and i can honestly say i did have a very powerful dream about him priar to this. we have not actually met in life, but we've established a friendship through the internet and telephone. i really like the dream world we've created, but i would like to take the dream world to the next level. i'm not sure if that may be because my Neptune is posistioned in my first house or not, but yeh. i've never understood our connection, but feel it deeply, and i think he may as well, and the more i get to know him, the more i really feel a longing. anyway, this is pretty silly, but it means a great deal to me, even without a rational essence. my question here is:

please help me understand him a little more. he is very elusive and unpredictable, which i love about him, but it's hard to know what he really needs from me. okay, thanks a lot!

he is a Pisces sun/ Aquarius asc/ Pisces mercury/ Taurus moon- like myself/ Aquarius venus/ and Taurus mars- again like myself....... (=

if you would like to know mine-

Gemini sun/ Sagittarius asc/ Cancer mercury/ Taurus moon/ Gemini venus/ Taurus mars

posted March 08, 2008 12:36 PM            

Hmm I seem to avoid that scenario by default due to always wanting to be friends with the person first, and basing the the physical relationship on top of that foundation. I'm just not interested in purely physical relationships. So I cant see myself ending up in a situation like that, because its the whole friendship/spiritual closeness that turns me on lol.

posted March 10, 2008 10:06 PM              

pOllierOller (pO2 ),
hmm .. I don’t know what to suggest you. Few years ago I had a Gem galfrnd (don’t have other details, as I never got to know her birthdate), me a Pisces sun, Sagi asc. And it started online, emails-phone and ultimately she broke off .. after building the dreams...our religions were different and she had strong opposition from her home .. I expected love to take precedence over religion..whatever …

posted March 11, 2008 01:00 AM              

im a Virgo female and i always expect to keep in touch after a relationship fails but it never happens. ive never dated a Pisces though.

i know two Pisces people well- one has his Sun in Pisces, Venus and Mars in Aries and Moon in Cancer and he has never been in a relationship- he always, always sleeps around. he floats in and out of peoples lives like its nothing and never keeps his promises. i've seen him stand up a Cappy girl for Valentines without any explanation and pretend it didnt happen and it hurt her very much. he says he never wants to be in a relationship and wants to keep sleeping around forever.

the other one i know is his best friend, who is a Sun in Cap but Venus conjunct Mars in Pisces (and Moon in Sag) and he cannot let go of his girlfriends - he used to be the third wheel for his Ex.. always, always hanging around her and her Cappy boyfriend - until her bf started to get angry. but whenever i saw them, it was always the three of them. he would still sleep with her on and off while she was in the relationship and the Cappy felt powerless and angry. now the guy and girl are in new relationships but they still hang onto each other like no other- and consider each other best friends.