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Topic: weird question about an aspect i have
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heart cakes Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: canada Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 20, 2008 03:26 PM
okay so the guy i have a thing for and i were born a few days apart. natally i have moon opposite uranus, which means my moon is also opposite his uranus. i strongly feel this placement relates to my mother (she was very abusive and i never felt comfortable or settled around her. she'd go into huge rages and kick me out of the house even when i was a little kid). so i have this theory that i just intuited.. this guys has a cancer moon (and it sextiles my moon in taurus). my dad has a cancer moon, and my mom has a capricorn moon. sooo.. i was thinking and wondering, PERHAPS, is it feasable, could this moon-uranus aspect be signalling me to move forward into our uranian energy (we are both sun/merc/mars in aquarius) and leave behind the old mother energy? considering he's a cancer moon like my dad, maybe it is somehow meant that i find the nurturing that was lacking in my mom, in him? i mean, aspects work differently for everybody, and i know this aspect in synastry often means disruptions, excitement, and frequent changes of residence, blah blah, but does it maybe make sense to apply it personally in this way? it just occurred to me, because my dad was very nurturing half the time (the other half he was a scary, violent drunk!), so perhaps i'm meant to leave my mom behind, metaphorically, emotionally speaking (as represented by my moon), and deepen into the nurturing i missed, by integrating this aspect, and being challenged by his uranus (ruling our stelliums) opposing my moon? does that make ANY SENSE at all? IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted June 20, 2008 04:56 PM
It makes sense. IP: Logged |
heart cakes Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: canada Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 20, 2008 08:34 PM
really? is there a name for this particular type of theorizing?IP: Logged |
venusdeindia Knowflake Posts: 1630 From: mumbai,india Registered: Nov 2006
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posted June 21, 2008 01:36 AM
well, the theory does make sense. also if u have heard we all repeat our parental dynamics in relationships so we can resolve them and grow. we attract partners who have issues that complement us and together we can work on them....thats just what i have seen so far. IP: Logged |
heart cakes Knowflake Posts: 1561 From: canada Registered: Sep 2007
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posted June 21, 2008 02:15 PM
thanks guys!well yeah.. i've definitely fulfilled THAT. unfortunately my parents were total emotional wrecks, and i've attracted enough of THOSE types. that is why i feel that maybe this aspect is rousing this awareness more directly (given our uranuses are exactly conjunct, and exactly oppose my moon). and since this energetic dynamic is already within me, i feel like it's familiar, and somehow under my control, or, that i can work WITH it. and that in a strange way, it's letting me let go of that tension, being roused so thoroughly in our dynamic and being so much a part of my awareness. so i feel like in a way it constitues my parents' energy at their best. they had occasional moments of being good, kind, parents, so i feel that within THIS dynamic, there is a balance. i feel like it forces me to confront my relationship with my mom and also has revealed to me how I'VE balanced that within myself, and it also brings in my father's more nurturing, sweet, loving energy, via his moon. so it kind of feels like it turned me inside out and the sh!t from my past became manure for this flowering awareness. oh and i guess how it all ties nicely together and reinforces this balance, is our moons in sextile. IP: Logged | |