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SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 13, 2008 08:20 PM ok, so im REALLY driven by romantic relationships but whatever sparks i ever feel with someone never turn into a flame. I shouldn't complaining, I'm only 19 and I know other 19 year old who haven't really had a relationship, I know I still have a lot of time.. I'm just tired of waiting and wondering could someone please look at my chart and provide me with some insight? i've looked at it before, but there must be something I'be missed as I've never been able to answer this question thanks so much IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 13, 2008 08:22 PM i hope it works this time... IP: Logged
T-gemini unregistered	posted March 13, 2008 09:56 PM I see the Uranus-Saturn conjunction square your Venus or maybe you haven't met the right person yet IP: Logged
NeptunianFire unregistered	posted March 13, 2008 11:06 PM You were born a day after my Scorpio sweetie. I knew I recognized all those squares to Venus and Mars and that classic Venus-Mars opposition between Venus in Libra and Mars in Aries Those are your problem. Plus Neptune on the Descendant. And perhaps you are coming on too strong? IP: Logged
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 13, 2008 11:34 PM You sound like my scorp ex. except you were born a year later. she complains about relationship failure as well.. I try to tell her that once she realizes she doesnt need anyone then she will find the right person. Interesting how different your charts are with a year difference. IP: Logged
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 13, 2008 11:45 PM haha.. yea your chart look alot like mine excepy upside down.. lol. try posting without all the asteroids.. its easier to look at. IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 14, 2008 03:00 PM NF, i think i don't come on strong enough! Most people think I'm so bubbly and care-free that I seem like I don't care at all; which of course isn't true! .. but it'y one of those good ol' defence mechanisms lol and YES, that mars opp. venus is brutal ok, SS. thanks for the tip: here it is once again IP: Logged
alcheme Newflake Posts: 9 From: Phoenix, AZ Registered: Jul 2009	posted March 14, 2008 03:35 PM You sound a lot like me, one of the bubbly Scorpios. Oddly enough, I am a "Nikki B", too... Small world... LOL! I have been having that same problem lately. My best friend suggested that the people who would naturally be attracted to my outer personality are generally not the types that are willing to delve deeper and find out how much I truly have to offer. As much of a cop out answer as that initially seems, I can see some logic in that in the context of the men I have been attracted to of late. Perhaps it is the same for you? ------------------ Sun: Scorpio Moon: Gemini Asc: Capricorn IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 14, 2008 08:29 PM LOL Alcheme! when is youre bday? and that does sound about right unfortunately. Lots of guys like me, I think that they just CAN'T go deeper though; like, im too deep, energetic, enthusiatic.. i think they have a good idea of what my personality is like, they just can't handle it.. and it's always been like this pretty much, but it seems to be getting worse with time IP: Logged
Deliverance Knowflake Posts: 273 From: Comin' in good, like a DJ should Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 14, 2008 10:44 PM Sexy scorp, Just focus on having fun & being happy within yourself. You've got plenty of time for relationships...I know its easyer said than done...believe me, Im in my early 30's & never been in a relationship. I know nothing will happen until Im truly content with me. xoxox IP: Logged
Pattyboy123 unregistered	posted March 14, 2008 11:00 PM yes sexyscorp since i'm a gemini and gemini is your 8th house of regeneration let me tell ya that i'm 20 and im a virgin and ive never been in a serious relationship before and everything is all gravy baby. maybe not. but i do agree with what deliverance said IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 15, 2008 07:07 PM Deliverance and PattyBoy, thanks for the kind and uplifting advice, I smiled IP: Logged
Venus trine Pluto unregistered	posted March 16, 2008 06:06 PM Because relationships are not the be all and end all when you are only 19. Have some fun instead with your friends and get drunk and flirt or whatever. Perhaps you scare them all off by wanting to get to 4th base before you have reached 1st? Scorpio desire for feeling intensely ? Chill. You you need to get to know someone first before getting physically involved else it wont last. IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 16, 2008 09:09 PM LOL "4th base" thanks for the advice IP: Logged
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 17, 2008 03:50 AM wow.. some real words of wisdom there venuspluto. yea your 19 go get drunk and flirt. Sexyscorp. dont be in a rush. women like you are 1 in 10 million so value and respect yourself and dont let anybody bring you down, your far to special. save it for the right guy. the one guy thats going to stay with you and welcome your strong energy IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 17, 2008 02:41 PM SS, nice to know you have my back thanks again IP: Logged
aquaspryt69 unregistered	posted March 17, 2008 02:55 PM I notice you have Saturn at the end of the 6th, interpreted in the 7th (like me). Everything I've read about Saturn in the 7th speaks of marrying later in life. I've got 20 yrs on you and I'm still not married. That doesn't mean I haven't had offers. I just haven't found that right person and, like SS said, you have to realize you really don't NEED somebody else then you'll find them. Like you said, you have plenty of time. Whatever you do, don't rush things! IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 18, 2008 01:25 PM yea, I've read about Saturn in the 7th house and at times, that thought scares someone like me From personal experience I won't marry early in life, just to be sure I don't rush into anything...My mother married my father when she was 25 in a complete state of depression and it ruined her life. I will MAKE SURE to know myself and what I want before I "sigh up" for any kind of commitment. I'm glad that you're content with yourself and are in no rush to get married More people should be like this!!!.. I just wish I wasn't so passionate about romance =( but thank you for your advice IP: Logged
Isolaede Newflake Posts: 15 From: Sunny CA Registered: May 2009	posted March 18, 2008 04:20 PM The best advise I can give you is to be honest about who you are in action and deed. Most young men and women wear so many masks - all with the intent of making people like them. In your words, I hear the pain I once felt. At one point in my life, I was grieved because no one in my life really KNEW me or took the time to dig deep and understand what made me tick. I felt like everyone loved me for my masks, but no one loved me for who I was. Then it occurred to me that I wasn�t giving anyone the opportunity to know who I was, because I wasn�t putting myself out there. I expected them to dig deep and try to understand me, when what I should have been doing is just being ME, the me I am deep inside myself. So I made a change, and the results were amazing! I started attracting the kind of people that really blended with who I really was. Sure I lost a few friends that were more attached to the silly bubbly mask I wore, but at the end of the day, I gained both friends and a few lovers that appreciated me for the deep, philosophical, somewhat moody dork I really am. Which was FAR preferable in my book. So just be yourself, dear Scorpio. Bare your soul and feel no shame for it. It will be hard at first, because we water signs love our shells, but I promise you the longer you do it the more free you will feel. AND, as an added bonus, you will start meeting people you are truly compatible with. I wish you the absolute best! - Isolaede IP: Logged
SexyScorp103 unregistered	posted March 18, 2008 08:42 PM Isolaede, your post really hit home for me, i am definately one to wear masks.. being a scorpio sun and cancer asc! And i have a deep fear of rejection, I literally mold my personality to achieve compatibility with those around me =( Something I really must get over. Oh, and this is gonna come off as really conceided, but I've always had a complex with the way I look too.. I'm what guys call "hot" and im about 4'11..with a D cup bra size, and well, that attracts attention sometimes that HUGELY influences me..not in the way where I become the "popular ***** " but quite the opposite - I hide from the attention, especially in teh school setting I hope to overcome this too! I'm glad you've thrown your masks out I'll keep your advice in mind.. and btw, are you a cancer by any chance? IP: Logged

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