posted July 05, 2008 02:20 PM              

My experience of platonic same-sex Libra relations is they can be a bit lazy and DO want to please people. Therefore come up with any excuse rather than saying what they really think as an Aries would.

posted July 07, 2008 03:21 PM            

Positive aspects of my personality include being gracious, friendly, warm and generally easy to get along with...I like to make everyone feel comfortable and find that people will sometimes gravitate towards me in groups - I think this is only because I am very conscious of anyone feeling left out, or unwelcome. I am very polite and believe in always being respectful of others - and I am very modest.

I work in Public Relations for a large company and it seems like a natural fit for my personality.

I do like beautiful surroundings and the arts, etc. and I always like to look/smell nice...I believe in always being very well groomed.

Negative aspects of my personality include laziness, conflict-avoidance, keeping peace at any price, struggling with decision making, general over-indulgence in all things. I work hard to manage all of the above but my general nature is inclined towards these negative traits - I do a lot of yoga to stay mindful of such things but even then they still plague me.

My Pisces moon is in the 4th and has a VERY strong influence over my chart. I am not your "typical Libra" in the way that I am actually quite shy and introverted - I just tap into my Libra when needed. I can be social but I need my alone time in a big way - and big social gatherings can take a lot out of me.

Libra is a wonderful sign but as I grow older I am aware of the challenges with this sign - I would say that I need strong relationships in my life to keep me on track. My challenges with my decision making, and my tendency towards keeping the peace have gotten me into some difficult jams in the past....I have to work on it constantly, and it helps to surround myself with people who understand and can help guide me. I also have to watch my diet, etc. and be sure I'm taking care of my physical self - otherwise all of my indulging results in weight gain, fatigue, etc.

posted July 07, 2008 03:51 PM            

My uncle is a Libra with Scorp Moon - When I was stuck in an accident in my childhood - he was the one who cared and took care of my case. He has always been there for me and he is an excellent negotiator.

Although I haven't dated them, but several Libra collegue women/friends I know are actually 50/50 splitter on dates or any Outings. While they are always analyzing details of others and other relationships, they also put themselves in the equation. They are always willing to pay for their Share - Now, in comparison I have seen Aries, Capricorn, Leo, Gemini, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Aqua, Pisces not willing to pay on their dates and taking advantage of Others as part of their judgement process. And, I am not complaining about these signs (so no need to get offended), but I am highlighting where Libra women do go beyond just Beauty associated with Venus.