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Topic: Aries and Relatonships
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winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 10:33 AM
 
What is it wit them? Why do u hav to pay the endless cat-and-mouse game where u chase each other around to keep the flame going?Any tips to make them commit? IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City!
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posted April 21, 2008 02:36 PM
I wish I did know being that I have Sun in Aries....however my sun is opposed to Uranus and square to mars. Over the past 18 years I have had maybe around 7 serious relationships and was engaged 3 times but never went down the aisle.For a while there I was soo ANTI Relationship that I didn't go out. What I said could be clues.....we tend to fall out of love VERY fast.... ID IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 21, 2008 02:38 PM
yes, we do fall out of love very quickly lolwe get bored quickly too IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 02:42 PM
GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASPHow to keep ur interest? Telling u, this is so TRUE....... I am saying this because this aries i know is so much into the next challenge... I thought i might keep him interested because my leo moon is quite the queen, and i like playing it so. Also with my venus in gemini... Hmmmmmmmmmm... But still, why do u think aries get bored so quickly, is it like they are insecure (no offense, i just keep reading they are quite fragile inside) and fear to go deeper, that they need the constant stimuli,that they value too much their independence or .......... U TELL ME IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 02:48 PM
innerdepth u reckon ur aries are quite intense? just re-reading and quite a few rships in those years, u are right... just wondering because u mentioned that u nearly went down the aisle and that then u even went into retreat-mode... hmm... i think those aries arrows dont know what damage they do, no offense, please dont take anything too personally... astrologically speaking your uranus should make u like unpredictability but it is an opposition how do u think this plays out?IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars
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From: South Carolina, USA
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 21, 2008 02:54 PM
Thats funny, I dont have a hard time commiting in fact I seem to be at my best in a relationship. But my Venus is in Pisces so that maybe why.IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City!
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posted April 21, 2008 03:22 PM
My poor Venus in Pisces Square to Neptune/Jupiter in Sag play games with my mind and I used to settle for the first guy that came by - but now, not so much. I only want to keep a man just as a friend and no more and if they try to go further it is a dead end/road block. I think what would happen is that I would attract those jealous/possessive types and that would get me to bolt. Or the Man who tells me wjhat to do etc. I would rather be in a relationship where there is freedom of movement and choice - so I'm not tied down for an eternity.In a relationship it seems like I put my heart and soul into it and end up not being appreciated - gave my love to the wrong person - as they sing in the song Go Your Own Way by Fleetwood Mac. My Aries sun is in the 11th so I believe my relationships.friendship have a platonic AQUARIAN overtone to it. The love of my life now is an Aquarian and he's got a whole bunch of Saggy planets. ID IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City!
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posted April 21, 2008 03:26 PM
I'm thinking back to my first true love, who will ALWAYS have a place in my heart and even though it has been a over a decade I can't stop thinking about him some times. (The scary thing is that my current Boyfriend was born just 3 days after him).Things didn't work out cause I was extremely insecure after he found out he had a daughter (referring to my 1st love). He walked cause I was being a typical combative/aggresive Aries in the negative sense. Though he still cared to keep in touch till his wife blew up and all hell broke lose and ceased things. IP: Logged |
comica23
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From: Portugal
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted April 21, 2008 05:02 PM
Aries Sun/Moon/Venus/Mercury here. ^_^ I don't really need a love story full of drama nor adventure (my Taurus Mars is lazy :P ), I'm happy with a comfy and calm relationship as long as it doesn't get too bored. And for me to not to get bored, from time to time I need to:
- go out together (small walks, cinema, having lunch/dinner outside, etc.);
- do things together (watching a movie while cuddling, video games, etc.)
- constant demonstrations of affections towards each other (and not taking each other for granted - yeah Aries do need some chase from time to time even after you have him/her :P );
- share nice talks/jokes together.I don't think that I'd get tired of someone easily, but what makes me lose interest in someone is lack of courage, honesty, maturity or confidence. But well, I guess that the only tip I could give to keep the Aries you are interested in (if he/she is a typical Aries) interested in you is: just be yourself, don't take him/her for granted, have some fun together yet be independent (yet without being detached - what I mean by being independent is not to lose your individuality and have your own life). ^_^ IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 05:19 PM
comica very insightful info honestly, reads like textbook aries..... i think they like ACTIVITY more than soul-connection, what u reckon?Also u are on the mark when u say that u have to have ur own life, aries people dont like clinginess, they ABHORR it... hmmmmmmmmmmm.......... what do u think of relating? ur venus in aries surely makes u direct and straightforward? yes ur mars taurus might make ur personal drive more subtle..... u see innerdepths despite moon being most important for a woman ur sun shines thru and as life goes by u have asserted ur independence... very much aries... i believe no matte how much u have in another sign the sun shines through and burns out whatever it doesnt like.. gasp..how poetic... but i suppose u get my meaning? IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 05:22 PM
dont u find aquas and aries go nicely? i think aquas have an air of unattainability-gosh what a word- that aries finds quite attractive-like they have to be conquering them forever, they want them to be theirs, yet aquas belong to everybody.......IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City!
