posted May 16, 2008 03:53 PM         

Well, I didn't take him seriously at first...thought he was being friendly, but later, i found that he was flirting w/ me, despite the fact that another girl was right there. He would poke me, tease me, indirectly compliment me...despite everyone's opinions, he'd remember my opinions the most.

W/ Got Gemini's generous offer, I got the synastry report.....and it was great! However, I want to know more about this guy. When I look back at his actions, I find that he acts more like his Taurus moon than his cappy sun.

So all Taurus moons and/or Cappy suns guys....giving your feedback would be most appreciated. I'd like to know...

- How fast/slow would a guy like him try to get a girl?
- Would you get jealous easily?
- Is it ok to get you jealous, and how much can you handle before you say, this is not worth it?
- How do you act online when you're talking?
- What do you like in a girl?
- How to keep you hooked?
- And anything else that grls might look over...

posted May 16, 2008 10:48 PM         

He seems like the type of guy- "Be prepared for all nighters" and I don't mind

posted May 18, 2008 02:12 PM         

But, in general for this guy, if he acts like a Taurus'.

He'll pursue you, so just wait for it, he will do little things, to see how you react.
Like you already said his flirting, and poking and teasing.
The more receptive you are, the more comfortable he will feel.
And don't worry about the physical thing, they are physical but, also respectful and gentlemen like, no means no, and that's fine with them, they'll try again later lol.

You should like to eat lol, and its' a bonus if you like to cook.
He probably has a favorite sport and a hobby, figure out what it is, and he'll like to talk about it.

As far as the relationship stuff, just be yourself, he liked you for yourself, don't get all new and try to act differently. He needs stability, keep it consistent and just be cool.

Also, he can take the jealousy, make him jealous, but not in a way that makes him question your interest in him. Flirt with guys, mention them once in a while, he can handle it..but he is jealous, so watch how he reacts, and stop when his jaw gets clenched lol.

Don't ask too many questions about what he's doing, cant be too demanding, its' best to be easy going, and not too emotional, especially at first.

And if he doesn't want to talk..don't try to force it.

Ohh and if you start dating, he may be around everyday or very regularly at first..and than once you get a lil deeper in , he may disappear all of a sudden. Dont panick..play it cool.

He realized he's becoming domesticated, and lost his mind momentarily, so he's playing poker with the guys, and talking cars and doing "manly" things...He'll be back, just act like you don't even notice.

posted May 18, 2008 09:40 PM         

Mainline:

He'll pursue you- so I should not pursue him at all? Can I call him on his flirting, or just let it flow the way it's going?

You should like to eat- Ugh, ever since I met him, I went back to my primitive state (not eating much- and no, not b/c i'm self-conscious...I eat whatever I want w/o looking at my weight). But I do like to enjoy my food....no matter how little it is.

I'll act like myself.....it's just a part of being myself....REALLY myself is to be provocative and unpredictable. My parents complain that they never know what to expect of me.

Don't ask too many questions about what he's doing- Can I ask a lot of questions about his past? I'm not the judgemental type, I'm just curious as a cat like that. I was talking to him online one time, and he was so slow at times- and he was like, you're so demanding, I didn't know you want my undivided attention...I didn't know how to react, so I just went quiet. He was busy, so he said bye and signed off.

I'm not the emotional type...so that's good.

If we do date......that would be once in a blue moon, b/c we're in different states. I'm cool w/ distance...actually better off w/ that b/c seeing someone too much makes me get bored and annoyed.

posted May 19, 2008 09:52 AM         

I didn't mean mars in aqua being aggressive, I meant that the aspect that it makes to my leo venus could make him aggressive. Sorry if I didn't make that clear.

"Cappys are so sticky"......ha ha, yeah, ur right about that. I got plenty of cappy grlfriends, and they're loyal like that, even if we haven't spoken in years (not b/c we're mad at each other, but b/c we're that bz)

He's got cappy venus and leo asc. His asc makes conjuncts my moon and venus. my mars in virgo makes aspect to his cappy venus (sesquiquadrate 1 deg and 10 minutes). I got virgo merc and he's got cappy merc. i have pisces asc, which sextiles his moon, merc, and venus.

Um, well, for most of the time, we sat next to each other. I don't know if it was me trying to sit next to him or the other way around...lol. I should try being distant next time...lol.

posted May 20, 2008 10:33 PM         

But, about the questions and the slow typing.

Sorry sweetheart, the guys...they are slow. as in molasses. This is something you have to live with, the slow responses on AIM...even talking in person, or in an argument or getting ready to go somewhere.
They don't eat slow though lol

But, the questions...like I said , I wouldn't do it. Unless you do it in a smart indirect way, like that reminds me of blah blah....what about your blah blah blah.

He probably won't like to answer questions directly, and he probably wants to remain mysterious, but like I said, they are slow, so that will be such a task for him lol

I dont know about all of them, but mine was not too quick witted, or sharp. Not stupid, but def not witty. which is refreshing to me.

Adolf Hitler,
Jack Nicholson
Gangis Khan
Karl Marx
David Beckham
Jerry Seinfield

posted May 21, 2008 07:46 PM         

Jack Nicholson is bada$$....anytime I see him in a movie, I gotta watch it.

Genghis Khan is cool too....acted just like a bull, rummaging through Asia until he was stopped by the Turkish descendants in the middle east.....ha ha!

David Beckham.....such a hotty! Yes, he does seem quite slow. Oh well. Do you know what Victoria's sign is?