posted March 21, 2008 06:58 AM              

I decided to do a synastry for myself and my love whom l feel is my soulmate.He lives abroad and when we are not together l miss him so much

I used all those asteroids and was struck at all the DW aspects AND the exact 0 degree aspects.

Does this confirm my feeling that we are heavenly bound or does everyone have loads of these aspects please?

I felt like crying when l worked out all these aspects cos it made me realize how much we need to be together and it really affected me.

DOUBLE WHAMMY’S

His sun trine my moon 4
His moon sesquiquadrate my sun 2

His sun trine my venus 2
His venus quincunx my sun 1

His sun square my mars 1
His mars square my sun 10

His sun conjunct my Jupiter 6
His Jupiter opposes my sun 6

His sun square my mc 0
His MC trine my sun 0

His sun square my psyche 1
His psyche semi sextiles my sun 0

His moon quincunx my mars 2
His mars trine my moon 7

His moon trine my Jupiter 6
His Jupiter opposes my moon 5

His moon trine my Saturn 1
His Saturn semi sextile my moon 2

His moon square my Pluto 1
His Pluto quincunx my moon 1

His moon trine my PoF 1
His PoF semi sextile my moon 0

His moon quincunx my mc 0
His MC sesquiqudrate my moon 2

His mercury conjunct my Uranus 8
His Uranus quincunx my mercury 1

His mercury conjunct my Pluto 3
His Pluto sesquiqudrate my mercury 2

His mercury semi sextile my PoF 0
His PoF semi square my mercury 0

His mercury conjunct my pallas 2
His pallas sextile my mercury 1

His mercury trine my MC 2
His MC trine my mercury 1

His venus sesquiquadrate my mars 1
His mars trine my venus 5

His venus sesquiquadrate my isis 1
His isis opposes my venus 1

His venus sesquiquadrate my MC 0
His MC sesquiqudrate my venus 0

His mars trine my Saturn 1
His Saturn conjunct my mars 0

His mars square my Neptune 9
His Neptune opposes my mars 6

His mars conjunct my PoF 0
His PoF sextile my mars 2

His mars square my isis 4
His isis quincunx my mars 1

His Jupiter quincunx my Chiron 1
His Chiron sesquiqudrate my Jupiter 0

His Jupiter sextile my AC 0
His AC square my Jupiter 1

His Saturn square my AC 7
His AC biquintiles my Saturn 0

His Neptune trines my Chiron 3
His Chiron sesquiqudrate my Neptune 0

His Neptune opposes my lillith 4
His lilith square my Neptune 1

His Neptune square my AC 1
His AC conjuncts my Neptune 1

His Pluto trine my vertex 0
His vertex quintile my Pluto 0

His Pluto trine my isis 4
His isis semi sextile my pluto 0

His n node opposes my AC 3
His AC biquintiles my n node 0

His lillith conjunct mt AC 1
His AC opposes my lilith 0

His valentine trine my AC 2
His AC trine my valentine 1

His karma semi sextile my MC 0
His MC sextile my karma 0

EXACT aspects

His sun semi sextile my Pluto 0
His sun trine my n node 0
His sun semi-square my eros 0
His moon trine my n node 0
His moon semi-square my juno 0
His mercury sextile my psyche 0
His venus semi sextile my juno 0
His venus conjunct my eros 0
His venus quintile my valentine 0
His mars sesquiquadrate my Chiron 0
His mars quintile my ceres 0
His Jupiter quintile my PoF 0
His Jupiter semi square my pallas 0
His Saturn semi sextile my venus 0
His Saturn sextile my valentine 0
His Uranus quincunx my sun 0
His Uranus sesquidrate my mars 0
His Uranus sesquiqidrate my isis 0
His Uranus semi sextile my karma 0
His Neptune biquintile my venus 0
His Neptune semi sextile my ceres 0
His Pluto semi sextile my Jupiter 0
His Pluto conjunct my Uranus 0
His Pluto sextile my Neptune 0
His n node semi square my Saturn 0
His Chiron semi square my lillith 0
His vertex sextile my mercury 0
His ceres conjunct my sun 0
His pallas semi square my moon 0
His eros squares my Chiron 0
His psyche semi square my venus 0
His valentine biquintile my mars 0
My valentine trine my Jupiter 0
His karma square my Pluto 0
His AC quincunx my moon 0
His MC semi square my valentine 0

posted March 21, 2008 07:11 AM              

if you feel deep down inside that he is the ONE, then he is. No astrological "sign" can take that away.

Apart from that a soulmate would have strong near to exact dw to your chart, which means

A dw of the planets, angles or Karma / Valentine within 2°.
For a Twinsoul there would have to be dw`s with the ASC or Moon.
At least that`s what IQ said, and I think he is right. This way, by narrowing it down, you really get the most important connections.

