posted May 13, 2008 03:16 AM         

i had to put noon as his birthtime but i don't know it. he is the "guess" on the outside. i included our asteroids cuz there seems to be some decent action there.

posted May 13, 2008 01:18 PM         

so i think i'm most fascinated by his venus exactly conjunct my uranus (at noon anyway) and opposite my moon and his SN conjunct my stellium of sun, merc, mars and his NN conjunct my lilith exact. all of this seems fraught with.. sexual tension? excitement? none of it seems particularily stable but for SOME reason i'm sensing a lasting potential with him. purely on intuition and based on memories of his energy, though!

but our suns are sextiled, moons probably trined in earth signs, and we have a lot of conjunctions around my ascendant. is this enough of a balance? and is the other stuff that bad? i know we have to take all these things together, the whole picture. i'm thinking the venus-uranus to moon opposition might acutally be sort of stablizing in that the venus-uranus is usually fireworks and fizzle but my moon, and the trine to his moon, might keep things grounded? and keep those fireworks going?

posted May 15, 2008 11:12 AM         

Your ascendant conjunct his sun and neptune. There must have been sparks flying the moment you both met and his sun would want to act like your rising sign. Neptune(yours and his) might lend their own influence to this configuration.

I am not sure how fast chiron moves in a day, but moon conjucnt chiron is also one thing which can add to the feel good factor.

The other one that caught my eye is the saturn trine mars double whammy.

Since you have just started, i think you should just go ahead, have fun and think about the astro aspects after you get really closer. Just my thoughts

posted May 16, 2008 02:33 AM         

do you mind if i pick your brain a little?

the funny thing is, i think there were sparks but i was just not conscious of them. that is, i think there were sparks for him and i completely surpressed my feelings for him. i was with someone else and i'm the kind of person that refuses to be aroused by others when i'm with someone else. must be all my stubborn fixed planets. heheh. but in retrospect, the air between us was very thick with something and NOW i'm totally smitten! i'm just curious what you mean that his sun would want to act like my rising. do you mean cuz it's just trailing behind? is that what happens? cuz i DID feel like he was sort of stunned somehow by me and felt kind of awkward, yet was very charged by me. and i was VERY confident around him which is rare for me, especially around someone as gorgeous as he is!

chriron moves pretty slow. maybe 5 degrees per year..

and i'm wondering what you make of the saturn trine mars double whammy? are you thinking it's like stablization of impulse? or like, just an activation, a shared lesson, a shared attraction, that maybe we both sense something to learn from one another, and are attracted to the others' mars like qualities?

thanks for your input! the problem is he lives really far away so i won't see him for a while, but i'm living with his mom and i think he'll be around a lot this summer, so i want to get my bearings a bit since i KNOW i'm super attracted to him. i just want to know if we have a good shot since i am pretty sure he's interested in me too. i don't want to waste my time with anyone who i don't have great potential with!!

posted May 16, 2008 08:58 PM         

It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case B’s Sun is combining with A's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant personal relationship. B and A feel strongly drawn to each other, experiencing a sense of completeness in each other's company. B can really shine through the association with A. B appreciates the benefits that this union brings into her life and the way in which A helps her achieve her personal goals. In turn A has a greater sense of well-being through his association with B. He welcomes the sunnier aspects of B's personality and appreciates their mutual respect and affection. While this combination is most likely to indicate an intimate love union, it can also augur well for friendships, family relationship and work associations.

posted May 17, 2008 12:44 PM         

Mars trine or sextile Saturn:

This is usually a very beneficial and practical combination. The Saturn person is instrumental in grounding the ambitions of the Mars individual. The Mars person is able to lift the Saturn person out of any ruts he/she may get into. Together they make a very formidable pair, especially if the Mars individual was born at night and the Saturn individual was born during the day. In marriage relationships, this aspect gives them the endurance to help them weather times of adversity.

Mars trine Saturn:

You are feeling more patient, persistent, your assertiveness is channeled into stamina and staying power. It’s just as well because you want to build a relationship that is solid and enduring. If your romantic partner’s Mars is trine to your Mars, he/she will find it easier to make commitments. The only drawback might be his/her willingness to forgo some of that sensual passion and sublimate those energies toward future goals rather than present sexual gratification.

