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alcheme
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posted March 20, 2008 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alcheme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How to get an Aries girl to lose interest in a guy?

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Xodian
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posted March 20, 2008 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Denounce the sufferage movement .

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posted March 20, 2008 03:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be boring

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alcheme
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posted March 20, 2008 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alcheme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL! Not me. This is for one of my roommates...and, not necessarily voluntary...

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Xodian
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posted March 20, 2008 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, lets place the problem less upon the astrological factor for the moment (I'll return to that in a bit.)

But first:

Take the usual disinterest-indicator behavior on a higher scale. If she e-mails, ask your roomate to not reply. If she says hello to him in the hallway, tell your roomate to give a casual wave and move about his/her own business, etc. etc.

Its horrible to do these sort of things... I am not gonna lie. Thus I ask you this upfront, IS IT IMPERITIVE that this girl needs to be warded off?

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kfn327
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posted March 20, 2008 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Showing a "lack of interest" will make the Aries woman that much more interested - even if she wasn't that interested in the first place.

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posted March 20, 2008 07:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually, I heard these following tips worked on someone I knew...

- Be arrogant
- Seem to do naughty things (like a million girls on the tips of your fingers)- you can get your girlfriend to laugh loudly and say things to your roommate if that Aries girl is talking to him on the phone, make sure the Aries hears it...that turned off a crazy Aries girl I knew.
- Be nasty to her...I know its bad, but you gotta take drastic measures w/ Aries.
- Be patient w/ all of the above, and she'll gradually leave.

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Natural111
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posted March 20, 2008 07:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh my gosh, my best friend is an Aries girl! LOL! And I know just how she loses interest in a guy. If he shows he's too dependant on her. She calls them them wimps. A man with no opinion turns her off too. Bad grammar, uneducated and a small vocabulary, all turn her off. But the clingy man, she gets tired up him after a few weeks. LOL! And this is her pattern.

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mblover
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posted March 21, 2008 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe Scorpio is Arie's 8th house. In my view, you want to behave like Scorpios - either controlling or manipulative... and Aries will run.

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Belage
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posted March 21, 2008 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tell the guy to act wimpy.

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Dani California
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posted March 21, 2008 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dani California     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With great difficulty.........

One of my friends is an Aries girl and if they like someone, there is NOTHING you can do to put them off it seems.

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Lara
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posted March 21, 2008 01:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
suffocate her with kisses and be always asking her who she's talking to, where she's going and what time she's coming home!!!
aaarrrgghhhh!

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posted March 21, 2008 04:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahahah... yeh if your friend is willing to lower his value that much, I suggest you take those advices. They WILL work.

Tell him, to ring her up constantly, be SUPER nice to her, treat her like nothing else exists, have no opinions for himself and only AGREE with whatever she says, basically act like a complete wuss, and she will soon be thinking, "What the HELL did I ever like this guy for?? He's totally unattractive" and will lose interest.

Having said this, this is an almost sure-fire way of turning off ANY woman. Aries or not. Unless it's the low-confidence, insecure type of girls who've never quite been given or shown that much love by opposite sex.

And yeh, I would say this is a more effective way to LOSE an Aries or Sag girl than a Cancer or Taurus girl, but overall, you can pretty much the aforementioned BAD tactics above on most attractive women irregardless of sign, to have them get TURNED off and run away to some other guy which in this case, seems like what you want.

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berryberry
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posted March 21, 2008 04:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whine in a thin, tinny voice. Especially about your childhood experience with an overbearing father.

Whine about how others always are... (especially if it implies that you cannot stand up for yourself).

That gets me every time. Of course, along with my Aries sun, I have a Scorp moon.

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Isis
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posted March 22, 2008 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've found that Aries women generally respect directness. If Merc is in Aries, this is especially true. Unless she is psychotic and will cause harm to herself or others, I'd suggest he just tell her that he isn't interested in her romantically. Diplomacy recommended. Aries seems to have a robust ability to bounce back from crushes.

Short of that, I'd go with appearing boring and not talking much.

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posted March 22, 2008 10:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With any Aries I'd say - don't do anything - they get bored so quickly that she's probably gone off the guy already!

(I have a couple of best friends that are Aries and their infatuations are extremely short-lived!)

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posted April 04, 2008 11:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aries gal of a different color - I have Uranus opposite my Sun. Over the years I used seriously avoid relationships like the plague.

From my past recollections on what made me really fall out of love and to seriously get out of a relationship. This is what I have experienced in my past boyfriends.....

Become a total control freak and dictate to her what to do with some simple tasks. Tell her what to do at every turn. So simply BOSS her around.

Become possessive and pretend that you own her and really restrict her freedom. Tell her who she can go hang out with and who she can not. If you want to get MEAN about it do a I'm not ready to make nice with this friend who I don't want you to hang out with talk.

Treat her like a small dependable child.

Go into retirement and sit on the couch all day. Get HER to foot all the bills and do all the work around the house.

Embarass her to the max - just find something she doesn't like and go for it. Out in public. If she doesn't like PDA's(Public displays of affection).

Get upset with her very often and really blow up and get very mad. This really work if they have any water planets or the chart shows that the Aries is high strung. She will go into an emotional break down or the anxiety would get her into the emrgency room.

Or don't call her, move and change your phone number.......

That is just a few ideas. In my case a relationship is a choice that I make and the other has that right freedom.....

I've been through that I think it is a sure shot way to get you Aries to go bye bye.

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Inner depths
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posted April 04, 2008 11:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh and become best pals with anybody whom she dislikes for whatever reason. Then go and talk about that person till the cows come home.....

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posted April 04, 2008 09:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
not compliment her. not be a machismo man. not be sexual/passionate/intense/dedicated to her. lie. make her feel as though shes not #1.

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Got Gemini?
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posted April 04, 2008 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alcheme, are you a guy or girl?

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babeefoxx
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posted April 05, 2008 02:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh geez. Just bluntly break up with her! We HATE pussy-footing around. Get to the point so she can move on with her life already. (Great for you, she'll get on with it fast!)

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mblover
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posted April 05, 2008 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I disagree with blunt approach with Aries because Aries Love bluntness and honesty. Instead of running away, they will take it as a challange and get after you. They love rough dynamics of relationship. I know two Aries men, who are not letting go a leo woman and an Aries woman because they just want to take it as a challange.


In my view, the way to break up with Aries is to do Scorpion way of manipulations at a very high level.. as an example do things on her back.. disappoint her with silence.. promise her for something and break the promise and yet do not argue and just use silence..

Manipulations make Aries Explode and run ...

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Glaucus
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posted April 05, 2008 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Just be honest and straightforward with her. Tell her that you're not interested in her nor ever will be interested in her. Tell her that she's not your type.

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Natural111
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posted April 05, 2008 05:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And Glaucus, it IS as easy as that--actually...

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