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posted June 26, 2008 04:10 AM         

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which aspects are good for feeling sexy and atractive?
I have had enough of tr.saturn conjuncting natal venus for almost a year now.

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posted June 26, 2008 11:34 AM         

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pluto trine venus make u kinda honry and sexy lol pluto trine mars too maybe

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posted June 26, 2008 12:41 PM         

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funny,I have both tr. mars (27.leo) and venus(1.5virgo) trine pluto(transit).So that explains a little,I guess?
Are there more indicators?

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posted June 26, 2008 04:04 PM         

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From the perspective and experience of a Scorpio Sun and Moon:

Pretty much any Pluto aspect. In fact this is a *really* healthy way to deal with some of those difficult Pluto contacts, if you know what I mean, it can put a stop to some nasty autonomous psychic activity, e.g. attraction of violent events.

Uranus to Mars/Mars to Uranus (Venus tends to be more social or related to new loves or changes in relationships).

Mars to Venus, Venus to Mars. Sun and Moon contacts to these points. Any contacts to Mars from anything.

Planets transiting the 8th house can signify sexual activity. So can planets in the 5th, but it tends to be less hidden and more socialising things happening there, flirtation rather than sex.

Secondarily, ruler of the chart and the rulers of the 5th and 8th to any of the above points or the ascendant, preferable by sextile or trine, but not necessarily (some people like more confrontational turn ons).

This is in general it very much depends on the individual natal chart. Figure out what turns you on and how this is represented in the chart. Go from there with that. Eg - a strongly Piscean chart, all dreamy and romantic, very fantasy prone perhaps into masochism ("tie me up officer, I surrender"), may get really turned on by Neptune contacts that would leave Fire signs dazed and confused.
Sexual chemistry is very very very complex. But it is generally more complex in women than in men (my experience).

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posted June 26, 2008 04:20 PM         

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Venus conj. descendant maybe?

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posted June 26, 2008 04:32 PM         

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thank you that's interesting dj,it explains a lot..I will read it over and check things in my own chart again.For sure I will come up with something new.
You don't always really need sex to feel sexy and atractive,it's more about health and being comfortable with yourself,I guess that is reflected in your appearance,
What do you think?

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posted June 26, 2008 05:43 PM         

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The best aspect for feeling sexy is CONFIDENCE.

It's one of those eternal aspects that once you discover can go on and on and on

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posted June 26, 2008 06:15 PM         

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I agree, Lara!

I'm a Scorpio moon with Pluto trine Venus, and Venus square Mars natally... and ehhh, actually I don't feel that sexy in recent times. What makes me feel sexier is when I'm looking after my body by exercising regularly (Taurus sun and Jupiter in Aries in the 5th house) - not so much for how it makes me look, but how it makes me feel, ie active and happy and confident. I SO NEED to join a gym! lol

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posted June 26, 2008 06:42 PM         

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I feel sexy most of the time. its a confidence thing. i feel/think im sexy, therefore IAM. woo....i dont know.

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posted June 26, 2008 06:45 PM         

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Yeah I agree. Feeling good about yourself definitely makes you sexier as well as satisfaction and confidence. I've certainly seen it with myself.

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posted July 02, 2008 06:07 AM         

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yes absolutely, self confidence is key, all those aspects I mentioned give us some kind of boost in this area, they show times when we are coming to terms with ourselves more and becoming more electric.

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posted July 02, 2008 04:47 PM         

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Wow!!!!!!!!! I read all your comments and I never thought about it like that.............I being a capricorn, actually feel sexy 95% of the time.

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posted July 02, 2008 04:59 PM         

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I don't think Pluto makes you feel sexy. That's too shallow a domain. Pluto doesn't operate there...or in such a way. Maybe natal aspects increase sex appeal...but transits won't do that IMO.

To FEEL sexy could be Mars, Venus, Jupiter and/or Uranus (in some cases) in aspect to Venus and/or Mars, AC, AC ruler, the 1st house or 7th (by mere reflection), 5th house, and/or 5th house ruler

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posted July 18, 2008 05:01 AM         

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I discovered an article about how sexy women say they are feeling.Like in Russia,86
% of the women (age 16-30)say that they are feeling sexy,in Holland it is only 47% and in the UK only 42%( and in France:37%!)
About 65% of the women in Europe think they are attractive,in Russia this is 94%! and in Holland 59%,UK and France a bit lower than that.
And many of these girls(Russia,) are afraid to loose their feminity by doing exercising,doing sports! while in Italy and France they say they are afraid of having too much muscles and it will make them less attractive..haha!
Very interesting article!

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posted July 18, 2008 06:44 AM         

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venus in 1st house and venus conjunct sun for attractiveness

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