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posted April 21, 2008 05:42 PM
winky_winky
I figure my Sun in Aries will always shine through here. As I near 40, they say that a person's Sun sign really shines and is quiye apparent to others.
A few good friends of mine are Aquarian and I find they make awesome mates - even my past boyfriends who are Aquarians. They approach me at a friendship level without wanting to seduce me and able to keep the intellectual stuff up for me - I have Gemini rising. Though my moon still yearns for a secure, close, and inmate relationship that lasts forever. Luckily my Aqua man seems to be accepting of my high sensitivity and states that he will ALWAYS be there for me and that I needn't feel insecure. However since I was with a man back in the 90s who is like an Astrotwin to my man now - I have a fair;y good idea what his energy is like.....the only diff is the moon sign is different. My Aqua now has moon in Aries conj my Sun in Aries. My Sun Falls in his 7th house conj moon and very closely conj his vertex. My Sun also trine his 7th house ruler Mars in Sag with in his chart conj Jupiter/Neptune in Sag. I also have Jupiter/Neptune conj his Jupiter/neptune/mars conj. Jupiter rules my 7th... I figure my bold Aries character comes out in public where others can see who I am. I'm quite enjoying this chat winky  ID IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 06:11 PM
innerdepth surely ur man is your ideal what wiht moon in aries and ur sun in aries surely this is quite good i often read that these luminaries are VERY important indeed... and their affinity.. u see i had this cancer bfiend who had taurus moon and i found we had so much in common.....hmmm...
yet i find my sun in 5th happy with romance yet my saturn in 7th tricky when it comes to the long-haul... quiet a strain... coz i seem to find men who i like a lot initallybut when the fun gives way to more serious committment i get all strange and crazy... dunno very puzzling indeed...i´ve met lots of aries and surely ur moon makes u more introspective but, specially men, i find they have a tendency not to "read" anything as in not caring much for others...yet their energy and naivete i find fascinating... very stimulating... Aries people are a mistery coz they like to show they dont care in the sense they like to act all tough and strong yet there is such a soft centre... and i find that quite endearing that they fall so many times yet they always get up quickly and are up for the next round..yet this mode is unsustainable to some, that is why i think they are often loners, more than most...
these guy lasted get it, 6 years, with an aqua girl...they trine! IP: Logged |
amowls
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From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 06:17 PM
It's literally impossible for me to date a guy with Mars in Aries. They seem to really like the chase the most. I have Venus in Pisces so I'm kind of needy and really really like everyone. It's hard for me to play hard to get, which is what you apparently need to do with these guys.IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City!
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posted April 21, 2008 06:26 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I am deeply sensitive and that could be due to Venus in Pisces Square to Jupiter Neptune conj, Moon Trine Neptune and moon in Cancer. I was a emotional child growing up and got so slammed when I would show emotion that I learned how to hide my feelings and seem composed. So now I have full shielding and have had issues with my feelings and bottling them up. So yeah, Aries toughness on the outside and too afraid to show the world the depth of my inner self. (My mom has moon in Aries squaring my moon and that was no picnic. My boyfriend's moon is way out of orb to my moon yet it inconj his Venus in Sag.)With my venus in Pisces in the 10 I'm very giving and caring in relationships and my ailing Boyfriend saw that over the past 2 weeks when he came down with Pnemonia. I drove an hour to his place to give him a care package - he lives an hour away from me in a town. It's sort of a long distance relationship. With your Gemini on the 7th, I can see what you mean about what happens when the fun goes. I figure Saggy Rising is definately free spirited. (I have the Opposite - Gem rising Sag on the 7th) IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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posted April 21, 2008 06:33 PM
My very first boyfriend was an Aries. Aries Sun, Virgo Moon and Scorp Rising. He chased after me and was committed to me the whole time even though I dumped him off and on because he was too possessive with me and controlled every move it seems. He seemed to be stable in a relationship.Hmmmm back in 2006, I met up with an Aries Man who I hung out with for a few months and he seemed nice until he wanted to rush into the bedroom and that is when I put my foot down. He tried to guilt trip me and eventually lost interest. I figure he was just into the casual thing intead of building a friendship first and I really didn't find him to be all that sympathetic with my feelings - telling me that I am too sensitive etc... Actually I met 2 Aries men in 2006. The 2nd one tried pursuing something with me - I think he liked me more than a friend and would try and kiss me a few times but I wouldn't let him. He was always thoughtful and sat and let me cry on his shoulder when I needed it. We had a shared interest in New Age things and got along well together. He seemed to be a gentleman always paying for our times out. So that is my experiences with Aries Men.......and now I'm on an adventure with an Aries moon man - and he chased me.... ID IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 06:56 PM
well they are HUNTERS... trouble is when they have their prey they dont want to carry it for long i believe.....Aries men......What a topic..
