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sorcha
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posted March 31, 2008 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Again,

I have been single for 3 and a half years, not a snog, nothing. I was in a serious relationship for 5 years and went out with a guy briefly for a few months afterwards. Would someone, if you have time, have a quik look at my chart to see what the heck has caused this, not only my lovelife has gone, but other areas of my life have just.... gone on hold. I feel like life has forgetten me. I have to say not all of my life is bad just a few little bits, it must be some weird transit, but Im hoping it will end in this lifetime rather than the next. If someone had a free minute it would be appreciated.

My birth details are 25th Feb 1977 01.00am

Thanks 8 )

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let ther b light
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posted March 31, 2008 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hey scorcha
i have been single too for around a year and a half now...i'm not too good at reading charts so i cannot advice you there...but if its any solace to you, then you shud know u r not alone...

i cant seem to feel anything for anyone right now..its kinda scary...maybe i'm being too picky..i dont know but i jus dont feel like goin out with anyone....had a small tiff with my friend coz she was trying to hook me up with some of her friends and i was'nt really interested...hopefully this dry spell will end soon!

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GrlyGirl20
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posted March 31, 2008 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message
Hey I tried to do your chart...could you please provide place of birth as well? Thanks.

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sorcha
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posted April 01, 2008 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Hey LTBL + GG20,

Thanks for your reply and your advice I know your right, but its a little bit worrying all the same what is causing these blocks in my life. My motto has always been 'whats meant for you wont pass you'. I should be well through my saturn return by now I think.

GG20 thanks for taking the time to read my post and have a look at my chart. I was born in Dublin City, Ireland.

Thanks again 8 )

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blue moon
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posted April 01, 2008 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Your chart with progressions and transits.

You'll get more input with a chart on show. I can take it down after if you like.

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sorcha
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posted April 01, 2008 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Blue Moon,

Thanks you, Ive no problem with it being there. I did try and put it there already but failed.

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blue moon
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posted April 01, 2008 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
O.K, that's good!

I've had a quick look - your Saturn return is over.

Then I looked at the sign on the descendant (close relationships), it's Taurus, which being ruled by Venus it is interesting to note that it is in opposition with Pluto ~ as part of a kite figure, intersecting the Fire Grand Trine with Venus, Neptune and Saturn.

Your progressed MC is at 15* Libra, 2* away from your natal Pluto. So it is starting to move out of orb, but will have been around for about 4 years plus, at the end of the Pluto Opposition with Venus. That could be part of it. I'd have to think how it translates but I'm thinking you have aren't someone prepared to settle for second best in a relationship.

EDIT: in 2004 progressed Moon moved into the 7th house... I note that natally you have Moon CNJ Jupiter SQU Mercury so this was triggered off by the progessed Moon, emphasising a likely need for you to reflect upon how you relate to others.

Just a quick look. I'll need to think about it for anything more thorough and translated out of astro-jargon!

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dj
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posted April 01, 2008 05:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dj     Edit/Delete Message
hmmm, maybe too much internal attachment to the idea of being in an external relationship, or too much expectation of what it will bring, is disrupting your chances? That overstimulated 7th house Moon/Jupiter square Mercury in the 3rd looks to be involved here. Wanting love so much you keep it at bay is also a Venus/Pluto opposition feature. Let go. Work on changing how you feel about relationships and loving yourself and see where that leads.
Do not lose hope. Sometimes there are periods in life when we need to be on our own. Sometimes these periods are quite long, relatively speaking. But everything has a beginning, a middle, and an end. Dont think about that though, the future is not yet here, ask yourself now what a relationship would fill in your life, whether its a need for company or affection, then give it to yourself.

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sorcha
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posted April 01, 2008 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
BM and DJ,

Thanks for your time and input, i really appreciate it. I wish I could do something in return, my interest in astrology is deep, but Im too restless to get my head around the technicalites and volume of it, I only know basic stuff, so I cant give you anything back this way.
Some of what you have both said, immediatley makes sense.
Is my progressed 7th not in play at the moment? or is it my progressed 5th thats coming into action?
BM do you do any sort of readings, payable of course?

S

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blue moon
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posted April 01, 2008 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
I don't charge for my insights, such as they are. I am an amateur astrologer as you can tell by the fact I had to edit my mistake above,lol. But I'm happy to take a closer look at your chart when/if time permits.

Or ... maybe try the new 'Private Readings' forum here on Lindaland.

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sorcha
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posted April 01, 2008 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks again BM for all of your time! I will check the private reading section out.

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let ther b light
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posted April 02, 2008 03:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hi scorcha,
i believe i'm more like my sidereal chart than my western chart. if i do my chart with western astrology then i have the same asc as yours which means we prolly have similar transits going on where the houses are concerned..maybe thats the reason we are sailing in the same boat???!!...i dunno..i'll put up my details incase you want to have a look..i dont know how to put up the picture..
DOB:14-4-80. 8:42pm. mumbai,india.

