posted May 01, 2008 04:08 PM         

As Liz Greene says, if u have Saturn in 7th u find that close rships tend to be dragging, they have the ability to make u feel extremely uncomfortable unless it is a rship purely based on "love", not on money, social conventions,etc..

Yet, what is love today in the age of the modern woman? This is tricky because i pay for my own flat and hold down a job, yet emotionally i am incomplete... On top of that i have a conj of venus and mars in my 7th which makes it double hard...As i tend to be extremely passional and have trouble differentiating between love and sex...

People with harsh aspects in 7th are supposed to find the "other" inthemselves, which has made me go trhough therapy to relieve a troubled childhood and to understand my patterns when it comes to rship...yet..yet.yet...

posted May 01, 2008 04:56 PM         

From a few weeks ago. I finally have noticed that I do disown my pluto (see what Blue Moon wrote on that post), moon and uranus. I can definitely see that I seek pluto, ura in others. Still trying to see how moon operates. I can think of someone I know of who is very likely to have ura/pluto in their 1st house (don't know their exact birthtime but have a fairly good idea of it) and am totally mesmerised by them. They also have moon squ ura.

posted May 01, 2008 05:24 PM         

My husband says some of his co-workers are surprised he is married. I've met some of them and they were shocked when they met me because I an not the same age/nationality/social status. Well, d'oh, I don't have a beard either.

Troubled relationships? Nope, can't say so. As I have pointed out to the man himself I have lived with him for longer than his mother put up with (she packed him off to naughty boy school in his mid-teens). But he says I'm no picnic either.

My childhood wasn't perfect but my parents are decent people and I am disinclined to criticise.

Key words here: age difference, responsibility (I take care of a lot of business, a lot of traditional male roles, he works away from home a lot)

Oh and let's put in

I didn't marry him for that but together we have got along and managed to make some, it does matter if you have kids to feed, clothe, house, educate, blah, blah, etc.

posted May 01, 2008 05:35 PM         

Between 21 and 40 there is a lot to learn, no surprises there.

posted May 01, 2008 06:29 PM         

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nevertheless I hold high respect for her as she has maintained her virginity...

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but i couldnt make the connection cause she was also somewhat overweight. but she has lost a good amount but I can see that if she was nice and fit she would look very attractive in a geminian way, she has a very excited and flitty girly look, air!

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posted May 01, 2008 08:03 PM         

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saturn in the 7th just means you are going to learn a great deal or have to learn a great deal from relationships. I was playing relationship couselor for a gemini girl with this placing, I saw it as dumbfoundedness in her relationships.. just stupid relationship questions.. what does it mean when he does this or what should I do about this. nevertheless I hold high respect for her as she has maintained her virginity i think she also has uranus and neptune in the 7th as well. she is an interesting girl but i never took much interest. I was shocked to find out she had venus right on the ascendant in the first next to her mercury (also conjunct the asc) all in Gemini so she had quite a stellium in gemini. but i couldnt make the connection cause she was also somewhat overweight. but she has lost a good amount but I can see that if she was nice and fit she would look very attractive in a geminian way, she has a very excited and flitty girly look, air!

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That sounded a tad shallow, unless i didn't really get the point of that post.

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