check my crush, he is aries and his mars is conj uranus and pluto so he HAS TO WIN!cant figure his mars in virgo though it doesnt show too much i suppose... Be careful though i often find them quite courteous and like u said they pay and act the knight in shining armour because winning to an aries is EVERYTHING... they have a strong sense of individuality... the WE business is a bit strange to them... IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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From: CA, USA
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posted April 21, 2008 07:04 PM
I find Aquas and Aries go together nicely.IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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posted April 21, 2008 07:08 PM
The WE thing is strange to me and I am still adapting to my relationship. I find myself resorting the the ME thing and then remember that I can't do that and have somebody there who loves me.IP: Logged |
winky_winky
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posted April 21, 2008 07:13 PM
aquas and aries get along because both value FREEDOM and ther is nothing more separative than differing views such as who one is.........hmmmmmmm.........aries men........attractive but too independent sometimes...jejeIP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted April 22, 2008 12:52 AM
Aries has its positive and negative points, including lots of shade of gray . . .I suggest not waiting around for someone who is not reciprocating in a healthy way, especially with Aries. You wouldn't want to be a doormat for someone, would you? Life is short, invest your heart wisely. P.S. By the way, I recommend not doing so much research on someone who clearly does return the same feelings. This kind of work is worth it if you meet someone you KNOW in your heart is also looking into YOU and would do the same. Do you think your Aries friend is spending time trying to figure you out . . . ? Hmm . . . this thread will turn into yet another therapeutic/egotistic opportunity for people to talk about themselves and less about giving you wise advice. Good luck  IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt
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posted April 22, 2008 08:05 AM
I guess the reason they fall out of love so quickly is because they don't give it much thought in the first place whether their interest in the person is genuine or not. They don't plan ahead, they jump right in and experiment, see for themselves. Their reason and instincts fail to help in relationships I'm afraid. They only rely on their senses.IP: Logged |
comica23
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From: Portugal
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted April 22, 2008 02:49 PM
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comica very insightful info honestly, reads like textbook aries..... i think they like ACTIVITY more than soul-connection, what u reckon?
I guess that it depends on the person, but for an Aries like me who has all those planets on the 8th house (and a Pisces DC), soul connection is one of the most important things for me in a relationship. ^_^ And activity (doing things together) is what strengthens it. After all, a relationship becomes special by the memories that we have together right? ^_^ quote:
Also u are on the mark when u say that u have to have ur own life, aries people dont like clinginess, they ABHORR it...
There are two main reasons for why I wouldn't be interested in someone who is too clingy: first is that typical "I need my own space"; second is that a person without his/her own life is a person without his/her own individuality (so there aren't anything that would interest me at all). For example, why do Aries like Aquas so much? Coz they always have something interesting! X3 All the Aqua influenced people I know, they have a really funny and unique sense of humor, and they also have many original and interesting ideas too.. quote:
hmmmmmmmmmmm.......... what do u think of relating? ur venus in aries surely makes u direct and straightforward? yes ur mars taurus might make ur personal drive more subtle.....
I guess that if you want to know how a typical Aries is in love, you can look at that cute puppy that is energetically playing and running around the one he/she loves, yet this puppy loves to be spoiled and gets the other person's full attention. But you also have to let him/her explore his/her surroundings and do his/her own things too (or they will start running away from you).. But well, if you leave them alone for too long, they can also feel lonely and bark 'till you come back (who said that Aries can't be clingy?). :P Personally, in love I can be quite straightforward and direct, although sometimes my Virgo AC gets in the way. ^_^; I can be a bit childish and impulsive too lol.. But well, with me you wouldn't have to worry about me keeping secrets, as I find it hard to hide anything from the one I love. ^_^; Yet, in return, I also demand 200% honesty from the other person LOL (8th house issues again?)..
Btw, people might often think that Aries can be selfish,well, Aries are self-centered, but it actually depends on each person to really be selfish or not. ^_^;
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ErickaF
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From: D.C.
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posted April 22, 2008 11:14 PM
I am currently crushing on an Aires but I am a scorpio. His moon is in Taurus and mine is in Aqua. He is so hot.;-).IP: Logged |
Kal_El
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From: Seattle
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posted April 23, 2008 01:49 AM
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I guess that if you want to know how a typical Aries is in love, you can look at that cute puppy that is energetically playing and running around the one he/she loves, yet this puppy loves to be spoiled and gets the other person's full attention. But you also have to let him/her explore his/her surroundings and do his/her own things too (or they will start running away from you).. But well, if you leave them alone for too long, they can also feel lonely and bark 'till you come back (who said that Aries can't be clingy?). :P
Somehow I think that is a very good example of a typical Aries in love. And i think I am a typical Aries Sun.
I find that someone who pays me attention when I want attention is someone who holds my interest. Although i can be very demanding when I am not being paid it. ------------------
"You can't deny laughter; when it comes, it plops down in your favorite chair and stays as long as it wants." Stephen King IP: Logged |
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