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Topic: Cancer/Cancer
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kissher
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posted March 24, 2008 11:01 PM
  
Could this work? I am SO attracted to him.Him:
Sun Cancer 6.12
Moon Capricorn 17.48
Mercury Cancer 28.37
Venus Gemini 20.47 R
Mars Cancer 29.27
Jupiter Capricorn 3.04 R
Saturn Gemini 13.28
Uranus Libra 14.12
Neptune Sagittarius 3.02 R
Pluto Virgo 29.25
Lilith Scorpio 13.53
Asc node Capricorn 26.08
Me:
Sun Cancer 6.54 Ascendant Aquarius 8.52
Moon Leo 29.27 II Pisces 22.43
Mercury Leo 2.14 III Aries 29.26
Venus Gemini 21.16 IV Taurus 26.58
Mars Gemini 2.14 V Gemini 19.45
Jupiter Leo 10.26 VI Cancer 12.04
Saturn Virgo 9.12 VII Leo 8.52
Uranus Scorpio 17.13 R VIII Virgo 22.43
Neptune Sagittarius 18.38 R IX Libra 29.26
Pluto Libra 16.27 Midheaven Scorpio 26.58
Lilith Leo 28.48 XI Sagittarius 19.45
Asc node Virgo 10.35 XII Capricorn 12.
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JWonderer
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posted March 24, 2008 11:11 PM
can't say that I know too much about the charts together, but i do have lots of experiece with cancer on cancer action LOL.. well i too, am a Cancer but with different moon and Asc. etc.;
Nevertheless, i have been in two serious long term relationships, and both of these guys were Cancer..
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JWonderer
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posted March 24, 2008 11:23 PM
hate to tell you but the first combo was a disaster! he was born June 29th '81, and myself June 25th '86. (I have never ran his chart or anything..)
Any way he and I were completely a train wreck racing at full speed throughout life.. on and off for over three years, true we were young (still are) but regardless of what time in life we had met I am sure that the relationship would have been just as disasterous.. this relationship was so bad that it totally shook me to the core and changed who i was as a person, how I looked at life and left me a completely different person than I was when I entered into the relationship, the same is true for him also.. talk about co-dependant!
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JWonderer
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posted March 24, 2008 11:47 PM
A RAY OF HOPE
the next cancer relationship that I entered into.. turned out to be "the one" (yes that person really does exsist) [his birthday is July 2nd '79.]
i can confidently say he is who I will be with and stay with.. he says the same of me. Our child, Carter (my little Scorpion in the house of crabs) just turned 4 months old.. this relationship has brought me more hapiness than I could ever imagine one to bring.. My Cancerian tendencies have always led me to try and find my hapiness in a relationship, and the bitter price that I paid with the first Cancer, had led me to beleive that I was going to have to make myself happy and left me with the thought that some relationship, some all consuming relationship like that which I craved,was nothing but dangerous and really not possible. the time spent in between my two Cancer's I was busy trying to reschool my heart and soul, that yearned for someone out there for me to love and who would love me just the same; trying to teach myself that it was just a pipe dream. so needless to say when my wayne came along I was skeptical even though it seemed perfect from the very start.. i spent most of my time convincing myself that it was too good to be true.. that was b4 i found out that he was a cancer, when i found that out i took a step back and said Oh no I'm not going through that again, yet i continued to look for the flaws and when none ever became apparent I still told myself that this relationship was due to U-turn at any moment and head for the south @ 90 MPH even as I moved in with him I told myself not to get comfortable b/c this just wasnt going to work.. yet it did and here we are today a family! yet its all happened within a little over a year and lots would say that a year is nothing, both he and I know that what we share is completely special and the bond that we have forged is undeniable.
