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nattie33
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posted March 10, 2008 02:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is it with me. i cant get past the cancer.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted March 10, 2008 04:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
whoa.. your falling for a cancer thats 20 years younger then you?

better find his birth time

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posted March 10, 2008 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo woman wants to mother a Cancer boy. Looking at above two, Cancerian boy sounds great :-) He is an excellent project for you to work on and try to put him into Order - because - it never works - Order never comes in Cancers and moods change every other day.

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posted March 10, 2008 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm with mblover on this one. The Cancer is in need of nurturing and who better to be a motherly lover than a Virgo lady. The Aqua probably frustrates you to no end with his independence, and the Cancer showers you with gooey attention and soft words... who wouldn't want that? But beware, you don't want to be the "grown-up" version of his mother, Cancer men would stay little boys forever if given the chance.

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nattie33
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posted March 10, 2008 12:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sorry the cancer is 06/30/60 typo mistake

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posted March 10, 2008 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow a typo mistake from a Virgo. It is unacceptable ;-)

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nattie33
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posted March 10, 2008 01:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL Just shows how distracted i am

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Diandra23
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posted March 10, 2008 08:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nattie we share birthdays

And by coincidence or not,my nf is a Cancer ASC with Aqua Moon

Itīs true the part about Cancers - personally i think it can be a great combination Virgo/Cancer ,instead of Aqua/Virgo but its only you that REALLY KNOWS what you feel about these 2 so different guys.

Cncers can drive you crazy with their changing of moods every day, at first i thought it was his Libra Sun balacing the plates out but nop...itīs the Moon doing her work - you have to be very comprehensive and try to put yourself in their shoes. They can be the sweetest guys on Earth,and when you 1st see their puppy eyes looking at you for nurture,you will have no way to run.

Aquas..too intriguing and too demanding of their space and liberty - the Uranus in them makes them no prone to committments of excessive "weight" to their mind like a marriage for example..if you like to be surprised and share original ways of living/thinking..then Aqua is your guy.

It takes patience and committment for a Virgo to comprehend those diferent signs,so distant from the Virgoness way of be.

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posted March 10, 2008 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jeeze..

all these women claiming to know all of this stuff about and having figured out cancers is kinda intimidating and making me wheezy nd uncomfortable.

and lets hold the phone. if there is any cancer boy that needs to be nurtured by and older virgo woman .. you need look no futher. lol

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nattie33
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posted March 11, 2008 02:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With this aqua i cant breathe. he is clingy . With the cancer i cant seem to keep him around to long.

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posted March 11, 2008 03:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for grayblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is your aqua completely detached emotionally? Just wondering 'cause my ex was like that.

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nattie33
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posted March 11, 2008 06:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
he used to be detached. until he found i wanted someone else. If everything was just fine in his world. It was almost like he was a kid. He wanted someone there for himself "Me" Of he was occupied he noticed nothing... When he found out how unhappy i am which by the way i told him many times it didn't sink in until i had one foot out the door...Now he is very attached but he is a day late and a dollar short. I put everything into it and now he wants to fix it

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posted March 11, 2008 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for grayblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nattie -
Sounds familiar... except mine still doesn't try much.
He came on Valentine's day with flowers and chocolate. For the first time in 7 years! Wonder if he thought he'd win me back that way (I ate the chocolate anyhow lol)

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posted March 11, 2008 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarians ~ I can do that.

Let's not forget Aquarius has the tradtional ruler of Saturn. Put the rulers Uranus/Saturn together and you have Aquarius ~ freedom for me, but I want to know what you are doing, and when I am around, I want you to give me all your attention. Even if I neglect you for the rest of the time. Maybe I am generalising from a handful of examples. That are male.

But it's true they have the tradtional ruler Saturn. They are not as unpredictable as they like to think, and that gets to them.

I had a boyfriend who was It shouldn't be that much hard work to get a sh@g out of a 19 year-old! I just couldn't cope with that amount of moodiness, sensitivity and angst. Not talking about you Stars, you weren't born at this point in history. Would I give Cancerians another go if singledom struck? Well I don't think I've got more patient and sensitive with age so maybe not.

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posted March 11, 2008 08:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well from my experience I would say dump them both (I am Libra Sun with Virgo Asc) I was with a Cancer for 9 years on and off and let me tell you the Libra in me doesn't shy away from hard relationships but I have to say that the emotional hysterics that come with a Cancer man destroyed my peace & equilibrium in the end (they don't see reason-they pout like spoiled children & this will eventually drive you over the edge. As for the Aquarius....well let's just say that they are good for a fling and not much else.

I say keep fishing.....

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nattie33
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posted March 11, 2008 09:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
greyblue i got an ankle chain for valentine's day. It seems he is finally out of his coma.

blue moon-everything you said about aquarius fits mine

as for the cancer i dont seem to get a chance with him for to long. he comes and he goes. ...Diandra23 I wish for a real chance with the cancer.

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nattie33
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posted March 11, 2008 11:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just realized every serious relationship i ever had with a man was with air signs. It started with Libras moved to Gemini's and the last three were aquarius.

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posted March 12, 2008 06:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
" the emotional hysterics that come with a Cancer man destroyed my peace & equilibrium in the end - they don't see reason-they pout like spoiled children & this will eventually drive you over the edge."

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I had minimal time for this as a teenager, I have even less time for it now I am a few steps nearer the grave. Life's too short.

Aquarian hypocrisy I can live with. The plus side is that they tend to treat you like you are an equal.

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Diandra23
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posted March 12, 2008 09:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Girls

we cant really generalise and say Cancers are touchy so lets get out of here, or Aquas are so detached so lets search another one...that way we will be only looking for PERFECT GUYS which obviously its impossible,everyone has their own issues and ghost to dealw ith - it takes LOVE,PATIENCE,COMPREHENSION,RESPECT to really be in a relationship with a person. I have a lot to learn to with my bf and him with me - that is what īs really a relationship about :to evolve with one another through the bads and goods.

At first it was also dificult for me to understand all the aqua/libra/cancer/ and all in my bf, but certainly thatīs not easy for him to understand my Virgo/libra/taurus and my own issues that makes me a complexe and dificult person to understand.

The main thing is to KNOW if we feel that itīs worth,between what we really feel and the other feels,what we are capable of doing for one another , even if itīs hard and involves suffering,but the "good one".

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posted March 12, 2008 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It may be a generalisation, but if you are sensitive and given to emotional hysterics you won't enjoy being my boyfriend very much. But don't worry, you won't have to suffer long before being relieved of your duties.

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nattie33
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posted March 12, 2008 12:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is true about my aquarius treating me like an equal

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posted March 12, 2008 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It shouldn't be a big deal in the 21st century, but sadly, that's not necessarily the case.

I like Aquarians.

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nattie33
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posted March 12, 2008 02:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like aquarians also. But in my case we ended up to be more like buddy's than romantic partners. The cancer on the other hand see's me like a women and lets me know it. it is like polor opposites.

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posted March 13, 2008 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
More than once people have told me that in their relationship 'we're more like brother and sister now'. If your in your 70s maybe that is O.K but I don't think I would be too thrilled with that right now as I am long way off.

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posted April 16, 2008 11:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HI nattie..just wondering how it ended up with the cancer guy. I wa interested in one recently however, pulled the disappearing act a couple times and I have given up. I was just wondering how long did it take for him to come around again?

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