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Topic: Children?
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xrâräx Knowflake Posts: 313 From: The Stars Registered: Oct 2006
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posted April 11, 2008 08:54 AM
Hello everyone!-Very looooooong time not posting in Lindaland. Life has changed drastically for me!. From being to the very bottom of depression and searching for the meaning of existence without luck... I got to see the light and understand. And I'm happy now. And that's a LOT for me! =))) I'm even enthusiastic about the idea of having a baby with my guy... (and I was one to say: I'm NOT going to be a mom ever!, I'm not going to bring a new life to this world of shades, destruction, suffering, etc). I guess I was very sick in sadness...I couldn't see all the beatuy on Earth that I get to see now. So, my question is- is there a way to see in your birth chart if you are going to have children? (I know that we have free will, blah blah) but there are certain things that you are able to tell, *inclinations* maybe? I absolutely love children, and currently studying to become a kindergarten teacher. I was told once by an astrologer that I could have trouble conceiving because my moon and venus are affected... (I really didn't care at that time) but now, I just wonder... And my 5th house doesnt look good Thanxs in advanced! IP: Logged |
Diandra23 Knowflake Posts: 2240 From: portugal Registered: Mar 2007
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posted April 11, 2008 09:01 AM
can you pt Ceres and Lilith also in the chart?I dont know how to answer you but Ceres is related to children and mothering,as well as Moon is IP: Logged |
xrâräx Knowflake Posts: 313 From: The Stars Registered: Oct 2006
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posted April 11, 2008 09:09 AM
Hi Diandra!Done didn't know which lilith ... so included both IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 11, 2008 09:12 AM
Can't see what is wrong with your 5th? Aside from being empty? It's ruler makes aspects tense and flowing. Even if she turns out to be right and you have problems conceiving, that doesn't mean you won't ever have children. It might just take longer than average. At 23 you have plenty of time to practice, and to seek medical help if necessary. It might not be necessary. One thing is sure, stressing yourself over it will not help. p.s your part of children is at 19* Aries 51' http://www.noendpress.com/pvachier/arabicparts/index.php
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amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 11, 2008 09:21 AM
An empty 5th house doesn't mean you won't have kids. Just like a 5th house with Saturn or Pluto in it also doesn't mean you won't have kids. My interpretation of the 5th house is that it indicates what your children will be LIKE, not necessarily how you will conceive them.IP: Logged |
winky_winky Knowflake Posts: 574 From: SPAIN Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 11, 2008 12:32 PM
I am of the same opinion. An empty 5th doesnt mean anything at all, it is quite understandable that u want children having as you have it ruled by Cancer if i am right. Cancer rules the home and motherhood so there u go. IP: Logged |
mblover Knowflake Posts: 508 From: Registered: Nov 2007
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posted April 11, 2008 12:36 PM
I see one Son and one Daughter.IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 11, 2008 01:18 PM
Your 5th house is in good shape. As a matter of fact, Mercury is the ruler of your 5th house and even though this chart shows that it is squared by Mars - (which wouldn't mean anything in terms of difficult conception anyway) - it's too wide of a square, I wouldn't even really count it if I was reading your chart.Your Mercury makes a smooth sextile to Pluto which may powerfully increase your chances of conception. Also, with Gemini as a 5th house, there's a strong chance that you may have twins. Don't laugh, I've seen it happen. Saturn opposes your Moon. Literally GAZILLIONS of women who have Saturn stressing their Moon's have had many children. ...so quit worrying, Miss 23 year old. Geocosmic Valentine ------------------ "Everybody is a star!" Sly & The Family Stone IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 3823 From: nevada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 11, 2008 03:56 PM
Hello xrâräx It's so nice to see you posting.
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xrâräx Knowflake Posts: 313 From: The Stars Registered: Oct 2006
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posted April 11, 2008 09:50 PM
Thank you ALL so *much* for all your replies! I just arrived home, I caught a cold (autumn here) and got to read all of them -*smile*-BlueMoon- You are so right!- besides what's meant to happen, it will, Btw- what does Part of Children in Aries mean? Winky_winky (what a sweet nickname!) My 5th house cusp is in gemini. But I'm a Cancer Sun so I've been mothering teddy bears, animals and people since I was little... LOL mblover, really?- don't know how u got that, but really dig it! Geocosmic Valentineee, YAY!: twins! (that sounds terrifc actually) :bouncy: and Lalalinda ty =) Well I guess that time will tell, FIRST my guy and I have to get established. lol. But the funny thing for me is there are still many people that cannot believe that I AM talking about having babies!- I used to be so SURE about not wanting to bring more souls to this planet... Anyways, thanks again for shedding light and see u around in the forum Love to you all! xrâräx IP: Logged |
MainLine ModelD Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Philly, PA USA Registered: Mar 2008
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posted April 13, 2008 11:03 PM
It's nice to see someone so happy, so congrats.I just want to add that I firmly believe in the power of thoughts, if you try and expect to have children, you will, and if you have trouble...you find a way to work it out. You know what I mean? When doctors have told women, when they were younger that they may have trouble conceiving, often times they do, maybe because they believe it? Also, many time couples who had trouble conceiving, adopt a child, and then become pregnant with their own, because their belief and expectations changed. Law of Attraction- like attracts like, start looking at baby furniture and clothes and toys and all that cute stuff, pick names. Expect to be expecting. Lucky baby, to have a mom that is so enthusiasticly anticipating their arrival. Be blessed! IP: Logged |
xrâräx Knowflake Posts: 313 From: The Stars Registered: Oct 2006
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posted April 14, 2008 05:48 AM
Hello MainLine ModelD!Aww Thank YOU! - I believe in the power of positive thought too After 23 years of thinking negative and self-sabotaiging myself, acting destructively, I've learnt to see and experience things (life) in a complete different way. Yeah! with my bf we are talking about how we'll name our baby (I'm so picky with names, lol)- and I'm keeping in mind ur advice! Love and Light to you! IP: Logged |
LibraLady2709 Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Registered: Feb 2008
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posted May 06, 2008 02:23 PM
I don't want children, personally; I happen to have an empty 5th house ruled by Aries. It confuses me: I'm supposed to be "mothering" since I have a Cancer moon, but I'm not maternal at all. I do feel more 'mothering' toward animals (I have 2 Sag planets and a Sag ascendant, go figure) but never towards people; I actually feel really uncomfortable around children and they irritate me. But that's just me.IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 2085 From: Arizona Registered: Jul 2006
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posted May 06, 2008 02:27 PM
I have Uranus in my 5th house...does that mean a surprise unexpected pregnancy?! ------------------ Sun in Libra Moon in Cancer Jupiter in Cancer Venus in Virgo Mars in Cancer Ascendant in Cancer "I seem to have the blind self-acceptance of the eccentric who can't conceive that his eccentricities are not clearly understood" IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted May 06, 2008 03:17 PM
Hey oh happy one I have an empty 5th house and moon conjunct saturn in 8th and l have 3 kids and am extremely fertile so don't worry, i'm sure you will be fine! IP: Logged |
xrâräx Knowflake Posts: 313 From: The Stars Registered: Oct 2006
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posted May 06, 2008 05:28 PM
Well.. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago but everything is good I think someday, if it's meant to, I'll have kids!-IP: Logged |