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Topic: Inertia
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BLKFox unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 02:26 AM
Which sign is most likely to begin a relationship slowly, and then take FOREVER to get over it when the relationship is done?IP: Logged |
heart cakes unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 02:36 AM
i'd say cancer.IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 02:37 AM
Heart, what accounts for the slow start?IP: Logged |
writesomething unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 02:39 AM
Cancer, Taurus, Virgo...IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 02:58 AM
what about Scorpio?
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heart cakes unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 03:11 AM
well all the back and forth, side to side dancing stuff. they need total security and trust before begining a relationship, then dig their claws into you, apparently, and have a hard time letting go.and taurus! yeah! i'm a taurus moon and i hang on pretty tight, even when my brain says "enough is enough". dunno why really. IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 03:19 AM
You're funny, Heart! --I'm like that & I'm a LibraIP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted June 30, 2008 12:50 AM
I'd say Virgos are quite able to make the decision to leave and put it into practice...IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 30, 2008 01:08 AM
slow start = fear.although this is correct. seeing as anything that is too easy, too fast cannot be trusted. the best things take time to develop. just think of a flower. the sweet is never as sweet without the sour IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted July 01, 2008 05:48 PM
Lana, my experience with Virgos is they can really do a "180"---their love can turn into eternal hate.Seeing, I agree with you whole heartedly...in this microwave society, who has time to wait? And if the people who don't let go (Tauruses, Cancerians, Virgoans,Scorpios & Capricorns) aren't available, there's only the superficial people left to pursue. IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 328 From: a previous life Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2008 05:56 PM
I would have to say Taurus because we as Taurus women have made our decision way before the man makes the big move to commitment. We like to take things slow and enjoy the moment. Oh, and its pure hell leaving us because we are so possessive. Even though we dont want you, we dont want anyone else to have you either. Oh, and we'll destroy you before we kick you the hell out. Especially if you cheat!IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1914 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 01, 2008 10:21 PM
Slow starters are Cancers, i agree. But most females are also guilty to this so as not to give the impression that they are easy. I am not a slow starter but I can forgive those who are governed by fear to be slow, not some calculative play at hard to get. IP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted July 02, 2008 12:54 AM
I'd say water and earth signs in general are slower to start and more reluctant to let go. But especially reluctant to let go are fixed signs, not just Taurus and Scorpios but also Aquas and Leos once in a committed relationship. IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted July 02, 2008 02:01 PM
TaurusVirgo, your make Tauruses sound really scary in a "Fatal Attraction" kinda way!Cancerians may simply be calculating... Lana, my generalization about Leos, is it's easy for them to move on....& Aquas simply don't give a S**T! IP: Logged |
kfn327 Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 02, 2008 02:09 PM
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Lara Knowflake Posts: 4345 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 02, 2008 02:10 PM
BLKfox why is it so easy for Leo's to move on if they really love you?IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted July 02, 2008 03:43 PM
Lara, I see Leo's as being kinda "flirty"---I think it takes a lot for them to really fall in love...otherwise, they like to feel go, so it's easy for them to move on...no long mourning period there....kfn327---that Pisces Moon & Mars in Taurus could certainly be a factor. I think Venus in Aquarius types, just like to stay where you put them. IP: Logged |
Lana29865 unregistered
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posted July 03, 2008 12:52 AM
Are you looking at it from a "fling perspective"? Then that may be true, but as for long term committed relationships, Aquas (and other fixed signs incl. Leos) definitely DO give a s**t, to use your phrasing ;-) IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted July 03, 2008 01:55 PM
Lana, I guess, at least in my mind, Leos are FLINGERS, par excellence---strictly HIGH maintenance!!!IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion unregistered
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posted July 03, 2008 02:10 PM
wow, Leo's getting a bad rap here, we do tend to get over things I say rather quickly, but my view on that, only if it was our idea. When our heart does a 180 it stays that way. Cold. And I am sure we have justifiable reasonings and really aren't known to back-track... BUT, If it was not us but you who chose to end things, and we still think you are the "one" we can pine for years. Trust me on this one. YEARS. On the other hand, you are right, when we are done, we are just done.IP: Logged |
kfn327 Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 03, 2008 02:19 PM
My father was an Aquarius, and my mother is a Leo; it took them 25 years of unhappy marriage for my mother to finally file for divorce.IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted July 04, 2008 02:13 AM
Kfn, do you think they stayed together for the kids?IP: Logged |
kfn327 Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 06, 2008 04:00 PM
Yes, that's the only reason they stayed together; my mother voiced that throughout our childhood.My mother married my father when she was 17. She was pregnant with my oldest sister (who's 9 years older than me) at age 16. My father was an alcoholic during their first 8 years of marriage, during which my mom claims she was "madly in love" with him. My father quit drinking, turned his life around, and he and my mother had my other sister (who's 1.5 years older than me), and then me... By this time, by father was "madly in love" with my mother, but her resentment against him had grown to the point of hatred. They divorced when I was 15, even though my mother had told us they were planning on waiting until my high school graduation; my father died 9 months later. My mother has Capricorn rising and a Moon in Scorpio; my father had Sagittarius rising and a Moon in Libra. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 775 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 06, 2008 04:22 PM
Capricorn, because it takes them so long to find someone "worth" committing to. Once they do it's permanent. They will put up with a lot, ride out the storms etc. (think responsibility)They do break up, divorce, etc. but not until they have put more into the relationship than it's worth. They're still trying long after it's hit it's expiration date. That's commitment Afterwards it's a complete and total disappointment, even if it's mixed with relief. Then it takes forever to want to commit like that again. Key word here is commitment dating doesn't qualify but sharing his bank account does. IP: Logged |
BLKFox unregistered
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posted July 07, 2008 01:40 AM
Lala, I totally concur with you...I have CAP Moon & I'm exactly the way you described, although my Venus in Scorp plus Sun, Asc, Merc, & Neptune in Libra make me want to "hook up". I must say, though, I have never really given my heart fully to anyone, & I usually end my relationships. My standards for "...happily ever after..." are STELLAR!!!!IP: Logged |