Check this website, its very informative. http://www.skyviewzone.com/

esp. the description they have for house positions is very good.

posted May 17, 2008 01:16 PM         

i also have that sun/ac conj in sinastry - it´s one of my favorites along with the venus/Ac conj

posted May 17, 2008 01:18 PM         

where were you all this time? I know i was the one who went into the hiding for a while.

posted May 17, 2008 02:04 PM         

things are going better now-i have been passing some difficults times now but that too shall pass..

saturn is hitting me big way these times but he will eventualy leave me alone some day :P

posted May 17, 2008 02:24 PM         

diandra, unfortunately i don't know his time, so the asc/nn/saturn conjunction is likely inaccurate. but that is really awesome that you have the sun/asc conjunction with someone. do you find there is a really terrific confidence that just naturally occurs between you?

it was the weirdest thing cuz the first couple times i met him i was soooo sleep deprived and involved with someone else and even though i was very attracted to him, i totally put it out of my mind. i think these factors, along with, probably, this conjunction, made it easy to just be myself. i am amazed, thinking back, just how GOOD i felt around him. not even really excited, nor lustful, or anything like that, just like somehow his energy let me be myself. it is so hard to explain.. but i just felt like i could be myself and he saw me for who i am and i've never quite felt that before!! it could also be his SN on my sun/merc/mars stellium as well. but that probably has to do with the familiarity, and not as much the confidence.

does anyone have theories on the venus/uranus exact conjunction exactly opposing my moon? this one kind of scares me but excites me too. i feel like since it's my uranus-moon opposition a lot of the "issues" could be mine, and therefor under my control (i could make or break..). i'm just curious how his venus would respond. i know the venus-uranus conjunction is supposed to be love/lust at first sight but not generally a lasting aspect. so i'm thinking, my moon could be the anchor, being directly opposite his venus. he'd be intrigued by my uniqueness (uranus) but since it's uranus who usually pulls the plug when she gets bored, my moon would keep me in place because the aspect is mine and i'm used to it..? i've read conflicting views on venus opposite moon. some say any aspect between the two is great, some say this is not lasting. but the configuration here seems significant, since it's all exact aspect. also uranus rules my sun/merc/mars stellium which conjuncts his SN exact (my merc/mars), so that seems rather bonding.

i am also thinking there could be some difficulties with the opposition, but i find it interesting that there are so many conjunctions. and i'm thinking the mars/saturn trines might be indications both of these difficulties and of the willingness to work them through. he also has mars and moon in capricorn, so i think that bodes well for working through challenges.

posted May 17, 2008 02:24 PM         

I know how it feels when saturn hits, but see him as a strict teacher who so badly wants to see the best out of you and he is ready to go any lengths to get that done. He is like do it better, naa thats not right try again, try to get it better,put some more effort kind of!

I am doing well, I was thinking of showing our charts to you http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/017567.html. Would you believe that my new job is in the same city where she lives and am moving in a month. I cant wait to see her, just look at our charts when you find time.

posted May 17, 2008 03:09 PM         

That fact points you that same thing - her in my Country there´s a saying: "Put it in God´s Hands" - meaning what is ours,will sooner or later cross our Path-wether we run or not from it.

That goes also with Loved ones - past and present!

I would look but that link yo gave me doenst open

posted May 17, 2008 03:21 PM         

uhhi dindt know the time wasnt accurare..nevertheless i can tell you that me and my bf also have that feeling of closeness,trust and confidece right the 1st instant -not very usual between 2 strangers wgo met in the virtual world - maybe it has do to with that sun/venus/ac conj yes.

But you have to look at the owl perspective adn take significance in the chart,not just in 1 conection.

you have strong ones goin on there,even withour taking into acocunt his time birth:

you ac conj his IC/Eros/Sun/Neptune - just righ here we can see a lot of atraccion,a feeling of confort and ease of natural conection between you two.

i wouldnt worry that much about hte venus/uranus though..me and my bf have the skuare-points to the love at first sight and certain umpredictability - but you also have to think about your natural energies as individuals.
Look at him:he is a Aqua sun/mars/merc!We is an Uranian guy and the venus/uranus conj is certainly not a problem for him

Suns in sextile and moon+s probableo in trine - muvh more easier thatn my moon skaured of my bf hihihi!

the moon conj kiron is the so called romantic linkage by Magi - i have this as DW wqith jonnhy and i can tell you it makes us feel as if we already meet in other times.

posted May 17, 2008 03:29 PM         

i'm the aquarius sun/merc mars BUT it is conjunct his SN exact (the merc/mars, the sun is 3 deg away). and his NN is conjunct my lilith exact. so that is very interesting! i guess that means we ARE very similar but we both are learning some lessons of leo and about power! i bet all the saggi stuff helps there.. the trining.

posted May 17, 2008 04:42 PM         

And i have read some where when you have your Neptune very close to the ascendant you can be prone to addiction and you found your addiction now i guess.