posted June 16, 2008 03:41 PM         

I know Scorpios are known for there intense gaze. What do you all think it means when he will look at you, but only to quickly look away? Also to look at someone intently in front of me.

I was wondering if there are any male Scorpios that do it here, or if you just have any insight about this.

I guess it would be helpful for some back ground info.

I have been knowing this Scorpio for a little bit over a year. We do not talk much, however, he used to watch me a lot. When I say watch, he would literally be standing across the room and make eye contact with me and hold it forever (it seemed like ). He would always give me encouraging words and would want me to sit beside him. However, he seems to have changed a bit. He does not watch me like he used to. Even to the point as if I am not there. I care for him, but I do not want to put my feelings up only to have them shot down.

So I was wondering what do you all think? Should I just leave him alone or just hang on? I want to know because I do not like feeling this way. It is really draining, lol. Thank you in advance

posted June 16, 2008 11:09 PM         

shrugs

not this Scorpio male

I have Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Scorpio. I am not into challenges. I really like to find love and stay with the woman. I don't want somebody that is a challenge and plays hard to get.

I am very shy....even when I know what I want.

I guess it depends on the person and what else is in the chart.

posted June 17, 2008 07:50 AM         

Ohhh, I have another question. Scorpios do not play with the word "LOVE", do they? He has already told me this. However, I am confused because he seems to swing back and forth, giving me mixed signals. Arrrgh !!

posted June 17, 2008 09:02 AM         

I have a Scorpio uncle with Mercury in Scorpio and Venus in Virgo,.....He has Moon in Cancer. He's been revealed to be rather shy in relating to women. He started his only family at the age of 40 years old. Married somebody 14 years younger than her,and they have 2 children together. He adopted her 2 children from her previous relationships. He's become quite the family man.

I have a Scorpio aunt with Mercury and Venus in Libra with Moon in Sagittarius....she's not very relationship oriented. She's rather freedom loving...she could be quite the man-killer. She also has a history of bisexuality. She has had relationships with women. She has 2 daughters from 2 relationships.

I'd look at his other planets.....and see where his Venus and Moon are placed. That would show the type of woman that he is attracted to.

My Venus is in Scorpio and Moon is in Pisces.....so I am attracted to Scorpion/Mars/Pluto/8th house types and Piscean/Jupiter/Neptune/12th house types.

Note: I don't believe in Sunsign Astrology....especially when it comes to compatibility. That's why I was skeptical of Astrology until I was 28 years old until I found out about moonsigns.

posted July 30, 2008 03:29 PM         

Just reporting back about Mr. Scorpio. It has really intensified over the last couple of weeks. He is true to his sign as you all have said. He has told me that he loves me over 4 times. I would like to believe he means it but a part of me is a bit skeptical. For one thing he does not know me that well.

I know, I know I have been waiting for this for a while. However, a part of me is a bit confused and skeptical. Have you all ever known a Scorpio to play with the word "love". I know he has been hurt in the past (as we all have experienced), he has opened to me a bit. He is a jealous little bloke too. Whenever he sees a guy talking to me he zooms right in on the conversation and watches the guy intently as well as me. It is cute at times that he is jealous, but I wish he could notice that I just like to talk to people and that I am not flirting whatsoever. One instance he told the guy to stop flirting with me (granted he was not mean about it but a bit stern, it was funny actually). Well let me know what you all think about this and whether I am just a bit paranoid. Arrrh!!! Being a Cancerian at times is annoying. Thank you everyone.

posted July 30, 2008 11:58 PM         

I know, I know I have been waiting for this for a while. However, a part of me is a bit confused and skeptical. Have you all ever known a Scorpio to play with the word "love".

I have rarely found Scorps who would manipulate with word love. Especially if a Scrop is older than 21, he will refrain from using word 'love' to play games.

He is a jealous little bloke too. Whenever he sees a guy talking to me he zooms right in on the conversation and watches the guy intently as well as me. It is cute at times that he is jealous, but I wish he could notice that I just like to talk to people and that I am not flirting whatsoever. One instance he told the guy to stop flirting with me (granted he was not mean about it but a bit stern, it was funny actually). Well let me know what you all think about this and whether I am just a bit paranoid. Arrrh!!! Being a Cancerian at times is annoying. Thank you everyone.

This is exactly the reason why Cancers love Scorps because they continue to feel possessed (The role of mother associated with cancer will only find satisfaction when she is needed in family). So, this is definitely one strong point of this relationship.

Please note that Cancer women unconciously want this reassurance on a timely fashion and that is exactly what you are doing too.

My recommendation - don't overdo it, because eventually, he will retaliate if he comes to know that you are more friends with others than him.

Oh now that I look at it it does not seem relevent to mention how many times he has told me that he loves me. I just was a bit taken aback that he has said it as often as he has because we do not know each other that well. However, I guess he felt that magnetic pull I was feeling.

Taking back steps, going reverse and walking on sideways is a Cancer's way of dealing with love. Obviously, you will find fears of 'being hurt' in future. feeling of 'rejections' etc after the relationship develops even stronger.

So these kinds of feelings are natural for you - but - if a scorp continues to say I LOVE YOU then he should be in love and he would need to feel complete control.

If you do not respond to his 'I LOVE YOU' with an 'I LOVE YOU' in return, he will feel hurt because he expects equally intense love from you. You don't have to do it until you feel comfortable - but - I am trying to show you how he might be feeling.

Also when I am talking to him or he is talking to me his eyes seem to soften up a bit. It is so cute. Ugh he has gorgeous blue eyes... Arrrgh!!

Yes, Scorps feel very comfortable in their eyes when they are around Cancer, Virgo and Pisces. Do you feel intensity when you look into his eyes? Do you feel he is undressing you with his eyes?

posted July 31, 2008 12:17 AM         

I am actually working on not talking too much to other guys when he is around. It seems to really bother him when he sees me laughing at another guy's jokes.I really do care about him but I do not want to get hurt as you said.

Also yes I feel a real strong pull when I look into his eyes. And sometimes he will just stand there and look into my eyes then look over the rest of me. He will not look away until I do. I feel as if my eyes are getting bigger as I stare into his eyes it is so weird, but amazing at the same time. Thank you for your advice.