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Topic: Are we together long term material ????
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livelife2learn Knowflake Posts: 35 From: London,UK Registered: Jan 2007
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posted July 20, 2008 10:42 AM
Hi there, I am going to ask everyone a favor normally I do not get any reply....but it will be great to get one....I normally don't post here much as I am not very good at interpreting charts and people here have fairly good idea and are very good at writing and expressing themselves....so I tend not to write...After series of having really hard relationships...I feel I have met someone who is a healer...like he takes away all my pain and I think probably he feels the same.He is very nice...but there is too much madness and fun in me...in a nice manner..I would like to know whether we will be together as of now everything is very smooth and is going well. The only thing is at times I get bored and I am also very ambitious and adventurous...Although before I used to yearn for stable life...life never gave me one and now when I am getting something stable....I am scared that it will turn out to be boring and unproductive...sorry grass seems greener other side of wall....I am bhaving like a committment phobic...I do not want to loose my freedom...and at the same time I am not sure how am I going to balance personal and professional life.... I have told him all this and he is fine.He is extremely supportive but I feel that I can never get to see his real self. There is always a mask of falseness..or maybe it is my fear...or disbelief that things are so good...
I have a nagging feeling that this guy would be much happier with a simple girl and live peaceful life...It isn't because I can't be that simple girl but I don't want to at this point of time...My idea of relationship isn't where both partners work 9-5 come back home...have mortgage... pay bills and have kids...and are stuck in boring marriage... My Chart (female) born on 16 Nov 1983 local time 8:20 am in Mumbai, INDIA U.T. 02:50 72e50, 18n58 sid. time 11:19:48 Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion Sun Scorpio 23°10'15 in house 12 direct Moon Aries 1°08'07 in house 4 direct Mercury Sagittarius 2°41'27 in house 12 direct Venus Libra 7°01'44 in house 10 direct Mars Virgo 28°37'57 in house 10 direct Jupiter Sagittarius 15°35'56 in house 1 direct Saturn Scorpio 9°08'19 in house 11 direct Uranus Sagittarius 8°22'50 in house 12 direct Neptune Sagittarius 27°40'35 in house 1 direct Pluto Scorpio 0°23'51 in house 11 direct True Node Gemini 16°08'04 in house 7 retrograde House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Sagittarius 13°13'28 2nd House Capricorn 13°16'18 3rd House Aquarius 15°34'55 Imum Coeli Pisces 19°04'00 5th House Aries 20°35'41 6th House Taurus 18°19'04 Descendant Gemini 13°13'28 8th House Cancer 13°16'18 9th House Leo 15°34'55 Medium Coeli Virgo 19°04'00 11th House Libra 20°35'41 12th House Scorpio 18°19'04 My Guy's chart(male) born on 19 April 1983 local time 6:00 pm in Solihull, ENG (UK) U.T. 17:00 1w45, 52n25 sid. time 06:41:54
Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion Sun Aries 29°04'15 in house 7 direct Moon Cancer 20°19'55 in house 10 direct Mercury Taurus 18°51'02 in house 8 direct Venus Gemini 7°19'09 in house 9 direct Mars Taurus 10°24'57 in house 8 direct Jupiter Sagittarius 10°07'54 in house 3 retrograde Saturn Scorpio 1°16'59 in house 1 retrograde Uranus Sagittarius 8°33'58 in house 3 retrograde Neptune Sagittarius 29°08'22 in house 3 retrograde Pluto Libra 28°07'07 in house 1 retrograde True Node Gemini 26°44'27 in house 9 direct House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Libra 7°18'08 2nd House Scorpio 1°50'49 3rd House Sagittarius 2°43'49 Imum Coeli Capricorn 9°37'44 5th House Aquarius 15°24'52 6th House Pisces 14°33'34 Descendant Aries 7°18'08 8th House Taurus 1°50'49 9th House Gemini 2°43'49 Medium Coeli Cancer 9°37'44 11th House Leo 15°24'52 12th House Virgo 14°33'34 IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted July 20, 2008 11:45 AM
Its like you've just read the description for Sagittarius rising and you fit the personailty to a T. If you're the wandering Sag type, best not to get into a stable relationship with someone unless it allows feedom to do whatever thing you do. Regards his "mask" - he has Libra AC, yet with Sun in Aries.....opposites. Its a good combination to have due to completeness of the two, but I guess he might appear the opposite of how he really is.Maybe you're best as mates. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 699 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted July 20, 2008 11:52 AM
True, you sound like a Sagg rising type of personality that doesn't want to settle down and wants to just roam around. You don't have any planets in the 7th house, so naturally, you don't give the idea of marriage much importance. BUT Your North node is on the cusp of your 7th house, your descendant, so you are fated to move in the direction of marriage at some point in your life, and interestingly enough, though I don't think the planets aspects you share with this guy are great, his NN falls in your 7th house, so there is marriage potential there. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 699 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted July 20, 2008 11:56 AM
Lalaland has been on an asteroid kick lately, lol, so if you post the main asteroidss, you might get more replies and more insights. IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted July 20, 2008 12:00 PM
and more sighs from me.IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 699 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted July 20, 2008 12:30 PM
Lol @ Kick it!! IP: Logged |
livelife2learn Knowflake Posts: 35 From: London,UK Registered: Jan 2007
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posted July 20, 2008 12:32 PM
