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Topic: Perfect synastry..
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belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted April 14, 2008 11:45 PM
We have exact aspects between venus, sun and mercury. Exact degrees does this mean were very compatible? His Ceres is conjunct my ASC.. Im considering breaking up my long term relationship with my boyfriend for this guy AGAIN! IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 15, 2008 02:18 AM
The aspects you point to show harmony within your relationship, being exact makes them powerful links.But don't overlook the more testing aspects. For example, Sun SQ Sun. It doesn't mean that the relationship won't work a second time around. But like I said on your other thread, what went wrong last time, that is not going to happen this time? Something to think about, maybe you know the answer to that question, it could be you are both older and a bit wiser now. IP: Logged |
Lana29865 Knowflake Posts: 441 From: Registered: Mar 2007
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posted April 15, 2008 03:02 AM
And don't forget the house contacts, i.e. in what areas of life your planets touch each other's houses... The very first thing I look at in romantic synastry charts is the contacts to the houses 5,7 and 8, especially the two latter. IP: Logged |
winky_winky Knowflake Posts: 574 From: SPAIN Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 15, 2008 02:47 PM
lana found it really interesting what u just said about the houses u pay more importance to.Like i have synastry with this guy and both 7 and 8 are heavily ladden, like in sun, moon, venus, mars etc... meaning personal planets. Could u ellaborate on what u meant? IP: Logged |
Lana29865 Knowflake Posts: 441 From: Registered: Mar 2007
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posted April 16, 2008 12:56 AM
winky_winky, the houses all have their own "tasks", areas of life they have to do with. The 7th house is the house of partnerships, the 8th of sex, sharing etc. (to put it very simplistically).There's loads of info on the net, it's an important part of astrology. It seems to me that the houses are often overlooked in synastry and people mostly talk about just aspects. IMO, the houses are quite relevant in synastry. Edited: I just found other posts of yours (well informed) at LL, so you must already know what I'm talking about ;-) IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 16, 2008 05:17 AM
Why is 8th sex? I thought 5th was sex :P
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heart cakes Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: canada Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 16, 2008 05:18 AM
5 is more about fun sex.. 8 is more about intimate sex..i think.. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 16, 2008 05:28 AM
hmmm My mistake then. I thought it meant the partners resources and our psychological attitude toward these resources, death, transformation.lol Anyway, isn't intimate sex supposed to be fun Heartcakes? IP: Logged |
Lana29865 Knowflake Posts: 441 From: Registered: Mar 2007
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posted April 16, 2008 05:52 AM
Lara, it also means that. Sex is only part of the 8th house, but when we talk about synastry, it's usually the first thing that comes to mind about the 8th house - it's an INTIMATE house.I have found it helpful to think about the houses through their corresponding signs, i.e. th 5th house is Leo's house, the 8th house is Scorpio's house and so on... That way I get a "feel" of the house, so to say.
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Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 16, 2008 05:59 AM
I have to disagree!I don't believe the 8th says anything about sex whatsoever, sorry. Here's an article that describes perfectly what l mean. http://a-astrology.blogspot.com/2007/10/house-of-sex.html
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heart cakes Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: canada Registered: Sep 2007
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posted April 16, 2008 06:31 AM
hey lara!this gave me some perspective on 8th house sex. i like how it fuses all the elements of the 8th together.. The Eighth House is commonly referred to as the House of Sex. This House delves into relationships -- interactions with another and how certain aspects of those interactions can take on a more communal nature. It speaks to what our relationships will bring us and how we can get the most out of them. Returning to this House's emphasis on sex, it's important to note that the French refer to an orgasm as 'le petit mort' or 'the little death.' When we reach that exalted state of communion, we leave a little of ourselves behind -- die a small death. One can also choose to view this as growth, a new beginning, the rebirth of the soul or a gain for the partnership. The Eighth House is an equal-opportunity House, placing sex, death and rebirth on the same level playing field and acknowledging the viability and importance of all three. We will all experience death and rebirth as part of our lives: failed relationships leading to new ones, career changes, a new hairstyle. We are regenerated and reborn with each new phase and should welcome them. Shared resources also fall within the Eighth House: inheritance, alimony, taxes, insurance, support from another. Financial support as well as spiritual, emotional and physical support are addressed by this House. While our relationships share many of the aforementioned things, they also have their own dynamics and grow from within (we grow through our sexuality as well as through other more tangible means). That said, much as our relationships are expansive, they also have certain constraints, many which are placed on them by society. Again, taxes, alimony and the joint nature of assets come to mind. Yes, with every opportunity we have, we may face a restriction along with it. Once again, death and rebirth. In keeping with the transforming nature of this House, rituals are highlighted. Every group has its own way of peering in and looking deep into the soul and the past, if only to get a sense of what we truly are. What quality will our rituals take on? Exalted states or metamorphoses? What secrets do we keep and why? How we manage our interactions, relationships and rituals is important to the Eighth House -- will we be honest, effective and responsible? Will the riches generated by our relationships benefit the group (company, humankind) as a whole? Our legacies are key to this House: how we conduct ourselves now, and how that will play out for all time. The Eighth House is ruled by the Sign Scorpio and the Planets Mars and Pluto. www.astrology.com/house8.html
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Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 16, 2008 07:20 AM
still not convinced IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted April 16, 2008 09:03 AM
Whats this got to do with it lolIP: Logged |
alcheme Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Phoenix, AZ Registered: May 2007
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posted April 16, 2008 03:43 PM
I think that 8th house has to do with sex and intensity in synastry. I have definitely felt 8th house planets both sexually and intensely in relationships (damn, I love that house ). The 5th house I would relate to romance and sex, but more in the romantic prince charming sense (which is good in its own way, definitely).IP: Logged |
Lana29865 Knowflake Posts: 441 From: Registered: Mar 2007
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posted April 18, 2008 12:30 AM
alcheme, it's my favorite too, it's the "real stuff" ;-)I like intensity (Mars In Scorpio), and I always want to dig deep... IP: Logged |