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posted March 13, 2008 03:40 PM            

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I don't know if anyone would remember this after so long, but last June I had this encounter with a guy born the same day I was and there were sparks. I posted about it here and it got a lot of response but I can't do a search now.
We're both Leos. MAJOR attraction in ways I've never experienced. And I don't say that lightly. He had given me his birth info. Sure enough I did our chart and it was there. I still don't know, but I SUSPECT it was somewhat mutual. The hororary said it was one of the luckiest charts he'd ever seen.
Well, I FINALLY got a reason to call him again today for the first time. After the business part was over, I mentioned that I had done his chart and said I could send it if he gave me his email. I could tell he was flattered. That Leo sun is such a ham. He said, of course, that "he didn't really believe in that kind of thing", but "what the heck, send it just for entertainment if nothing else". Me and my indirectness (cancer ascendant, mars and venus) and his cautious, reserved virgo ascendant explains a lot about this dance.lol He did admit to having hard times lately and Saturn is conjunct his Virgo ascendant. I suspect a divorce.
I'm usually pretty good at this. I can often guess signs on the first try and I think the canned stuff I got from astro.com will go a long way in itself. But anyway, I have one shot to make this good. I'd like to tell him something sooo specific and accurate it knocks his socks off, makes a believer out of him, but MOST IMPORTANTLY gets a response to my email that could just possibly lead to something more

So here's the chart if anybody could take a stab at it. I'd be most grateful. Give it your best shot.

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posted March 13, 2008 03:49 PM            

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This is our synastry if that would help.(I'm the one born in 64)

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posted March 13, 2008 08:36 PM            

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Anybody?

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posted March 13, 2008 10:02 PM              

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LOL

Or you could ask him out for a drink, you know virgos don't make the first step in a relationship, they must be draged out

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posted March 13, 2008 10:21 PM            

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I know but you know the crab doesn't want to stray too far from the shell either Combine that with the Leo pride and it gets even stickier.
I simply don't have the nerve to go at it directly until I KNOW I'm right. I'm almost positive I am, but then again it could just be the Leo ego of his and he's nothing more than flattered and I would hate to be embarrassed, especially if he's telling people about it. Believe me it was awkward enough just telling him I did his chart. lol.

I did his canned chart and I would say it isn't far fetched that he's interested in an affair at least. I had become VERY interested in him when I read something that said he was like a vault, that you could tell him anything and he'd take it faithfully to grave. I don't know if that's true but we seem to have a LOT in common with his psychological insight and detective abilities. I don't know if the placments are exact but my chart says most of the same things.

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posted March 14, 2008 12:18 AM              

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...he was like a vault, that you could tell him anything and he'd take it faithfully to grave.

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With Moon in Gemini I can assure you this is not so accurate.

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I would hate to be embarrassed, especially if he's telling people about it.

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With a double shot of Mercury, he WILL be telling people about it. Whether he's interested or not.

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posted March 14, 2008 05:24 AM              

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Except virgo asc and merc in the 12th i don't see anything that could indicate a vault. Maybe this is enouhg though.
Moon and jupiter in gemini point to the contrary

Anyway, let's concentrate on the essentials, you want a relationship
That beeing said i would point out your Saturn rx on his DC and his Saturn rx on your Chiron rx in yout 7th (in opp with Pluto, Uranus and Mercury rx); both aspects could indicate a wounding on both parts if you two should become partners and also a karmic influence. As you can see this is the main theme in the synastry. Sorry, i tend to be objective.

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posted March 14, 2008 10:43 AM            

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Thanks for giving it to me straight. Yeah, I think there had to be strong neptune or something in June. I've never been hornier in my life than I was then.LOL. It was really strange. I think all that must've colored my perception. I can't find the site that called him a vault. I think he probably is with his own secrets. That may be what I was picking up I guess. I'm not comfortable with the timing of that laugh he has either.

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Sun in the Twelfth House
You have a strong sense of privacy and individuality. You disclose your inner feelings only in the most intimate circumstances and only to those whom you feel are your closest friends. Such openness is, in fact, the highest honor and token of love that you can bestow upon a friend or lover.
Because of your natural reticence, you don't actively seek new relationships, but rather tend to wait for others to seek you out.
Others may see your personal life as quite mysterious, attracting speculation about behind- closed-doors affairs. They will seldom be able to assess your private life accurately, but the very mystery will make you seem more attractive and desirable.

