posted March 05, 2008 09:17 PM              

Any experience with Virgo men? With Pisces Mars? Cancer Venus??

We've talked about Aqua men ad nauseum, and Cancer men, even Cappy men! Oh, and those smoldering Scorps...but not the Virgo men!

Post your experience/opinions here, I'm all ears!

posted March 05, 2008 10:07 PM            

He was so wonderful and loved me very much. The only issue I think I had was that I got really bored, and actually started to feel a little trapped. (It was really all in my head, nothing he did made me feel that way.) He proposed to me one day, and I got scared and said no. We broke up shortly after that. We are still friends though, and he's the one person I know I can rely on, even today.

I love Virgo men! Virgo woman, I'm not so sure. I find them a bit too competitive, but that just may be the Virgo's I have known, and not a general characteristic.

posted March 06, 2008 03:04 AM              

I'm a Libra dating a Virgo. The above descriptions of a Virgo boyfriend... are so so true

My guy and I were friends for nearly 2 years before we realised we had more than just friendly feelings toward each other. It took a while before we "got together". Ever since then, I’ve been discovering amazing things about my Virgo. He was already very sweet, helpful and attentive as a friend, but the bf role he’s taken on… all I can say is - what the heck took us so long!?!

Mind you, it’s still early in the relationship (a little over 2 months)… but this is definitely one guy I’m not letting go, and I’m pretty sure he feels the same. Wish us luck!

posted March 07, 2008 06:10 AM              

Or maybe not since I know very few Virgos, and they're the loyal/devoted types who don't play nor flirt around.

Could it be his Pisces mars / Cancer venus or other natal placements/aspects?

posted March 07, 2008 06:38 AM            

But in this case, maybe he was just lonely b/c his marriage was ending and he was on a mission to find someone? No need to waste time before moving on if the first woman wasn't available. Or he may have been going through a promiscuous phase. Or he may really be a player.

See how the two of you get along. I wouldn't write someone off as non-LTR material (if that's what you're looking for) simply b/c of flirtatious behavior, particularly b/c it happened during what was probably a stressful time in his life. His evasiveness about still being married is troubling, though, but in person you'll be able to get a sense of whether he's honest.

Of course there are Virgo players, and your intuition will probably pick up on his general attitude toward women and relationships. And if things do start to develop between you two, you'll be able to directly discuss those topics.

I was with a Virgo/Aqua Moon/Sag Rising for a couple of years when we were in college. He also had a Cancer Venus. He's one of the best friends I've ever had, and we still have a strong bond, but we don't talk often. He was a lot of fun and we had many of the same interests--same majors and hobbies; similar humor. He also had a movie collection (carefully organized) the likes of which I had never seen. He was sweet and enjoyed planning surprises for us, doing thoughtful things for me, etc. Nice boyfriend stuff. Overall though, after the first 6 months it felt more like best friends having phenomenal sex (just stating a fact and giving you a heads up *wink*). We lacked an emotional intimacy I was finally ready to experience in a relationship, but I think that barrier was his Aqua Moon more than his Virgo Sun.

One of my best friends has had a lot of disappointments in love. She was usually drawn to detached types. Now she's with a Virgo Sun/Taurus Moon. Been together 6-7 months (recently moved in together) and I've never seen her happier or in a healthier relationship.