kick it : LOL.Thanks for reply and also sighs...I am glad.... :-) There is so much Sag in me that I can't bear anyone stopping me and my freedom.Lately I have been like I will rather remove people from my life than compromise my freedom and independence. I am loving that I am independent now but it is too scary to think what will happen in the future. There are people around me like my family and friends and I expect them to be indpendent too but I know that sooner or later I will have to depend on someone in my life too. Actually I am scared of my own need of freedom and independence especially when my progressed Sun has moved to Saggittarius and Moon to Aquarius. This is also time where I feel increased need of getting my career in shape...I am already worried about my retirement.... I am just wondering if there are any Saturn placements or something due to which this relationship will bring constraints to my career. The thing is he is always so polite and diplomatic it becomes very difficult to know where is his Aries nature gone....I have to actually poke him to see Aries nature and I get to see it....but they are rare glimpses....I like Taurus influence as that makes him very patient and Cancerian influence makes him very family oriented... Belage : Thanks for reply....I have been told by my colleagues that I seem to be perfect marriage material...but I don't see it... My guy is very family and marriage oriented and that is very rare which you normally see guys to be...yes I wanted marriage when I was kid but somehow not any more atleast for some years. So do you think he is the right guy to get married ?
I am unable to post the charts. I will try to do soon.
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 699 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted July 20, 2008 07:57 PM
I don't know if he is the right guy for you. Until I see asteroids like Chiron, Isis/Osiris, Amor, Eros etc, I don't see a lot of romance in the aspects you have with him. Yes, his Venus trine yours, but that's really about it, and even this is not a big romance aspect per se, more like a friendship aspect. But maybe this is what you're looking for, something light and not too intense. Not everybody believes in emotional hot and heavy love affairs. Your 7th house is ruled by Mercury, so you might want someone with whom you have a mental rapport more than a sexual and emotional connection. ETA: I just noticed that his moon in Cancer trines your sun in Scorpio. Nice. There are almost always some aspects like conjunction or trine between a husband's moon and his wife's sun or ascendant. Which makes sense because the moon represents the female in a man's chart. IP: Logged |
livelife2learn Knowflake Posts: 35 From: London,UK Registered: Jan 2007
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posted July 21, 2008 03:29 AM
Hi Belgz....Sorry it took me while to get back. I had to learn uploading pics. SO there we go both of our charts links My Chart http://i329.photobucket.com/albums/l400/livelife2learn/Mychart.gif My Guy Chart http://i329.photobucket.com/albums/l400/livelife2learn/Myguychart.gif Our Synastry Chart http://i329.photobucket.com/albums/l400/livelife2learn/OurSynastryChart.gif Our Composite Chart http://i329.photobucket.com/albums/l400/livelife2learn/OurCompositeChart.gif Hope it works...
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livelife2learn Knowflake Posts: 35 From: London,UK Registered: Jan 2007
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posted July 21, 2008 03:57 AM
Belgz: Are you male or female? What are your big 3s ? Your 7th house is ruled by Mercury, so you might want someone with whom you have a mental rapport more than a sexual and emotional connection.
We do have mental, sexual and till some extent emotional connection..ofcourse it isn't overbearing...The relationship started with sexual...mental...and now emotional connection... I had a very bad relationship which was highly emotional charged before this My ex chart.... http://i329.photobucket.com/albums/l400/livelife2learn/Myexchart.gif and I am definitely not looking for something very emotional as it has already drained me and all my energy...I find my new guy to be my healer...I don't know where it says in the chart but that's how I see it... However my ex has left quiet an effect on my perspective to the world...I was very naive not to know many things and because of my ex I think it has helped me to know the world better...with my ex I think I had teacher student relationship because of age differnece too... so anyways if anyone has any more insight or sighs please feel free to add them...and I will be happy to comment on it...
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 699 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted July 21, 2008 11:17 PM
You have certain aspects to your natal chiron which tell me that finding your soulmate is more important to you than you let transpire. With this guy, you have a Chiron and Mars connection which points to marriage. IP: Logged |
livelife2learn Knowflake Posts: 35 From: London,UK Registered: Jan 2007
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posted July 23, 2008 04:01 AM
Hi Belage: Well I am not sure whether I really believe in Soul mate concept....I used to but somehow I can't really rely that there will be a Soul mate and will get everything right...call me more practical about whole thing or I have just lost hope so I am appreciating everyone I meet....but good observations and thanks.. I am glad you can see that there are aspects which lead to marriage...I think that's all I needed to know and why it seemed that he is such a marriage material.... Will the marriage last or not and rest of the question lies on us but I wonder if anybody is good at interpreting Progressed chart and I do not mind doing it myself but it is more of forecasting and I am not sure how many Astrologers can do that....or is their any way to do that.... IP: Logged |