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OK, I'm more confused than ever. Chaos has his Mars and Venus radically different than astro.com. Chaos says he has Mars and Venus in Taurus and Cancer and a lot of other cancerian placements which would explain the attraction but then it also has sun in Gemini so I don't know how accurate the rest of it could be. Some of it matches though. I just can't get past the loose lips. That's something I'm very leary of. It IS dissappointing and anti climactic though.

Sun Sextile Pluto
Sun Trine Neptune
Sun Sesquiquadrate Jupiter
Sun Conjunct Mercury
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Sesquiquadrate Venus
Moon Sesquiquadrate Uranus
Mercury in Gemini
Mercury Trine Neptune
Mercury Sextile Pluto
Venus in Cancer
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Semisquare Pluto
Mars in Taurus
Mars Square Saturn
Mars Trine Jupiter
Mars Sesquiquadrate Neptune
Jupiter in Aquarius
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn Sextile Uranus
Uranus in Gemini
Uranus Semisquare Pluto (Yikes!)
Neptune in Libra
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto in Leo
Virgo on the 1st House Cusp
Neptune in the 1st House
Libra on the 2nd House Cusp
Scorpio on the 3rd House Cusp
Moon in the 3rd House
Sagittarius on the 4th House Cusp
Capricorn on the 5th House Cusp
Jupiter in the 5th House
Aquarius on the 6th House Cusp
Pisces on the 7th House Cusp
Aries on the 8th House Cusp
Taurus on the 9th House Cusp
Sun in the 9th House
Mercury in the 9th House
Mars in the 9th House
Gemini on the 10th House Cusp
Venus in the 10th House
Uranus in the 10th House
Cancer on the 11th House Cusp
Pluto in the 11th House
Leo on the 12th House Cusp
Saturn in the 12th House

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posted March 14, 2008 08:40 PM            

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So the chiron thing can't be interpreted the other way-as healing?

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posted March 14, 2008 08:53 PM            

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This is one of the times where I agree with the Magi Astrology. He already has Saturn conjunct Chiron, this suggests, to me, that his father is his wound and the fact that it occurs in his 7th house suggests that it affects his relationships. You bring your Chiron to the party and it may feel like he doesn't need any additional wounding.

I understand the theory of Chiron being a healer, but it tends to wound first, then heal second and you don't know how bad that wound it going to be. Your Venus trining his Saturn-Chiron conjunction might help to soften that up a bit, but it may prove difficult.

But if he comes knocking at your door, I have an inkling feeling, your' gonna let him walk right on in.

I wouldn't stress out about it because the best of relationships have stress, that's why we jump into them, for life development and lessons. We are all in school after all.

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posted March 14, 2008 09:00 PM            

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A couple of weeks ago I might've but since I met the Capricorn I'm less inclined. Not that that's going to go anywhere. The cappy is much younger than me but at least he's single. I was just making sure. The only thing there could be between us unless he's divorcing because of his saturn return is an affair. I can't get over the mercury in gemini etc.

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posted March 14, 2008 09:01 PM            

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Don't forget--with people who don't know too much about astrology and are skeptical, just telling them a lot about what their sun sign means is usually a mind-blower.

With ANY Leo, don't forget to couch even the darkest bits of his chart in flattery!

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posted March 14, 2008 09:06 PM            

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Oh I know about the flattery. That's what worries me. When I told him I'd done his chart he laughed the way I do when I'm on the spot and NOT interested just flattered but wanting to get out of the situation. Then again, pride and fear of rejection can make you act that way too. I keep trying to remember the specifics about Leo like the fact that their hair is always noticed, that they find it impossible to walk beside someone w/out being a step ahead or behind, etc. I guess my hearts just not in it now. Bottom line is I don't want to be entertainment for him or anyone he's using me to entertain. It's a shame though. I like the mars in scorpio. Even his bedroom aspects sounded like the perfect fit with my mars and venus in cancer.

About the basics of the sun sign-I've been really accurate lately with guessing people's signs. They think I'm a guru or something and I barely know the basics. LOL.

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posted March 16, 2008 08:11 PM            

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I'm not trying to beat a dead horse here but there is no way that this could be interpreted in a good way? I ask just because when I met him I would've sworn he was the healer. One of the things that I liked about him was that he would defend me and with the situation with my older brother I've always looked for the knight on a white horse to save me. So not a chance?

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