posted March 23, 2008 09:53 PM            

He broke up with his girlfriend sometime between the end of January and Valentine's Day (I never asked for details), and we went out for our first date on Valentine's Day. The whole thing ended last week, a few days after his 29th birthday on March 13th.

Scarily interesting is... those of you that remember my rantings about the Pisces Psycho... this guy is not only a Scorpio Rising, just like the Pisces Psycho... but he's also a Virgo Moon... and get this... at the exact same degree of Virgo as the previous guy. They also both have Uranus conjunct their ASC. How weird is that?

Anyhow, I'm just curious about any insights you all may have by looking at his chart or our composite.

I am still very fond of him, but I know it isn't going to work and I'm trying really hard to preserve the friendship at this point and minimise any bitterness.

posted March 23, 2008 10:27 PM            

Moon conj Ura in 1st - electric and new emotions
Ruler of 8th, merc conj sun in 5th/pisces - dreamy, lurrve (cf venus trine saturn)
Ruler of 7th, mars squ ura - short yet electric relationship, trine asc/pluto - a bit spicy
MC Leo conj Jupiter - maybe an expansive experience and a bit of heat/passion/entertainment. Also ruler or asc (sun) in 5th
Venus trine NN

posted March 23, 2008 10:52 PM            

In synastry, we have some electric chemistry aspects and some really great communicative aspects:

His Mars sextile my Moon (1 orb)
His Moon trine my Mercury (1 orb)
His Venus conjunct my Sun/Mars (7/8 orb... yes, I know it's wide, but in my experience, it is very valid)
His Sun square my Venus/Neptune (4 orb)
My Venus conjunct his Neptune (1 orb)
His Mercury conjunct my DC (1 orb)

posted March 24, 2008 02:43 AM            

The sun/mars/venus conj despite being 7/8 deg apart would still hold IMHO because they are such a powerful combo. I can personally feel someone's venus/mars in the same sign as mine, but of course a wide conj would be stonger. Its that plus the venus-neptune thing happening that's the affect here. And yes, his neptune nudging your venus would have an impact, regardless of your own nudging your venus. He fits into your idealistic dreams of a man.

posted March 24, 2008 03:35 AM            

However, despite the incredible attraction and friendship... I am so comfortable with this man, we can just hang out and laze around the house all day talking... or not talking... and it feels completely natural... but really, we mostly have these endless conversations and despite his thuggish image, he is really quite thoughtful and sensitive...

Anyhow... we are extremely sexually incompatible, but last weekend we had a fight due to his arrogance... and I'm not putting forth the effort to patch things up... because it was never going to work anyway. So it's better that it stays finished, even though it's hard and I sort of miss him

posted March 25, 2008 02:46 AM            

*exasperated*

I purposely didn't ask this guy what his birthdate was until our third or fourth date and he was like March 13th and I was like, DOH!!!

posted March 25, 2008 01:43 PM            

(actually, I only have my South Node in Pisces)

I also have no water planets, except for my Uranus singleton in Scorpio... URANUS of all planets! It makes me even more Aquarian-like.

Plus, I have Neptune conjunct Venus... argh.

It's all these factors that I think it is.

I did go through a Cancer phase for awhile. Literally every guy I met was a Cancer, but nothing ever got serious.

posted March 28, 2008 08:45 PM            

Talk about chemistry in that other thread... I love the chemistry I have with this man, it's electric. I knew something big was going to happen with him the moment I laid eyes on him. The very moment.

He came over last night and stayed and today I keep smelling his pillow, it smells like him and I love it!

posted March 28, 2008 10:48 PM              

I'm worried now after what 23 said - I have the same aspect you have with your man..... ""Ruler of 7th, mars squ ura - short yet electric relationship""

eek!

23, does this definitely mean a relationship wouldn't work, with this aspect pls?

posted March 28, 2008 11:12 PM            

Lara, don't worry, you can't take one aspect and say "well, that means this relationship won't last"... you really have to look at the whole chart. You could have a lot of other stabilizing influences that will counteract any funky Mars-Uranus, or any other "negative" aspect. So, don't worry. nothing is etched in stone.

