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artemisss
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posted July 19, 2008 02:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
im 24....hes 48...dating 2 months now... hes so handsome, successful, attractive, but above all that...we have this sickly intense psychic connection, we finish each others sentences, understand each other on such a deep level, never a dull moment....hes a phenomenal person...so amazing.... just need to know if this could ever work??? please take a look at our charts...

me

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c82/jkarapetian/astro_w2gw_04_artemiss_hp_22602_234 .gif

him

http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c82/jkarapetian/astro_w2gw_02_eight_hp_22586_23346.g if

synastry
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c82/jkarapetian/sdssa.gif

progressed composite
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c82/jkarapetian/asa.gif

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belgz
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posted July 19, 2008 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for belgz     Edit/Delete Message
Lol ur venus in 12th house of secret relationships got activated by jupiterrr )

Ur composite didnt show any transits that suggest a real fated long term relationship and ur synastry wasnt great either ur moons are square and saturn is square his sun and its conjunct the moon. I looked for an explanation with your natal chart and transits but didnt see anything that major or that really stands out besides you have neptune in ur first house atm..

If your happy then go for it..

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ASC: Virgo

Sun: Cancer
Moon: Gemini
Mars: Cancer
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Leo

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writesomething
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posted July 19, 2008 03:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
belgz- shes going thru saturn/7th transit and neptune opposing her 7th(idealistic in love).thats pretty significant, especially since her venus is in capricorn(saturn). saturn/7th transit also indicates a relationship with a much older partner sometimes, also very fated and long term. i think what you have with this guy looks pretty significant. Hes also going to be going (very soon) thru a saturn/venus transit, indicating he finds a serious, real relationship with someone typically with an age difference as well. Any relationship started now is going to be something long term for both of you guys.

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Love
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posted July 19, 2008 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love     Edit/Delete Message
My father is 24 years older than my step-mother. She was about 26 when they met (and I was 19 ;0 )

Anyhow, they've been together for almost 13 years now and they're one of the happiest couples I know, despite the huge age gap.

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AlfaOmega
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posted July 19, 2008 05:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlfaOmega     Edit/Delete Message
*artemisss*

there's sexual attraction between you two and it's not the first time you ever met it's unic that you both share mc conjunct moon

is age only a number?

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artemisss
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posted July 19, 2008 05:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
yes there is sexual attraction...but...what do you mean, not the first time we met? we met in may, and have spent every day together...

other than the phenomenal sex, we have an innnate understanding of one another, we are both so giving, understanding...artistic... same career... same passions, same depth... nothing is superficial, everything is meaningful... but i want to see whether this is something that can work long term...

the age is prominent, but not detrimental, it doesnt put a damper nor a strain... but it is something that lingers in the back of my head

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GemGemGem
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posted July 19, 2008 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
artemiss, it is such a great coincidence that you happen to post this thread because I had a first date with a man 16 years older than me, just last night.

I feel very attracted to him, despite the fact that he is 44. It's strange cause I have never been attracted to older men. They always gave me the "ickies", but this guy is different somehow.

I was wondering about the age thing too, because do I really want to be with someone who I'm going to have to be changing his diapers someday? LOL! Just kidding. I shouldn't even talk cause he is so much more energetic at 44 than I am at 29.

I say go for it!

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AlfaOmega
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posted July 19, 2008 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlfaOmega     Edit/Delete Message
*artemisss*

as moon opposite southN it means that you have met in a earlier life

it can also be that aspect that make you feel that youre not always going to be togheter* it can only be a feeling though

luckily love is bigger than any charts

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AlfaOmega
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posted July 19, 2008 09:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlfaOmega     Edit/Delete Message
have been togheter with both younger and older men as about same age so yes it's easy to get focused about the age haha

so how can we learn to look furhter then the agedifferences?

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artemisss
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posted July 21, 2008 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
thank you so much knowflakes, anyother karmic /past life / soul mate indicators?

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venusdeindia
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posted July 21, 2008 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusdeindia     Edit/Delete Message
can u check for connections between karma, valentine and other love asteroids. also draco later

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artemisss
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posted July 21, 2008 03:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
venusdeindia

here is 1 w/asteroids
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c82/jkarapetian/valen.gif


thank you!

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ScorpioCentaur
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posted July 21, 2008 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioCentaur     Edit/Delete Message
I do not see any romantic synastry between these two charts. Your sun-moon aspects and venus-mars aspects leave a little something to be desired.
Also usually I find the large age gap happens when their is an important opposition within the personal placements like the ones I listed above.
How is your relationship with your father?(If you don't mind me asking)
My cousin (taurus sun and mars) was with a man 20 yrs older..who happened to be a scorpio (sun and venus) and she has a very turbulent relationship with her father who was never really there for her.

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artemisss
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posted July 21, 2008 04:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
my father is a violent alcoholic, i moved out when i was 16.

