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BLKFox
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posted June 29, 2008 02:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Which sign is most likely to begin a relationship slowly, and then take FOREVER to get over it when the relationship is done?

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heart cakes
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posted June 29, 2008 02:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message
i'd say cancer.

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BLKFox
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posted June 29, 2008 02:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Heart, what accounts for the slow start?

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writesomething
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posted June 29, 2008 02:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Cancer, Taurus, Virgo...

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BLKFox
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posted June 29, 2008 02:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message
what about Scorpio?

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heart cakes
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posted June 29, 2008 03:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message
well all the back and forth, side to side dancing stuff. they need total security and trust before begining a relationship, then dig their claws into you, apparently, and have a hard time letting go.

and taurus! yeah! i'm a taurus moon and i hang on pretty tight, even when my brain says "enough is enough". dunno why really.

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BLKFox
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posted June 29, 2008 03:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message
You're funny, Heart! --I'm like that & I'm a Libra

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Lana29865
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posted June 30, 2008 12:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I'd say Virgos are quite able to make the decision to leave and put it into practice...

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posted June 30, 2008 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message
slow start = fear.

although this is correct. seeing as anything that is too easy, too fast cannot be trusted. the best things take time to develop. just think of a flower.

the sweet is never as sweet without the sour

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BLKFox
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posted July 01, 2008 05:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Lana, my experience with Virgos is they can really do a "180"---their love can turn into eternal hate.

Seeing, I agree with you whole heartedly...in this microwave society, who has time to wait? And if the people who don't let go (Tauruses, Cancerians, Virgoans,Scorpios & Capricorns) aren't available, there's only the superficial people left to pursue.

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posted July 01, 2008 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
I would have to say Taurus because we as Taurus women have made our decision way before the man makes the big move to commitment. We like to take things slow and enjoy the moment. Oh, and its pure hell leaving us because we are so possessive. Even though we dont want you, we dont want anyone else to have you either. Oh, and we'll destroy you before we kick you the hell out. Especially if you cheat!

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posted July 01, 2008 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Unmoved     Edit/Delete Message
Slow starters are Cancers, i agree. But most females are also guilty to this so as not to give the impression that they are easy. I am not a slow starter but I can forgive those who are governed by fear to be slow, not some calculative play at hard to get.

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Lana29865
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posted July 02, 2008 12:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I'd say water and earth signs in general are slower to start and more reluctant to let go.

But especially reluctant to let go are fixed signs, not just Taurus and Scorpios but also Aquas and Leos once in a committed relationship.

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BLKFox
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posted July 02, 2008 02:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message
TaurusVirgo, your make Tauruses sound really scary in a "Fatal Attraction" kinda way!

Cancerians may simply be calculating...

Lana, my generalization about Leos, is it's easy for them to move on....& Aquas simply don't give a S**T!

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posted July 02, 2008 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message
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posted July 02, 2008 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
BLKfox
why is it so easy for Leo's to move on if they really love you?

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BLKFox
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posted July 02, 2008 03:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Lara,
I see Leo's as being kinda "flirty"---I think it takes a lot for them to really fall in love...otherwise, they like to feel go, so it's easy for them to move on...no long mourning period there....

kfn327---that Pisces Moon & Mars in Taurus could certainly be a factor. I think Venus in Aquarius types, just like to stay where you put them.

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Lana29865
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posted July 03, 2008 12:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Are you looking at it from a "fling perspective"? Then that may be true, but as for long term committed relationships, Aquas (and other fixed signs incl. Leos) definitely DO give a s**t, to use your phrasing ;-)

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BLKFox
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posted July 03, 2008 01:55 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Lana, I guess, at least in my mind, Leos are FLINGERS, par excellence---strictly HIGH maintenance!!!

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posted July 03, 2008 02:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message
wow, Leo's getting a bad rap here, we do tend to get over things I say rather quickly, but my view on that, only if it was our idea. When our heart does a 180 it stays that way. Cold. And I am sure we have justifiable reasonings and really aren't known to back-track... BUT, If it was not us but you who chose to end things, and we still think you are the "one" we can pine for years. Trust me on this one. YEARS. On the other hand, you are right, when we are done, we are just done.

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posted July 03, 2008 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message
My father was an Aquarius, and my mother is a Leo; it took them 25 years of unhappy marriage for my mother to finally file for divorce.

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BLKFox
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posted July 04, 2008 02:13 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Kfn, do you think they stayed together for the kids?

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posted July 06, 2008 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kfn327     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, that's the only reason they stayed together; my mother voiced that throughout our childhood.

My mother married my father when she was 17. She was pregnant with my oldest sister (who's 9 years older than me) at age 16. My father was an alcoholic during their first 8 years of marriage, during which my mom claims she was "madly in love" with him. My father quit drinking, turned his life around, and he and my mother had my other sister (who's 1.5 years older than me), and then me... By this time, by father was "madly in love" with my mother, but her resentment against him had grown to the point of hatred. They divorced when I was 15, even though my mother had told us they were planning on waiting until my high school graduation; my father died 9 months later.

My mother has Capricorn rising and a Moon in Scorpio; my father had Sagittarius rising and a Moon in Libra.

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posted July 06, 2008 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
Capricorn, because it takes them so long to find someone "worth" committing to.
Once they do it's permanent.
They will put up with a lot, ride out the storms etc. (think responsibility)

They do break up, divorce, etc. but not until they have put more into the relationship than it's worth. They're still trying long after it's hit it's expiration date.
That's commitment

Afterwards it's a complete and total disappointment, even if it's mixed with relief.
Then it takes forever to want to commit like that again.

Key word here is commitment
dating doesn't qualify
but sharing his bank account does.

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BLKFox
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posted July 07, 2008 01:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Lala,
I totally concur with you...I have CAP Moon & I'm exactly the way you described, although my Venus in Scorp plus Sun, Asc, Merc, & Neptune in Libra make me want to "hook up". I must say, though, I have never really given my heart fully to anyone, & I usually end my relationships.
My standards for "...happily ever after..." are STELLAR!!!!

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