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Topic: Men that are players
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scorpiofrancesca Knowflake Posts: 119 From: plainfield, il usa Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 03:13 AM
What aspects or placements are commonly found in men unable to commit to one woman, or make them likely to have multiple partners simultaneously? I can't separate my insane scorpio suspicions (imagined? or not?) from realistic fears. It really, really, stinks. IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca Knowflake Posts: 119 From: plainfield, il usa Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 03:15 AM
Oh.. Also. If anyone has any examples-ie charts of men that fit this mold-please do post. Thanks guysIP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 03:39 AM
I almost didn't post here because I didn't want to encourage stereotyping, but apparently those with:1. Eros conjunct any of the inner planets are promiscuous. 2. Venus/Uranus aspects namely, 'heart-breakers' because they are hard to 'tame' 3. Venus in Gemini are easily bored so might cheat 4. Uranus in 8th, especially when in a hard aspect with Moon or Venus can equal compulsive actions to make the native 'act' before/without thinking of consequences. I have some of these but I've never cheated so it's no definite, I guess.
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swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted May 22, 2008 03:52 AM
Venus in Gemini- I have proof :PIP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 03:55 AM
swirl-kitt - LMAO! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: Mercury Registered: Jul 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 04:00 AM
I have Eros conjunct my Sun and Mercury (1 degree each) and widely trining my Moon (8 degrees). I have NEVER cheated in my life lollolol! No seriously though, I have never cheated.------------------ Virgo Asc & Mars Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted May 22, 2008 04:17 AM
1. Eros conjunct any of the inner planets are promiscuous. 2. Venus/Uranus aspects namely, 'heart-breakers' because they are hard to 'tame'Bollocks! Who wants to tame a person anyway and EROS is not about sex, JUNO is!!! :O IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 04:25 AM
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Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 04:36 AM
http://www.zanestein.com/eros.htm http://www.magiastrology.com/whattype.htm IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted May 22, 2008 04:40 AM
quote: 2. Venus/Uranus aspects namely, 'heart-breakers' because they are hard to 'tame' 4. Uranus in 8th, especially when in a hard aspect with Moon or Venus can equal compulsive actions to make the native 'act' before/without thinking of consequences.
Rubbish! Have a look at guys (and gals) who ARE players and see what links them. Good luck. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 04:54 AM
Did I not make it clear that these were not my personal thoughts or should I do so now?Well, just to add, as a disclaimer, these are not my personal views. I mentioned that I was hesitant to posting this information because it might encourage a stereotypical view. But because I have heard some people mention such aspects, I contributed what I "apparently" heard from other sources. This would then encourage a person to investigate for themselves. i even said that I have some of these placements and aspects but I have never cheated. So I don't know how any of you might have missed the speculative nature of my post. IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted May 22, 2008 04:59 AM
Thanks for the disclaimer Unmoved Dunno if you were speaking to me, but I was saying "rubbish" at the information presented in front of me, regardless of whose thoughts they are. Its a good thread because this kind of research can be applicable in real life...if done correct. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted May 22, 2008 05:02 AM
I'ts ok Unmoved, l know it's not your personal view I don't agree with all of it though. My b/f has venus/uranus conjunct and he is very committed and has not had many g/f's or flings in the past. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 06:03 AM
I don't agree with any of it either. It is just that somehow people are saying these things in their research etc. It makes me wonder what types of studies they did because, especially the Magi astrology stuff, it is really certain of what it is saying, which is frightening. Like that Eros for example. It's about sexuality and the sensual nature or how a person expresses themselves through eroticism... And I have Eros in Scorpio and with most of the aspects I named, that should make me a very horrible person, but I choose not to cheat, it's not because I am not a cheater. Every Act is an Act of self-definition We do have wills to dictate our behaviour, no matter how nature or nurture has programmed us. IP: Logged |
alvarella777 Knowflake Posts: 504 From: Europe Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 11:28 AM
I'm also against stereotypes! ;-) But I must, must, must add a certain aspect to this "Players"-discussion - because I am pretty sure of its "playful/non-commital/cheating"-impact: VENUS square or opposite JUPITER. (I got proof of that theory quite often, as fas the guys go - unfortunately.)I believe that when Jupiter makes a stressful aspect to a planet he inflates/exxagerates that planet's quality. Things easily get out of control then - beyond reason and - as far as Venus is concerned - beyond control and beyond morale. It is the principle of "Never can get enough, always want more, more, more" or: "The grass is always greener on the other side." I'm not saying that people with Venus square/oppos. Jupiter do "cheat" automatically in a concrete/physical way ... but mentally, fantasywise they will. Their longing for affection is so enormous, they are SO greedy for attention and flattery ... that at least they'll always give other people the eye, even when they're in a relationship. It's an exageration of VANITY and GREED. One must be VERY generous and self-secure, if one enters a relationship with such a person. IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca Knowflake Posts: 119 From: plainfield, il usa Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 12:34 PM
Lol. You all are cracking me up.Well, he does have Venus sextile Uranus at 0degrees. There is absolutely no indications from his demeanor or personality that he would be a playboy (except that he is pretty "smooth", but seems very sincere). Just some other things I have noticed so I'm being cautious..
Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion Sun Pisces 11°02'04 in house 1 direct Moon Aquarius 26°32'39 end of house 12 direct Mercury Pisces 4°45'50 in house 1 direct Venus Aquarius 13°51'08 in house 12 direct Mars Scorpio 22°00'45 in house 9 direct Jupiter Capricorn 7°54'34 in house 11 direct Saturn Scorpio 16°21'17 in house 9 stationary (R) Uranus Sagittarius 13°26'16 in house 10 direct Neptune Capricorn 1°08'14 in house 11 direct Pluto Scorpio 1°56'11 in house 8 retrograde True Node Gemini 11°25'27 in house 4 retrograde Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Aquarius 27°47'55 2nd House Aries 1°31'57 3rd House Taurus 4°05'55 Imum Coeli Gemini 3°23'16 5th House Cancer 0°24'18 6th House Cancer 27°41'07 Descendant Leo 27°47'55 8th House Libra 1°31'57 9th House Scorpio 4°05'55 Medium Coeli Sagittarius 3°23'16 11th House Capricorn 0°24'18 12th House Capricorn 27°41'07 Major aspectsSun Conjunction Mercury 6°16 Sun Sextile Jupiter 3°08 Sun Trine Saturn 5°19 Sun Square Uranus 2°24 Moon Square Mars 4°32 Moon Sextile Neptune 4°36 Moon Trine Pluto 5°24 Moon Conjunction Ascendant 1°15 Mercury Sextile Jupiter 3°09 Mercury Sextile Neptune 3°38 Mercury Trine Pluto 2°50 Venus Square Saturn 2°30 Venus Sextile Uranus 0°25 Mars Conjunction Saturn 5°39 Mars Square Ascendant 5°47 Jupiter Sextile Pluto 5°58 Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°48 Neptune Sextile Ascendant 3°20 Pluto Trine Ascendant 4°08
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Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2828 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 22, 2008 12:39 PM
This guy is almost a female Version of me..We have the same Sun,moon,venus and Asc and My Sun and Merc is in the 1st and moon and venus is in the 12th..IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca Knowflake Posts: 119 From: plainfield, il usa Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 12:50 PM
Really Mamamia? He is the sweetest thing.. Gentle demeanor, his eyes get real big when he talks, hes adorably sweet.. But it seems like something might be hidden, I can't decide if I think that because he is talking to alot of women.. He makes me wonder, I cant put a finger on it..IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2828 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 22, 2008 01:03 PM
Wanna know how to get him??? Yes my eyes get big when I talk as well we are passionate about our views and stuff..He likes distant girls, Girls that have their own thing going and not bother him..BUT thats only what intrigues him once you get past that Venus in Aqua you have to appeal to his Mars in Scorp and then his Pisces Sun..I don't think you will have a problem. But Scorps can be a bit possesive so watch for that, I know its usually out of love but that scares a Pisces with so much Aqua in them.. IP: Logged |
scorpiofrancesca Knowflake Posts: 119 From: plainfield, il usa Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 01:14 PM
Laugh my @$$ off mama mia-I know EXACTLY what you are talking about with the possessive thing and that is EXACTLY what I have been trying not to do to him because I know myself.. My scorpio isntincts are like, MINE-now!!! I think you know what I'm talking about and I think that's funny that you said that because I could see that with him. I actually decided whatever is going on on his end, I'm just not calling him and letting him set the pace.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2828 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 22, 2008 01:25 PM
Yes don't let him set the pace, cause ugh you might end up like a yo-yo..A text here and there to say hi is good..See I have Mars in ARies and if I like a guy that is moving to slow I get mad, but he might be different..FRIENDS FIRTS with him as well let him get comfy with you..You got and idea.. IP: Logged |
amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 01:31 PM
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/signs-of-infidelity.html http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/signs-of-cheating.html <<for females IP: Logged |
bvanzy Knowflake Posts: 379 From: Registered: Jul 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 11:56 PM
Reading through some of these posts, I've got to wonder how on Earth people can discuss astrology without stereotyping ASPECTS?No-one should need to add disclaimers about free will and 'not meaning to generalise' to every post. IP: Logged |
Inner depths Knowflake Posts: 545 From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City! Registered: May 2006
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posted May 23, 2008 12:43 AM
I agree with the Venus in Gemini and have seen it. I knew this Cancerian lawyer who had Sag rising with Gemini Venus and Mars who had a lover in the states and was looking for another with me but I turned him down.My daughter's father has Venus in Gemini conj Saturn when we were together he threatened to find another lover on the side if I didn't have sex. Possibly Sun in Gemini - my father cheated on my mom a long time ago with my 1nd stepmother. Maybe venus in a double sign and YES to the Venus-Uranus connections in the chart!!!!!! ID IP: Logged |
sumthing_phishy Knowflake Posts: 11 From: USA Registered: May 2008
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posted May 23, 2008 11:43 PM
i've dated venus in sag, mars in aqua...why does this even exist? he was a cheater with no stamina...i should have been the one to cheat.venus conjunct uranus in the 8th....i know someone like this and he is a man ***** ...he got married because of his 7th house sun but he cheats because his wife won't do all the freaky things he likes...what a mess. ------------------ SP IP: Logged |