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mblover
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posted July 21, 2008 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mblover     Edit/Delete Message
His Sun Leo - Your Sun Sag

His Moon Scorpio - Your Moon Pisces

His Merc Leo - Your Merc Sag

His venus Virgo - Your Venus Capricorn

His Uranus Leo - Your Uranus Sag

His Pluto Virgo - Your Pluto Scorpio

His Jupiter Scorpio - Your Jupiter Capricorn

This is a relationship that can get as intense as you can imagine.

A Leo Sun with Scorpio Moon is a Powerhouse man with Sexual intimacy that will go above and beyond you can imagine. The man would have high code of ethics and powerful integrity. And, at this age, he is in control of many powers he desired in his young age.

This is one of the best match you will find in your life (lives).

I don't see age gap as a problem. This Leo King has all powers and rights to contain sustain and possess a Young Archer Queen.

I've atleast five couples' charts similar to what you have found. Let me know if you wish me to give further details.

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librasunleomoon
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posted July 21, 2008 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for librasunleomoon     Edit/Delete Message
age doesn't matter, my bf is 22 years older

i would be careful of the strong uranus in your composite...you might get bored of him (it could be unstable)

but i dunno. sun on the DC explains finished each others sentences. i would just go for it if you like him. no worries.

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Nightjar
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posted July 21, 2008 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nightjar     Edit/Delete Message
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I do not see any romantic synastry between these two charts

You should never only look at the aspects; planets in the houses are in many ways more significant, and there's plenty of attraction there!

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annaf
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posted July 21, 2008 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Nightjar on the importance of house overlay in synastry. In your synastry your put a number of planets in each others 7th house, it's pretty rare to highlight each others 7th house so MUTUALLY. So yes, I'd say this is a pretty special connection. Although I can understand that you are hesitant about the whole age gap thing and I have seen in my parents circle of friends two couples where the age difference really did become a problem (i.e. the woman was still in the prime of her life but her husband had become an old man), I would still say go for it!! Better to have 15 years with the love of your life than letting your rational control your emotions. Also, you have venus in capricorn (I have that as well) and I would think a saturn flavoured venus will deal with having to slow down for the aging partner a lot better than maybe a venus sign which is ina a more light, fun loving sign. All the best!!

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writesomething
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posted July 23, 2008 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
I think it looks good....Leo sun and Scorpio Moon is such a sexy combo!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted July 23, 2008 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message

well for a girl who claims to carry strong feelings you move on pretty quickly. just not to long ago you were asking the forum about your boyfriend who was cheating on you. and sad because you still wanted to be with him. so you coped by immediately running to some older man? shame to both of you. you for your naive actions and him for being a perv. oh and never kiss and tell. not classy at all.

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koiflower
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posted July 23, 2008 05:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message

I love LL as an honest place to share our humanity.

Here is where we learn the complexities of our divine nature.

Thank you for sharing your experience in all its honesty.

Passion is powerful and potent. Where else do we go when 'Love' in all its forms jumps out and snaffles us?

Cupid's arrow could hit anyone of us, at anytime, in any place. Beware the power of his bow.

But fear not, we are here to share your dreams, desires and destiny........ oh, and learn from them too

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artemisss
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posted July 23, 2008 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message

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Seeing Stars
“well for a girl who claims to carry strong feelings you move on pretty quickly. just not to long ago you were asking the forum about your boyfriend who was cheating on you. and sad because you still wanted to be with him. so you coped by immediately running to some older man? shame to both of you. you for your naive actions and him for being a perv. oh and never kiss and tell. not classy at all.”

Yes my ex and I broke up in March. I was heartbroken, 4 months later is when I met this new gentleman. I was not looking; in fact I had finally come to grips with the past, and move forward, independent and single.

I didn’t “cop” out of my situation, and “immediately run” to some older man. In fact, I was very hesitant at first.

So DON’T “shame” me.


I did not kiss and tell anything, I am asking questions about astrology.

And he is not a “perv”

I would appreciate it if you kept your negative energy to yourself.

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writesomething
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posted July 23, 2008 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
art- i wouldnt even have responded to that sort of negative energy. BE happy, its a rare treat in this world, dont let anyone make you feel guilty about anything. good luck.

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artemisss
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posted July 23, 2008 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
ws

thank u

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Geocosmic Valentine
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posted July 23, 2008 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Artemisss,

I'm SOOOO HAPPY to see that you found some happiness after such a terrible heartbreak and the dark numb feelings you were having when you got to L.A. and no matter what this turns out to be, long term or short term, I'm glad to see you enjoying yourself in "THE NOW!" Life is too short to worry about frickin' time gaps inbetween. And time is relative, sometimes one day of severe depression can feel like an unbearable life-time.

And I want to say "YOU GO, GIRL!!" for letting people know that it is NOT OK to "shame" you. Shaming people is so archaic and destructive. Keep being happy lovely lady, enjoy.

Geocosmic Valentine

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