so my advice to you is that this relationship will be totally all consuming and eihter really good, or really disasterous (yet you fool yourself into thinking that its good) if you find yourself changing into someone that you cannot recognize then get out asap!! good luck to you Crabs and let me know if anything happends ok??IP: Logged |
kissher
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posted March 24, 2008 11:55 PM
Talk about horror story! I'm currently involved with a Scorpio and I am ... I don't know ... maybe it's my Venus in Gemini. Here comes Mr. Cancer all adorable and affectionate and clingy and FUNNY, I rather like the similarities in our personalities. I guess I can see how this could be a no no, but it feels great to be around someone who understands the core of who I am. No questions asked kinda deal.IP: Logged |
JWonderer
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posted March 25, 2008 01:29 AM
my crabby mans Venus is in Gemini also.. from your 1st hand experience, could it be a reason to worry, just what effect do you think that it truly has on you?? a strong one??IP: Logged |
JWonderer
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posted March 25, 2008 01:32 AM
i used to be so... fascinated by scorpio Gemini and Pisces
Scorpio b/c of their fierceness and refusal to let just anyone "in" and his emotional deepness
Gemini major sex appeal
Pisces tended to make me feel sorry for them but at the same time i knew they were doing so just to get what he wanted from meIP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted March 25, 2008 02:33 AM
My Cancer - Cancer relationship ended in tragedy. An angry goodbye and no real closure. It was all perfect and dreamy at one point and so many plans for the future.. ie: marriage kids we were even going to move away together (we were already staying together after a few months). but I suppose there was a breaker somewhere.. and both of us in the end were dramatically effected.. short period of time in a chain of events in went down the drain. tried fixing things but I suppose it was too late. now she is with another guy doing her own thing. sometimes I think she is my soul's hate but then other times I learn to relax and look at the brightside and trust in change and in the future and what Ive learned, and I suppose I feel happy for her. My general opinion of her is not very high. but my feelings about her sway from time to time. supposably we have some quindeciles between us but I dont care.. if there is really anymore to us I dont think it could be good. and I dont think there is any way in hell I would get back with her.other then that.. I have seen other cancer couples do alright for many years.. IP: Logged |
JWonderer
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posted March 25, 2008 02:43 AM
my first realationship that i was talkin bout; i had the exact same feelings about it, that jwonderer was describing.. no closure all that except now, my opinion of him couldnt be any lower b/c of the way that he treated me.. it was as bad as it could get with us there for a while,even physical abuse from him during arguments.. it was terrible IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted March 25, 2008 05:15 AM
I assume those are his Noon positions ~ which means we won't know his Ascendant and can't be sure of his Moon placement. The Moons are in very different signs although yours is right on the cusp of Virgo. Time of day won't change that as yours is the Moon with the exact time. For kick-off your Suns are tightly conjunct which is a strong connection. Although they fall in different signs your Mercurys are also conjoined. That should also help matters. Communication is key in relationships in my view. Venus conjunct Venus is an harmonious aspect. It stands a fair chance if you both want it to, if you know what I mean. That's a quick skim, if I get time I'll draw up a chart and have a closer look.
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cancerrg
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posted March 25, 2008 11:07 AM
Welcome Kissher & JWonderer !
Hope you both enjoy the journey ! when i read the experiences of all , it was as if i was reading about myself .
btw, i have the same b'day as your ex. and i can make out , why it happened the way it happened . sorry for you and ultimately happy for you crabs and the little scorp ! if you observe , you will find a difference bettween cancers born in the first ten days ,next ten days and last ten days .
In my exp. cancers from the first block tend to be more volatile .cancers form the second block are quite mild but more dtermined . and the last ones tend to have a bit of leo in them .
so a realtion between two from the same block ,specially the first block ones are less sustainable ( i dont say , they can not be good friends or they dont understand eachother , infact they do . though the emotion are on the same level , practically its a tough relation mainly they share the same strengths and weaknesses )
i have a male friend sharing your bday , we are good frinds , emotionally quite close too but we used to have our share of skirmishes (things that could have been easily avoided , we both were childish ). we both were pretty violent (he more than me ) and we both were part of the scholl gang . its the same with cancer sis too (27th) but my other cancer sis (7th) is pretty mild .
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cancerrg
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posted March 25, 2008 11:16 AM
back to main topic(i shall leave my family history for the benefit of this thread  ) cancer-cancer realtions are indeed beautiful (reagrdless of how much we hate eachother or fight , its still beautiful ) i have been with two cancer woman and i have repeatedly said , i never felt that depth and connection elsewhere ( its the same with my cancer sisters too though i have a cap sis too) but incidentally i was with cancer woamn from the second and the last block (10th and 12th respectively ) so , i'll just say , come whatever , enjoy this realtion Kishher ! i dont know if this is for eternity but i will assure you , you will never get that connection elsewhere .
Use your heart not your mind !
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