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Topic: Will we get back together? scorp/cappy
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astroscorp
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posted March 26, 2008 07:49 AM
 
Hello everyone,Me and my ex-cappy broke up a year ago and it came about during a heated argument that went out of hand. We were together 7 years although the first 3 years was a long distance r/s. To cut a long story short; I was the one who kept hanging on and asked for a reconciliation but she refused. She said she was hurt badly and that she did not want to go back to the same route again. I have not seen her for 4 months because I thought "out of sight, out of mind" is the best policy to get over a person and move on. So far it has worked for me. However I was reading on the thread "Soulmates" and I wonder if me and my ex-cappy has a remote chance of getting back together - someday? Or was it a bad r/s to start with? Not that I am still hankering over a recon but astrology has got me curious and I just wanna see if it is true in a sense.  Below are our aspects. Thanks!
Sun Sextile Sun 0.48 383
Sun Square Venus 2.58 -162
Sun Sextile Jupiter 1.00 103
Sun Sextile Midheaven 1.08 30
Mercury Trine Moon 0.54 170
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 3.20 97
Venus Square Moon 0.13 -257
Venus Sextile Neptune 0.55 57
Venus Conjunction Pluto 0.17 111
Saturn Trine Mercury 2.06 71
Uranus Sextile Sun 0.05 104
Uranus Square Venus 2.05 -87
Uranus Sextile Jupiter 1.54 36
Neptune Sextile Venus 0.30 65
Neptune Square Mars 0.17 -109
Neptune Trine Ascendant 2.39 43
Pluto Trine Venus 1.01 60
Pluto Opposition Ascendant 3.11 -36
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Green Fairy
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posted March 26, 2008 08:31 AM
That's one tight Venus/Pluto conjunction o_o
Check the link http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001275.html
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dj
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posted March 26, 2008 09:09 AM
Yes, and note too that the other persons Pluto is trine the partners Venus, and opposite thier Ascendant, this is a very Venus-Pluto themed relationship, indicating there is a good chance it will be emotionally rebirthed. Whose Pluto is that opposite whose ascendant? That person will likely hold the reigns of power and control, life and death, in the relationship.
There are also tight mutual Venus-Neptune interaspects (Venus sextile Neptune, Neptune sextile Venus), bringing soft Neptune energy in as a theme. This signifies a desire to help one another born of previous loving relationships. Its a special kind of karma where the individuals dont actually *need* to work out karmic ties, but they have such a strong empathic connection that they yearn to help one another.
Its ultimately up to both people, not astrology. Were looking at potentials only here. Also, posting of charts is much better for future reference please.IP: Logged |
astroscorp
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posted March 26, 2008 12:41 PM
Hi Green Fairy - Thanks for the link. Hi dj - Thanks for the explanation. Much appreciated. Below is our chart. She's on the outside.  IP: Logged |
bellemalheur
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posted March 26, 2008 05:33 PM
not likely. you have to take into consideration that capricorns seldom go back on a decision they've made and the more you actively try to get her to, the more resolved in not wanting to she becomes. i'm a cap, i know these things.so i advise you to let it go and have faith that the universe knows what it's doing. IP: Logged |
dj
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posted March 26, 2008 06:10 PM
I agree with that assessment of Capricorn approach to old flames, but this is no ordinary cappie girl emotionally, she has Venus in Aquarius. Its unpredictable and will kick against her own Capricorn nature.
But I concur it could go either way astrologically, with a Venus square Sun/Uranus relationship, endings can be sudden and shocking, and there will always be some emotional instability between you, and the fixed signs can be stubborn and not go back. Her sensitive Cancer Moon in your 12th square your Venus seems to be hiding something, and there are hurt feelings there too. Also, those intertwined Chirons on your midheaven are calling for healing and look very painful. Was employment/money an issue in the relationship?IP: Logged |
astroscorp
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posted March 26, 2008 09:29 PM
You guys are right about cappy; once they have made up their mind there's no turning back. Although we did broke up once before and we made up thereafter but I guess this time around its final.The issue is my own insecurity and my low self-esteem at that time that brought to alot of arguments and mistrust in our r/s. I was also under some stress cuz of the demands in my new job. It didn't helped that I was restricting her freedom and space. The more she hanged out with her friends - the more insecure I become and demanded more attention from her. The breakup was I would say a drama; a shocking end. Anyway, I've realized my mistakes too late. Perhaps I am not the one for her. And that I am sure she will be able to find her own happiness. I've not contacted her for 4 mths and neither did she. IP: Logged |
mblover
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posted March 28, 2008 07:08 PM
She has Cap Sun and Cancer Moon - quite an opposite on what she wants and what she expresses..astroscorp we have talked about your chart before..It's good for you to find a Cancer woman with a Moon in Leo or something ;-) she will understand you much better. IP: Logged |
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