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Topic: First date in 9 months...yikes!
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Love
Knowflake Posts: 54
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 22, 2008 05:54 PM
  
Just as usual, I met a guy who made me feel like the universe was once again intervening in my life in an obvious way. I met this guy who gave me a jolt of...something. He reminds me of my favourite (and most recent) ex-boyfriend but when I had a look at his chart, it resembles mine in many ways, including almost the exact same house positions (we both have Gemini Ascendants and were born a month apart).More importantly, he has a crazy Taurus 12th house stellium which falls into my not-quite-as-intense 12th house, in Taurus. For the record, he has Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Chiron, POF, Pallas, Vesta, Amor, Osiris and Eros in his 12th. I only have Moon, Jupiter, Amor, Chiron, Lilith and Eros. Anyhow, I have my first date with him tonight and I'm writing this due to a whole slew of synchronicities which lead me to believe that this will be a very important date, regardless of whether it goes 'anywhere' in the end. We have NN conjunct Vertex too. This whole thing reminds me of the first time I drove to meet my now ex-bf and secretly knowing that it was very karmically influenced. I felt sooooo nervous and when I met him for the first time I knew I was going to fall in love with him. Which I did. So I guess my question is this: taking into account all of this 12th house energy, is it going to make it easier or more challenging to connect? I've had planets transposed to and from the 12th house before in my relationships, but never this many. At least I understand why I felt so overwhelmed when I met him for the first time. IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted March 22, 2008 06:41 PM
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heart cakes
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posted March 22, 2008 06:42 PM
wow, i don't know how to answer your question but i got really happy and excited for you while reading it!!i would say with all the 12th house stuff, it's no wonder it feels fated! i'm thinking, probably, due to the emphasis on the 12th house, there could be a strong feeling of connection, but in ways that are hard to define or understand. but probably a feeling of expansiveness with a dreamy, lulling quality to it. have fun! IP: Logged |
Love
Knowflake Posts: 54
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posted March 22, 2008 06:49 PM
Thanks! I *was* excited, but now I just feel nervous. I was hoping for a break from karma for a while and so I asked the universe to cut me some slack until March of this year. I guess the universe took that date seriously. Also, I've never dated a Gemini in my life. I have no idea what to expect. I feel like there's a Gemini barrier of intellect holding back all his 12th house energy, but boy I can sure feel it! IP: Logged |
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posted March 22, 2008 06:53 PM
haha, i did the same thing with march, and i got a guy too! weird..what's your sun sign? i love geminis, but i'm an aquarius. they keep it light and are on/off back and forth, and yeah, hold back their emotions. i personally find it hard to tell what a gemini's true feelings are cuz they tend to be kinda flirtatious just in the way they talk to people in general.. i don't know what to recommend for the nervousness. maybe try some meditation or rescue remedy! IP: Logged |
Love
Knowflake Posts: 54
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posted March 22, 2008 07:56 PM
I'm a Cancer with a Taurus Moon and Cancer Venus and he's a Gem with a Taurus Moon and Taurus Venus. Should be interesting.IP: Logged |
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posted March 22, 2008 08:06 PM
oooh, that sounds really nice acutally! all the cancer and taurus. they go really nicely together!IP: Logged |
jane
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posted March 23, 2008 01:15 AM
I can't believe you would flaunt cheating on me like this.  I don't have any experience with large stelliums being mutually transposed into the 12th house. But I have Libra on my 12th, and *usually* Libra men and I understand each other and get along very well. (There have been a few exceptions to that.) Anyway, I hope you have/had a great time! 
You can bring him to our cottage. The more the merrier.  IP: Logged |
Love
Knowflake Posts: 54
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posted March 23, 2008 08:35 PM
Oh Jane, I'm so sorry you had to find out this way but I thought it was better to give you a heads up before we just showed up at your cottage. (awkward!!!)Anyhow the date was fantastic! So much better than I could have even hoped so I feel very contented today. I almost feel, after spending 10 hours with him (it was a loooong date), that we're like mirrors somehow for each other and that the whole 12th house thing might be a total blessing. Of course, I never like to speak too soon about relationships since we're not even technically in one at this point...but it totally rocked and that's enough for me  IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 12:17 AM
wow, Love, that is great!! i'm so happy for you!!IP: Logged |
Love
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posted March 24, 2008 12:27 AM
Thanks! Me too! I feel like I just gave birth to dating again. Booya!IP: Logged |
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posted March 24, 2008 01:11 AM
yay!! i feel all datey now too. it's fun hey?IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted March 25, 2008 12:30 AM
Yay!!! I'm so glad to hear a happy story about romance for a change!IP: Logged |
Love
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posted March 25, 2008 12:41 AM
I tell you, if you knew the whole tale you'd be even more impressed. And for the first time I can actually say that dating was kind of fun. Of course, that's 'cause it went so well  IP: Logged |
mblover
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posted March 29, 2008 08:38 PM
Love,I would suggest you help him release a lot of repressed energies and feelings. It is nice to know that his Mars is not in the 12th house. So he will remain dynamic and take actions. But all of these planets in 12th.. tells me that he had tough times in childhood..One way he wants to take care of parents deeply but because of 12th house placements, he may have made several sacrifices for them... In my view, you need to take care of this man and let him possess you fully.. you shall enjoy the steadfast security and loyalty.. It would be fun to watch him eat same cereal (breakfast) everyday. IP: Logged |
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