Does Anyone Know How To Cheerup and Aqua???

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Thethirdbenjamin unregistered	posted June 10, 2008 07:41 AM All right heres the situation theres an aqua that’s a lot older then me but I always ask her for her insight on things, speaking of which she’s got a good insight on things. Right now she having problems with one of her daughters one has ran away with the wrong guy who is into drugs, and the concern is she feels she won’t be able to get her daughter back and the same way before. The other problem is she reads tarot cards and someone reported her to a local church. She’s told me the situation and has been direct about it to me, I’ve always found that aquas have always made me smile when I’m a grouchy gem, so I feel obligated to help out how ever possible. IP: Logged
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 08:07 AM Objective and rational advice seems to cheer up troubled Aquas. But I'd only venture my two penn'orth (two cents) if they asked my opinion. IP: Logged
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 08:08 AM Pick her up one day out of nowhere and take her out for a couple of hours. Go somewhere you guys have never been before. Tell her to forget about her problems for the day. When you get to the new place, go to places and stores that are new to you both; same with the restaurants, eat at new places. Even though its only a temporary reprieve from her issues, she will definitely appreciate what you are trying to do. Oh yeah, about the church thing, tell her to tell them to mind their own business. The only person she has to answer to is her creator. ------------------ Virgo Asc & Mars Gemini Sun Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus IP: Logged
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 08:11 AM I think we are all so far on this thread, if anyone can cheer up an unhappy Aqua it is us. IP: Logged
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 08:18 AM +1 on the rational and logical advice. They definitely listen if what you say to them makes sense. ------------------ Virgo Asc & Mars Gemini Sun Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus IP: Logged
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 815 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 02:05 PM You know what is really really cute? (and will appeal to an Aqua) Those Hallmark cards with a song A Guaranteed smile IP: Logged
indyBee unregistered	posted June 10, 2008 03:49 PM just be there for her when she wants to talk and vent to you that would mean alot ...i know it does the job for this aqua hehe IP: Logged
heart cakes unregistered	posted June 10, 2008 03:52 PM dress up in drag and sing "you are the wind beneath my wings" to her.. totally serious. IP: Logged
amowls Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Falls Church, VA, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 04:56 PM i agree with heart cakes IP: Logged
Thethirdbenjamin unregistered	posted June 10, 2008 09:09 PM Heart Cakes, You gotta be kiding me, I think talking it out might be the best way, but leave some space thought. IP: Logged
heart cakes unregistered	posted June 10, 2008 09:23 PM yes. my philosophy is more about taking her mind off it (aquarians can obsess themselves into holes of depression; we need that uranian zing to excite us to new thinking patterns, thus, ways of dealing), and cheering her up with weirdness. weirdness is totally grand to us! IP: Logged
Thethirdbenjamin unregistered	posted June 10, 2008 09:38 PM That makes complete sense, she also a sag rising like you heart cakes. I guess thats a better way to do it,she just started watching CSI to get over it. All try to shift her thought process. Thanks Heart Cakes. IP: Logged
Lavlee Knowflake Posts: 0 From: Yes Registered: Jun 2009	posted June 10, 2008 10:38 PM . IP: Logged
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 10, 2008 10:57 PM Don't pry, let her do all the talking, listen when she needs it. I agree with taking her out (kind of like a kidnap in her jammies and begin with breakfast), maybe it can be a group effort...make sure you find out ahead of time if she has a day free and no appointments. Then think up a zany joke after she's vented...she may laugh and be able to get her mind off. IP: Logged
heart cakes unregistered	posted June 11, 2008 02:24 AM cool 3rd.. thing is with us aquas, you NEVER KNOW. we never know either. that's the funny thing. i would totally laugh my ass off if anyone dressed up in drag and sang me better midler songs, but if i was not even to the point of dealing with and passing through my emotions yet, it would still cheer me up, but wouldn't actually help me all that much, necessarily. aquarians process emotions oddly. everyone has their own unique ways of dealing with trauma but we tend to dissociate (or tend to rationalize, or are confused because we want the "ideal" rather than the reality) more i think and go inside. it usually takes a while to actually deal with the feelings full on, i've found. i think just knowing you care about her and are there for her and letting her talk if she wants to, offering to take her out or make her dinner, whatever, would probably help her feel less alone or alienated (we sometimes feel more alone and confused when dealing with intense emotions). she might be ready to open up, or maybe just the comfort of having some good company will be all she needs. i'm sure she'd appreciate just having someone who cares for her, and would help her feel less burened. and wearing some nice colourful earings and a bit of bright pink (or better yet, old lady orange) lipstick while doing so couldn't hurt, either. is all i'm saying. oh and spontaneous dancing. we LOVE spontaneous dancing. IP: Logged
Thethirdbenjamin unregistered	posted June 11, 2008 04:32 AM Well, I just thought of something..Its not the norm and it might do the trick. I rally appreacte your thoughts heart cakes. Well I gave her some time to herself, the whole aquas need time to themselves thing, I kinda figured that the air sign emotion thing whould almost be the same. IP: Logged
Deliverance Knowflake Posts: 237 From: South of the river Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 11, 2008 11:44 AM How to cheer up an Aqua...let them know you're there for them, but ultimately give them space to sort their issues. IP: Logged
Thethirdbenjamin unregistered	posted June 11, 2008 07:14 PM Well she was happy I paid her a vist we ended up getting a coffee and talking, She was also surprised to find we visting on my bday(i normally keep my bday secret), so that changed her thought process a bit. IP: Logged
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 815 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009	posted June 11, 2008 08:41 PM Happy Birthday Thethirdbenjamin IP: Logged
A weasel unregistered	posted June 13, 2008 03:14 AM have i ever tooooold you you're my heeeroooo.. IP: Logged
Soulsista2 unregistered	posted June 13, 2008 02:22 PM I find my Aquarian pals have a richly ironic side to their natures. They have quite a black sense of humour and enjoy a good old belly laugh when things go wrong. Straight forward factual pragmatic approach always works but try to add a bit of irony and humour to the situation if you think your friend would respond well to it. IP: Logged
Soulsista2 unregistered	posted June 13, 2008 02:24 PM ^PS Reported to her local church! What century is this, is she on a witch trial!!! shock IP: Logged

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