So, I copy the most important connections of your list here:

His sun trine my venus 2

His sun square my mc 0
His MC trine my sun 0

His moon trine my Saturn 1

His moon square my Pluto 1
His Pluto quincunx my moon 1

His Mercury conjunct my pallas 2
His pallas sextile my mercury 1

His mercury trine my MC 2
His MC trine my mercury 1

His isis opposes my venus 1

His mars trine my Saturn 1
His Saturn conjunct my mars 0

His mars conjunct my PoF 0
His PoF sextile my mars 2

His Jupiter sextile my AC 0
His AC square my Jupiter 1

His Neptune square my AC 1
His AC conjuncts my Neptune 1

His lillith conjunct mt AC 1
His AC opposes my lilith 0

His valentine trine my AC 2
His AC trine my valentine 1

His sun trine my n node 0
His moon trine my n node 0
His mercury sextile my psyche 0
His venus conjunct my eros 0
His Saturn sextile my valentine 0
His ceres conjunct my sun 0
His eros squares my Chiron 0
My valentine trine my Jupiter 0
His karma square my Pluto 0

1. Look for exact (2°) trines or conjunctions of the main bodies to the ASC:

His Valentine trine your ASC
your Valentine trine hsi ASC

Well, I think we can almost stop here. You have a near to exact DW of VAlentine to ASC - IQ would LOVE that!

And with all those other aspects and DW`s I think it`s safe to say, that you indeed are soulmates.

But you knew that already, didn`t you?

DD

posted March 21, 2008 07:16 AM              

I also have these tight aspects with him, l just didn't put them in as it seems so overwhelming, you know?

His eros trines my AC 1
His AC quincunx my venus 2
His AC opposes my mars 2
His AC sextiles my Uranus 1
His AC sextile my Pluto 3
His AC sextiles my vertex 2
His AC opposes my isis 2

wow.
Can l ask who IQ is? and the significnce of Valentine as l have never heard of it before?
Thanks.
Happy Easter to you and your family!

posted March 21, 2008 07:26 AM              

forgot to mention we also have:

My eros trine his psyche 2 deg

my psyche square his sun 1 deg

posted March 21, 2008 08:53 AM              

"Can l ask who IQ is? and the significnce of Valentine as l have never heard of it before?"
IQ used to post a lot here before.
He had some rules to determine if someone can be your soulmate.

One of the most important things i`s to keep your orbs tight, 2° to the maximum, and to first look at the important bodies like Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Pluto, NN, ASC, Karma and Valentine (maybe Amor).

In a soulmate relationship you would find:
1. close aspects of those bodies to ASC
2. close aspects of these bodies to themselves (ex.: Venus conjunct Sun)

Also, there has to be a close dw with ASC (or Moon), but here you can look at other asteroids, too.

The most important asteroids in my opinion are:
Ceres, Juno, Karma, Valentine, Amor, Eros, Psyche, Isis and Osiris

But with a true soulmate you will have strong connections from various angles:
Natal comparision
Synastry
Midpoint configurations
Draconic chart
etc.

There will also emerge certain patterns.

EX:
There is this singer I feel a certain connection, too (probably we have met in a previous life, that`s all).

And we seem to have a Venus-Pluto-theme among others.

Natal:
His Venus trine his Pluto
My Venus squares my Pluto

Synastry:
My Venus trines his Pluto
HIs Venus contraparallel (and triseptile) my Pluto

Midpoint configurations and planetary pictures:
We have a Grand TRine of:
His Venus / Karma trine his Pluto trine my Venus
(actually it`s a kite since his Chiron is exactly oposite his Pluto)

AND

my Venus is exactly opposite his Venus-Pluto-midpoint

That means that we have a midpoint picture of Venus/ Pluto = Venus

AND

all the planets of this midpoint picture aspect each other in tight orbs.

I think that those configurations may be the focal point of any chart.

Draconics:
His draconic Pluto conjuncts my Draconic Venus

Also, everytime we met or spoke shortly (not all that often) this particular Grand Trine was triggered by Transits or Progressions big time.

That is what I call a pattern.

Also, I don`t underestimate minor aspects.
But first make sure you have understood the major aspects, which probably will be the most dominant themes in your chart or synastry.
But the minor aspects could be like an undercurrent melody or vibration. I still have to research that.

Regarding Valentine:
It is said to signify unconditional love, this kind of love where you sacrifice yourself for the loved one (if necessary).

It`s funny, I never really believed in the effects of Valentine.
But some months ago a new colleague appeared at our workplace.
There are many people who have their troubles with him, because he sometimes comes across as a bit arrogant, not wanting to "mesh", distant and so on.
I saw that all, and still the moment I saw him, I felt a surge of warmth and forgiveness and well, maybe even love, or let`s say affection for him.
Pure, undemanding, not erotic or sexual, no, no, just a feeling of overwhelming sympathy, but in a calm way.

And now it turns out (I never really looked at his chart before), that my Valentine is:

conjunct his Sun (1,5)
conjunct his Mars (2,5)
conjunct his Karma (0)

and probably also conjunct his Moon.

And since my Amor and Valentine are only 4,5° apart from each other, my Amor is also conjunct his Sun, Mars and Karma.
Actually my Valentine and Amor kinda surround his Mars, Sun and Karma. Like brackets. LOL

"Happy Easter to you and your family!"
Happy Easter to you and your family, too!"