Mars-Uranus aspects can also indicate that you keep each other on your toes, it's not all doom and gloom.

And if this person was only meant to come into your life for a short time, you should just enjoy them and relish the experience and let them on their way, cherishing whatever it was that you loved about them and what they brought into your life and taught you, right?

What's so bad about that?

posted March 28, 2008 11:19 PM              

I agree. Cool attitude

posted March 29, 2008 02:14 AM            

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23, does this definitely mean a relationship wouldn't work, with this aspect pls?

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I specifically mentioned that re Venus' relationship. It is would neither be fatal to yours or her relationship. Its about how you accomodate it.

posted March 31, 2008 12:18 AM            

I just found out that the Pisces' birthdate is actually... lol... in 1980, not 1979... hahahahaha!!!

So this changes everything.

Most startling is that... we have a double whammy Venus trine Moon

posted March 31, 2008 03:03 AM            

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posted March 31, 2008 03:41 AM            

I think in the composite chart the conj between mars/ura points to a bit of electricity, esp in the 1st and esp in Sco. Mars is rules sco and ura exalted in sco. The very near miss of the asc in libra means that its a pleasant, beautiful relationship, charm is added by sun conj venus in the fourth, which gives it a very visceral and close feeling but an eccentric relationsip (aqu). Viscerality also added by moon conj IC. Also squ between sun/veus and ura adds a bit more to the friction. I'd say its too wide for a trine between pluto and sun/venus.
Pluto lurking the 12th - secret magnetism/unearthing of something in the closet or at least exploration?

posted March 31, 2008 09:54 AM              

is that spooky or what ??????
BTW i just remembered something Iqhunk had said. his wife for eg. was in love with prince willian and refused to be married to any other dude.after a lot of parental and emotional intervention she gave up and agreed to marry IQ. well they did fall crazily in love when they met. but heres the thing, IQ said he is the closest match to Prince william in India. they are both cancerians, Princes moon conj IQ's sun, they both lost their mothers at 15. and IQ almost missed out on being in the same school and college as the prince.all in all what IQs wife wanted was out of reach so her oversoul sent her the closest match, sans the billions of course

anyways he told another girl on this board, to forgive her soulmate, and if she did that either he would come back or she would find and be in love with someone else exactly like that.ofcourse he said if the forgiveness was genuine the relationship would be made in heaven.

posted April 01, 2008 03:56 AM            

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23, I think that is very insightful! Honestly... I think I'm falling pretty hard for him. Ever since things got back on track with him, we are closer than ever. What I really love about him is how affectionate he is. If I snuggle up to him, he's the type that will kiss my eyelids and my forehead and stroke my hair and he ALWAYS wants to snuggle and cuddle.

Any time my skin touches his, it's electric!

I feel drunk on all the affection. Now that I know we have the trine/sextile double whammy, I'm like... aaaaahhaaaaaa.

Venus De India, haha... did you catch my edit??? IT WAS THE WRONG YEAR!!! LOL!! All that freaking out because I thought he was my exe's astro twin... it turns out they are very similar, but at least it's not a Virgo Moon at the same degree. That scared me! Instead he has an Aqua moon that is sextile my Venus and Neptune. Hehehe. My Moon is trine his Venus and Chiron.

But that is very weird about Prince William and IQ hunk's wife.. I guess it is still very valid as my ex and R______ are still very similar astrologically...

posted April 02, 2008 11:09 PM            

your mars squs his venus! Tension, tension!
His mars is in leo and your venus is in sag. Although there is no major aspect between the two, the signs are compatible. Although pluto is generational, it is touching his moon and this must produce some intense emotions. There doesn't seem to be anything there that is with uranus, which give the electricity, except his sun and your ura. I suppose all these aspects get activated together producing a combined effect.