posted March 11, 2008 07:19 AM              

I am hoping someone can help me (I confess I am a very confused and scared Libran)

I have a strange dilemma which is as follows;

I suffered a very traumatic childhood at the hands of a very warped Capricorn step father who has left me with quite a few fears and hang ups now that I am an adult (34). From the moment I entered my young adult life I decided that ALL Capricorns where horrible people which was only to be compounded by the fact that everywhere I went there they were and the more I tried to avoid them the more we got entangled, in my working life and in-law associations, friends of friends, work relationships etc until I literally became a hermit. I managed to successfully avoid them after some careful association reviews and simply refused to socialize with friends if I knew that a Cappy was to be present, (I apologize to the Cappy's who may be reading this.....the dynamics of Libra Capricorn just leave me in a puddle on the floor) unfortunately the universe had other ideas.....I became pregnant and had a baby boy Capricorn (whom I adore with all my heart and soul) Universe 1 - Me ZERO. Now my relationship with the father (cancer) of my child ended 6 months later, (been together 9 years) and 6 & 1/2 years later I find myself ready to welcome a new man into my life but I have this nagging feeling that this person will be a Capricorn, so can anyone tell me if there is a way to know for sure? I say this because my life has never really been my own so to speak ( I have had visions of my own future which all came true, so I believe destiny has a very large part in my life) I have tried to research this on my own but honestly do not know where to look.

My birth data is as follows: October 3 1973 4.45 am AEST Southport Queensland Australia.

Sun position is 9 deg. 26 min. of Libra
Moon position is 21 deg. 29 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 29 deg. 55 min. of Libra
Venus position is 22 deg. 31 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 8 deg. 03 min. of Taurus
Jupiter position is 2 deg. 19 min. of Aquarius
Saturn position is 4 deg. 34 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 22 deg. 33 min. of Libra
Neptune position is 5 deg. 15 min. of Sagittarius
Pluto position is 4 deg. 29 min. of Libra
Asc. position is 24 deg. 21 min. of Virgo
MC position is 26 deg. 20 min. of Gemini
2nd cusp position is 2 deg. 40 min. of Scorpio
3rd cusp position is 1 deg. 56 min. of Sagittarius
5th cusp position is 20 deg. 14 min. of Capricorn
6th cusp position is 17 deg. 56 min. of Aquarius

Thank you to anyone who can help me thru this

posted March 11, 2008 07:57 AM            

Unfortunately the only way to find out if he's a Capricorn is to ask for his birthday. But I can tell you why Capricorns affect you so badly. You have one of the most difficult aspects in astrology, your Saturn in Cancer squares you Pluto and Sun in Libra. When you meet a Capricorn who is born within the first half of the sign, that person's Sun and probably other planets they might have there as well, triggers that very difficult aspect that you have. That aspect triggers the issues from your early home life especially dealing with your step father and possibly an extremely controlling mother.

But let me leave you with this. That very difficult aspect can leave you with TREMENDOUS POWER in your second half of life. You have survived those difficult times and now you should have some powerful muscles in terms of life development. I'm not saying that your early life didn't leave scars, but if you haven't discovered it already, you need to know it. I really hope that you have discovered that now and that you can be quite resourceful, possible wealthy in addition to that.

Ask this man when he was born. If he is a Capricorn and you still find that you're willing to deal with his energy, no matter when he was born, my suggestion is to take it one day at a time. You may now be an expert at dealing with Capricorn's or you'll soon discover that you have no problem pushing him away. I wish you good luck with him, and wish all the best.

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posted March 11, 2008 05:18 PM              

Yes it's true the "muscles" you speak of are certainly there...perhaps it is my innate sensitivity to people also that creates such friction with Capricorns hard nosed truthfulness, that is usually the issue between us, you see I have this ability to "feel" the emotional air around me so strongly that it can be quite confusing and emotional at times (hence the isolation) because most people think that they are keeping silent by not speaking but to me they are actually screaming and Capricorns I find are one of the biggest "silent but screaming types". Well I guess it's back to the drawing board to analyze it all.

Oh by the way there actually isn't anyone in my life right now.....Like I said before I just have one of those "feelings" or "knowings" if you will.....I just wanted to know basically if it can be detected in anyway from my birth chart.

Keep spreading sunshine...

posted March 12, 2008 07:38 PM              

Talk about the "Thunderbolt Path" oy!!!!

I tried to keep my story short 'LOL' as there has been so much "lightning" in my life & I find talking about just depresses me no end so I try to keep it basic here....

Wishing you April showers & rainbows today!