posted June 20, 2008 12:53 PM         

This is the man I have been involved with for two years. Who doesn't want a real relationship. He has kept it casual and part time. On May 31st, I told him that I was tired, and that I can't do it anymore. That it has been two years, and that I couldn't do it anymore. That I needed to move on with my life.

So I am interested in what you see in our solar arc charts? As to relationship, etc? Or maybe a change in his mindset? I had a psychic tell me that she saw it finally coming together this summer. (She told me that back in February.)

Thanks so much for your time!

posted June 20, 2008 07:28 PM         

That's transiting Saturn. The Solar Arc planets are in blue for Astrodienst, even though the explaination is in red. With Saturn on his Moon, he's feeling pretty lonely and cold, but he should also be preparing himself for ADVANCEMENT by using strategy for whatever is coming up for him in his life. A new job? Some kind of business?

This chart has TOO MUCH STUFF in it to read in a sane manner. I should rephrase that. It's too busy for me. In the future, for a Solar Arc chart, could leave out the asteroids? I'm gonna look at it later after setting it up on my own without the asteroids.

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posted June 20, 2008 07:57 PM         

And my Ascendant is conjunct Part of Fortune, so maybe something good is coming up for me.

posted June 20, 2008 08:22 PM         

Thank you for taking the time to look at our charts. I know that you are a professional, and would be willing to pay for a full interpretation.

I'm not sure if you need any background, but I have been waiting for this to turn into a real relationship for two years. There is just this great sense of peace when I am with him. It's easy and comfortable, almost effortless. And the physical chemistry is amazing. But he has kept it very casual and part time. Does not want to commit to a schedule, or routine of seeing me every other weekend, etc. He's a workaholic. Travels and works, all the time. Can go weeks without seeing me. There is some distance involved. He lives about an hour and one half away, so I usually will go down and spend weekends with him. I always attributed his hesitancy to his Saturn in the Fifth in Scorpio, Capricorn Moon, and also Uranus in the First for his need for independence and freedom. He was married for 20 years, and has been divorced 10. I almost feel like he hasn't really let his ex-wife go. That maybe that is the real issue.

I just told him finally that I was giving up. That I didn't understand why something this good doesn't just progress naturally into something real. That I wanted a relationship, and he didn't, so I guess he won. But I told him in the bigger sphere, that he lost me. That he lost me.