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blue moon
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posted April 02, 2008 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Well I've had a little more of a look and I can't help feeling dj's comments are on the mark.

Pluto Opposite Venus creates a Kite configuration with the impressive Fire Grand Trine on your chart. It suggests drive, energy and you must have some artistic talent. With the combination including Neptune, Venus, Pluto and Saturn I can't help thinking idealised love is part of your spiritual outlook.

Venus rules the 7th house and is in Opposition to Pluto, an aspect that has a need for depth and intensity in relationships. The progressed MC has hit the Pluto end, maybe, as dj suggest, projecting this need externally. The MC rules social standing as well as career, so that is where I am headed with that thought. This progressed aspect is coming out of orb now, after being in aspect for around 4 years. So hopefully this influence might lift.

Mercury is powerfully situated in the 3rd house, alongside Mars and the Sun. That shows a powerful need for self-expression. Transiting Neptune is moving over Mercury, which offers creative potential but unfortunately Neptunian fog is also good at causing confusion. Decisions made during a Neptune transit aren't always the best as I have cause to know. So just be aware that this is around right now.

Neptune's influence is going to last for the next couple of years, and is also going to effect your Moon CNJ Jupiter in the 7th house. There is a lot of sensitivity and emotion in this aspect, and being in the house of close relationships that shows the importance you place in this part of life and the effort you are prepared to put in. It is square Mercury on your chart so that suggests tension in how you communicate this need, and also I think there is something of the head versus the heart in conflict. As Neptune is conjunct the Mercury end, the Moon and Jupiter are going to be Squared by Neptune. So unfortunately emotional tension is going to figure in the next couple of years.

But there is something more harmonious to balance this out. Jupiter is moving through Capricorn at a degree that trines your Moon CNJ Jupiter in the 7th house. Jupiter is known as the Great Benefic, and is generally regarded as a lucky planet. Let's hope that is the case here! Anyway it is transiting to the 7th house and so is bringing activity to that area which is what you are hoping for ~ in the New Year it will change signs to Aquarius and this influence will be over. But then it will move through your 3rd house, and with 3 personal planets there wanting to communicate could find that expansive influence could be helpful.


There's some more information on Neptune transits on CafeAstrology.

On your chart you can expect in the following year:

Neptune Conjunct Mercury
Neptune Square Moon
Neptune Square Jupiter
http://www.cafeastrology.com/neptunetransits.html

p.s my husband has just called me up to say Bertie Ahern has resigned

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blue moon
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posted April 02, 2008 07:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message

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sorcha
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posted April 02, 2008 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Hey BM,

Again thanks soo much for your time and energy, I dont know what to say, I genuinely would love to repay you in some way. All I can say is your kindness will come back to you. If ever you do decide to do your own private readings let me know.

These gawd damn transits I wish theyd go away. Ive read the neptune transits and I can seriously feel the restless one and the mention of career big time. Im feeling really strange and want so many changes that its almost like I feel like bursting, but I have absolutely no control, thats the horrible part. I dont know where to channel the energy to. Anyway will just have to soldier on.
DJ as well thanks again for your wisdom, what you said is actaully spot on about my feelings of wanting love but yet being really suspicious of it.
BM are you Irish or is your hubbie? Thats the first Ive heard of Bert stepping down, must investigate it.

S

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sorcha
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posted April 02, 2008 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Hi LTBL,

Im going to have a look and see the similarites between our charts, well as far as I can. You however, are more experienced than my good self.

BM has very kindly posted your chart here as well.

S 8 )

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blue moon
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posted April 02, 2008 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
He's just into his politics, but I am of Irish extraction.

A link for the story:

http://www.ireland.com/newspaper/breaking/2008/0402/breaking4.htm


No charge for my efforts, don't even think about it.


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Happy Dragon
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posted April 02, 2008 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
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dj
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posted April 02, 2008 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dj     Edit/Delete Message
You're welcome to the advice. I have been a practicing professional astrologer for 9 years this October and found your chart little trouble to read. I could see the key chart factors involved in your question almost immediately and could see the progressions in my minds eye too. I work very intuitively so thank you for affirming the validity of my findings.
One more piece of advice. I do understand how difficult life periods can be, believe me, I have lost everything several times, true soul mate included, and noone who knows me would say my life has been easy. But you know what Im one tough old bird and anything less than this would have never offered any challenge. What Im saying is, we are all given only what we can handle and what we need at the right time, and my point is, if you have a bad attitude to so called bad transits, this can actually be the block I was talking about. You need to embrace this all as a learning experience as valuable as being blissfully happy. That means you have to find meaning in it, and here is the true Beauty at the heart of astrology, because *you* get to determine the meaning of all astrological effects for your individual self.
The mind boggles at the endless artistry of the Creator.
Everything that happens to you is a Gift. Our task is only to consciously select how to respond from the whole self, giving all that we can. If I starve, I learn to appreciate eating more fully and I give thanks when my hunger is broken.
By resisting and resenting certain transits/progressions/natal planets, we only aggravate whatever condition is upsetting us. Instead we can often turn around the situation completely by shifting our attitude to one which consciously welcomes and engages difficult life situations as oppurtunities to dive deeper into the process of self crafting.

