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bluegreyeyes
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Posts: 184
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Mar 2007

posted April 11, 2008 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bluegreyeyes     Edit/Delete Message
Ok, so according to everyone's advice.. I decide to cool things off with my Cancer.

It's been 2 months, things aren't progressing like I was hoping. Instead of wasting time, I figure: I'll let him loose.

So, after a "distant" weekend...

Mon: his place, watch movie. impersonal "casual" conversations.

Tuesday: texts, calls. invites me for movie.
i decline. he says "are you not coming because i picked a bad movie last night?"

Wednesday: late night texts and calls. i was sleeping. he texts 4 in a row...
"where are you"
"what are you doing"
"why do you insist on ignoring me"

Thursday: late night calls. then texts.
i was sleeping. i tell him "i'm sleeping. go to bed."
his texts:
"stop ignoring me"
"be nice to me"
"i miss you"
"i want to see you"
"don't hate me"
"you hate me."
"did i tell you that you're beautiful? i will tomorrow."

obviously i think this is a late night booty call... so i text him "it's 1:20, you're lines aren't working. you're just insulting me"

his response:
"i'm sorry. I started texting you hours ago, actually days ago. I thought you didn't like me anymore. but i miss you a lot."

what do i do.....i feel so bad..... i like him, i'm so confused.

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*Christina*
Aquarius SUN
Gemini MOON
Aries ASC

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scorpiofrancesca
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Posts: 119
From: plainfield, il usa
Registered: Mar 2007

posted April 11, 2008 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiofrancesca     Edit/Delete Message
awwwwww what a sweetheart. prolly not what you want to hear

sounds like a cancerian that was texting me all the time late last yr, but would not meet up with me ever (i think he was shy)and that was why i started ignoring his texts bec i figured whats the point. he still sends random texts like this to me, recently said, 'im good, ill be good to you', i was like, random!

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blue moon
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Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007

posted April 11, 2008 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
It sounds like two people caught in different conversations. How about some honest dialogue? Tell him how you really feel then he can do with it what he will.

I don't know the background to this but if you are trying to get rid of him the message isn't coming across. I'd tell him straight.

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mblover
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Posts: 508
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Registered: Nov 2007

posted April 12, 2008 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message
I thought you had a thread on how to break up with his. It's not easy because he is in Martyr at the moment...

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ghanima81
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Posts: 1785
From: MAINE! :)
Registered: Aug 2003

posted April 12, 2008 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
Cancers are slow... six months in and I finally know where I stand...

So, you can either enjoy the getting to know each other better casual freedom of it, or move on if you want more now and he can't give it to you.

But you should definately ask.

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