posted April 18, 2008 07:10 PM         

Another thing that I've been pondering ( I'm a Gem riser who is having a Mercury return at the moment)...is the common aspects in the guys charts, who I have been with and I wonder why this is so and if my chart reflects any of this...

Natal or relocated charts I end up with men who have Virgo or Libra rising and my sun or venus falls into their 7th house.

3 men have had Pluto Square Venus in their charts and my Pluto squaring venus too. (Close in age these men were)

2 men have had Moon/chiron conj opposite unranus and pluto in their charts

3 have had moon in the 7th house.

4 or 5 of the guys have had mars squaring my Venus either in Gem or Sag but most of the time it's Mars in Sag...

This just blows me away to see but I figure there is a pattern of guy that I'm seeing...

Any thoughts would be appreciated!

posted April 19, 2008 05:11 AM         

The Moon is more specific. There's something in the emotional responses that you are picking up on. It seems as though they are are trying to balance their emotional needs (the need to heal in Chiron) with some powerful forces, there may be some need for them to break away and make change. In the case of Uranus sudden and swift, in the case of Pluto a slower transformation.

It would be interesting to see how your chart fits in. Odds on you are making some aspects to Uranus and Pluto that is drawing them in.