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scorpiofrancesca
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posted May 22, 2008 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiofrancesca     Edit/Delete Message
What aspects or placements are commonly found in men unable to commit to one woman, or make them likely to have multiple partners simultaneously?

I can't separate my insane scorpio suspicions (imagined? or not?) from realistic fears. It really, really, stinks.

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scorpiofrancesca
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posted May 22, 2008 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiofrancesca     Edit/Delete Message
Oh.. Also. If anyone has any examples-ie charts of men that fit this mold-please do post. Thanks guys

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Unmoved
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posted May 22, 2008 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message
I almost didn't post here because I didn't want to encourage stereotyping, but apparently those with:

1. Eros conjunct any of the inner planets are promiscuous.
2. Venus/Uranus aspects namely, 'heart-breakers' because they are hard to 'tame'
3. Venus in Gemini are easily bored so might cheat
4. Uranus in 8th, especially when in a hard aspect with Moon or Venus can equal compulsive actions to make the native 'act' before/without thinking of consequences.

I have some of these but I've never cheated so it's no definite, I guess.

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swirl-kitt
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posted May 22, 2008 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
Venus in Gemini- I have proof :P

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Unmoved
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posted May 22, 2008 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message
swirl-kitt - LMAO!

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Got Gemini?
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posted May 22, 2008 04:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
I have Eros conjunct my Sun and Mercury (1 degree each) and widely trining my Moon (8 degrees). I have NEVER cheated in my life lollolol! No seriously though, I have never cheated.

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Virgo Asc & Mars
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
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Lara
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posted May 22, 2008 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
1. Eros conjunct any of the inner planets are promiscuous.
2. Venus/Uranus aspects namely, 'heart-breakers' because they are hard to 'tame'

Bollocks!

Who wants to tame a person anyway and EROS is not about sex, JUNO is!!!

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Unmoved
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posted May 22, 2008 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message

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posted May 22, 2008 04:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message

http://www.zanestein.com/eros.htm
http://www.magiastrology.com/whattype.htm

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Kick It
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posted May 22, 2008 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kick It     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
2. Venus/Uranus aspects namely, 'heart-breakers' because they are hard to 'tame'
4. Uranus in 8th, especially when in a hard aspect with Moon or Venus can equal compulsive actions to make the native 'act' before/without thinking of consequences.

Rubbish!

Have a look at guys (and gals) who ARE players and see what links them. Good luck.

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Unmoved
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posted May 22, 2008 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message
Did I not make it clear that these were not my personal thoughts or should I do so now?

Well, just to add, as a disclaimer, these are not my personal views.

I mentioned that I was hesitant to posting this information because it might encourage a stereotypical view. But because I have heard some people mention such aspects, I contributed what I "apparently" heard from other sources. This would then encourage a person to investigate for themselves. i even said that I have some of these placements and aspects but I have never cheated.

So I don't know how any of you might have missed the speculative nature of my post.

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Kick It
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posted May 22, 2008 04:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kick It     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the disclaimer Unmoved

Dunno if you were speaking to me, but I was saying "rubbish" at the information presented in front of me, regardless of whose thoughts they are.

Its a good thread because this kind of research can be applicable in real life...if done correct.

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Lara
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posted May 22, 2008 05:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
I'ts ok Unmoved, l know it's not your personal view

I don't agree with all of it though. My b/f has venus/uranus conjunct and he is very committed and has not had many g/f's or flings in the past.

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Unmoved
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posted May 22, 2008 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message
I don't agree with any of it either. It is just that somehow people are saying these things in their research etc. It makes me wonder what types of studies they did because, especially the Magi astrology stuff, it is really certain of what it is saying, which is frightening.

Like that Eros for example. It's about sexuality and the sensual nature or how a person expresses themselves through eroticism... And I have Eros in Scorpio and with most of the aspects I named, that should make me a very horrible person, but I choose not to cheat, it's not because I am not a cheater.

Every Act is an Act of self-definition

We do have wills to dictate our behaviour, no matter how nature or nurture has programmed us.

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alvarella777
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posted May 22, 2008 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
I'm also against stereotypes! ;-) But I must, must, must add a certain aspect to this "Players"-discussion - because I am pretty sure of its "playful/non-commital/cheating"-impact: VENUS square or opposite JUPITER. (I got proof of that theory quite often, as fas the guys go - unfortunately.)

I believe that when Jupiter makes a stressful aspect to a planet he inflates/exxagerates that planet's quality. Things easily get out of control then - beyond reason and - as far as Venus is concerned - beyond control and beyond morale.

It is the principle of "Never can get enough, always want more, more, more" or: "The grass is always greener on the other side."

I'm not saying that people with Venus square/oppos. Jupiter do "cheat" automatically in a concrete/physical way ... but mentally, fantasywise they will. Their longing for affection is so enormous, they are SO greedy for attention and flattery ... that at least they'll always give other people the eye, even when they're in a relationship. It's an exageration of VANITY and GREED. One must be VERY generous and self-secure, if one enters a relationship with such a person.

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scorpiofrancesca
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posted May 22, 2008 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiofrancesca     Edit/Delete Message
Lol. You all are cracking me up.