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let ther b light
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posted April 03, 2008 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
blue moon
thanks fr putting up my charts! u r a sweetheart

scorcha
i am actually not really good at reading charts and i certainly dont think im better than you!
but i did notice a couple of things..
1) your and my asc(western) is almost conjunct
2) acc to sidereal astrology the cusp of your 7th house is aries,which means the ruler is mars. mars is opposed by sturn which tends to delay things...but it was specified in one of the vedic astrology sites that i went thru, that saturn may delay, but it will not deny.
frankly i have no clu how to interpret progressions...so maybe someone else can shed some light there..

leaving astrology aside i think someone mentioned out here that sometimes you need time to yourself...i think i have to agree with that. currently my finances are in not such a good shape ...i think i need this time to get that in order...maybe fr you its something else? i also sometimes feel i'm not ready and i need to have all the fun in the world before that happens!!! i was'nt the kibnds to go on casual dates...but i think i was too tired of being "serious" so i did go out a coupla dates jus to have a nice time! but i regretted later as i got too attatched...i am hopeless! ..anyways thats over now..

another thing i think you should do is pay attention to your dreams ...sometimes you find answers there...i've been dreaming a lot about marriage even when its not on my mind...

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posted April 03, 2008 04:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
just noticed transiting saturn is also conjuncting my proressed mars which is the ruler of my seventh house(sidereal)...dunno if that makes any sense....cud that be the reason i'm single right now?

plus transit saturn is also widely squaring my natal venus...i'm not really sure im interpreting all this right..

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Mama Mia
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posted April 04, 2008 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
My bday is Feb 25th also, but I am about 11 years older then you..Can't say that I am having your prob;em

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belgz
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posted April 06, 2008 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belgz     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe you have put on weight and stopped caring about yourself. You have moon in taurus and saturn and neptune are in square to your moon and jupiter could show a depressing time as well.You need to motivate yourself if im ever depressed i feel like **** and why would anyone want to date me if im hating life and depressed. People like happy people and people who care about themselves. Maybe you should try and find out if your neglecting yourself and try and be more happier. Jupiter conjuct moon gives people big stomaches maybe big boobs too lol

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ASC: Virgo

Sun: Cancer
Moon: Gemini
Mars: Cancer
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Leo

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sorcha
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posted April 07, 2008 06:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sorcha     Edit/Delete Message
Haha, no none of what you said is correct Belgz. In actual fact your completely off the mark. Im very aware and confident of how I appear physically, Im tall, slim, with long dark hair and very attractive and I keep myself well groomed and dress nicely. Im not depressed as you mention either. You should have your facts correct before you pass an uninformed comment like that, complete narrow mindedness.
MM its always nice to come across someone with the same b'day, not that I have come across too many.
BM Im so sorry Im only coming back now, I have been extremely busy with work and was away for a few days over the weekend. Thanks for your link on Bertie, hes disappointed us all and the talk of the land at the moment. Also forgot to mention earlier how accurate you were with describing me and certain ways that I have been feeling lately, your certainly on the way to becoming a very competent astrologer, albeit as modest as you seem.
DJ, your advice has been well received and I have always applied the concept of learning and taking the good out of trying situations its just that this is going on for so long it almost was begining to feel like the world was taking the **** out of me, ok a bit dramatic. Have you a website I could visit? Do you do readings?
LTBL thanks soo much for your advice and time as well. I have looked at your charts and come to a complete blank purely because as I said Im a complete amateur, charts look like goobledy gook to me, but about the only thing I copped is that youd be in your saturn return right now, wouldnt you, so this may be delaying things a bit romantically right now for you. What you said about saturn delaying rather than denying, thats a new angle to look at saturn from. Also what you mentiond about people needing to be on there own for a while, I agree with this and there was probably stuff I needed to work through with regards to my long relationship that ended.


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dj
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posted April 07, 2008 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dj     Edit/Delete Message
Happy to help. I do understand how when things drag on we think there is no end to them. Its always untrue and when the daybreak comes its all the more glorious and appreciated. If I were you Id try to surround myself with friends.
This is my website, but its not going to stay up for long: www.astralvisions.de
I do take clients, but usually only those with a special interest in magical initiation.


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