Well, he does have Venus sextile Uranus at 0degrees. There is absolutely no indications from his demeanor or personality that he would be a playboy (except that he is pretty "smooth", but seems very sincere). Just some other things I have noticed so I'm being cautious..


Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Pisces 11°02'04 in house 1 direct
Moon Aquarius 26°32'39 end of house 12 direct
Mercury Pisces 4°45'50 in house 1 direct
Venus Aquarius 13°51'08 in house 12 direct
Mars Scorpio 22°00'45 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 7°54'34 in house 11 direct
Saturn Scorpio 16°21'17 in house 9 stationary (R)
Uranus Sagittarius 13°26'16 in house 10 direct
Neptune Capricorn 1°08'14 in house 11 direct
Pluto Scorpio 1°56'11 in house 8 retrograde
True Node Gemini 11°25'27 in house 4 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Aquarius 27°47'55
2nd House Aries 1°31'57
3rd House Taurus 4°05'55
Imum Coeli Gemini 3°23'16
5th House Cancer 0°24'18
6th House Cancer 27°41'07
Descendant Leo 27°47'55
8th House Libra 1°31'57
9th House Scorpio 4°05'55
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 3°23'16
11th House Capricorn 0°24'18
12th House Capricorn 27°41'07

Major aspectsSun Conjunction Mercury 6°16
Sun Sextile Jupiter 3°08
Sun Trine Saturn 5°19
Sun Square Uranus 2°24
Moon Square Mars 4°32
Moon Sextile Neptune 4°36
Moon Trine Pluto 5°24
Moon Conjunction Ascendant 1°15
Mercury Sextile Jupiter 3°09
Mercury Sextile Neptune 3°38
Mercury Trine Pluto 2°50
Venus Square Saturn 2°30
Venus Sextile Uranus 0°25
Mars Conjunction Saturn 5°39
Mars Square Ascendant 5°47
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 5°58
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°48
Neptune Sextile Ascendant 3°20
Pluto Trine Ascendant 4°08

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Mama Mia
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posted May 22, 2008 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
This guy is almost a female Version of me..We have the same Sun,moon,venus and Asc and My Sun and Merc is in the 1st and moon and venus is in the 12th..

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scorpiofrancesca
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posted May 22, 2008 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiofrancesca     Edit/Delete Message
Really Mamamia? He is the sweetest thing.. Gentle demeanor, his eyes get real big when he talks, hes adorably sweet.. But it seems like something might be hidden, I can't decide if I think that because he is talking to alot of women.. He makes me wonder, I cant put a finger on it..

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Mama Mia
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posted May 22, 2008 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Wanna know how to get him??? Yes my eyes get big when I talk as well we are passionate about our views and stuff..

He likes distant girls, Girls that have their own thing going and not bother him..BUT thats only what intrigues him once you get past that Venus in Aqua you have to appeal to his Mars in Scorp and then his Pisces Sun..I don't think you will have a problem. But Scorps can be a bit possesive so watch for that, I know its usually out of love but that scares a Pisces with so much Aqua in them..

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scorpiofrancesca
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posted May 22, 2008 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiofrancesca     Edit/Delete Message
Laugh my @$$ off mama mia-I know EXACTLY what you are talking about with the possessive thing and that is EXACTLY what I have been trying not to do to him because I know myself.. My scorpio isntincts are like, MINE-now!!! I think you know what I'm talking about and I think that's funny that you said that because I could see that with him. I actually decided whatever is going on on his end, I'm just not calling him and letting him set the pace.

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Mama Mia
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posted May 22, 2008 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Yes don't let him set the pace, cause ugh you might end up like a yo-yo..A text here and there to say hi is good..See I have Mars in ARies and if I like a guy that is moving to slow I get mad, but he might be different..FRIENDS FIRTS with him as well let him get comfy with you..You got and idea..

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amowls
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posted May 22, 2008 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/signs-of-infidelity.html

http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/signs-of-cheating.html <<for females

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bvanzy
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posted May 22, 2008 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bvanzy     Edit/Delete Message
Reading through some of these posts, I've got to wonder how on Earth people can discuss astrology without stereotyping ASPECTS?

No-one should need to add disclaimers about free will and 'not meaning to generalise' to every post.

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posted May 23, 2008 12:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Inner depths     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with the Venus in Gemini and have seen it. I knew this Cancerian lawyer who had Sag rising with Gemini Venus and Mars who had a lover in the states and was looking for another with me but I turned him down.

My daughter's father has Venus in Gemini conj Saturn when we were together he threatened to find another lover on the side if I didn't have sex.

Possibly Sun in Gemini - my father cheated on my mom a long time ago with my 1nd stepmother.

Maybe venus in a double sign and YES to the Venus-Uranus connections in the chart!!!!!!

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posted May 23, 2008 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sumthing_phishy     Edit/Delete Message
i've dated venus in sag, mars in aqua...why does this even exist? he was a cheater with no stamina...i should have been the one to cheat.

venus conjunct uranus in the 8th....i know someone like this and he is a man ***** ...he got married because of his 7th house sun but he cheats because his wife won't do all the freaky things he likes...what a mess.

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