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augentier
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posted July 20, 2008 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for augentier     Edit/Delete Message
I've only been w/ my boyfriend for a couple months..we lost our virginity to each other and we mean so much to each other but something is WRONG. We are increasingly finding it difficult to stay on the same page about how things are going between us..it's so confusing.

One moment he is upset, brooding, won't talk to me, while I am desperately trying to find out what's wrong..the other moment it is the other way around with me being the silent awkward one. This seems to happen for no reason, but often. Is there anything in our synastry chart that you think points out what this problem may be? HE is on the OUTSIDE (red) , I am on the INSIDE (blue) ..and our personal name asteroids are in there just because.

Also - I have never felt so much jealously in a relationship. I feel like I am very protective over him (and he is a couple years younger than me) and I get seriously jealous when even the slightest thought of him w/ another girl pops into my head..

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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Happy Dragon
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posted July 20, 2008 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
your pluto opposes his moon
his pluto is conjunct your venus and possibly square to your mc/ic axis
he looks to have venus-pluto nataly by square
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moon and saturn appear to be conjuct in your chart
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he has a pluto transit to his asc/dsc axis .. by opposition to asc. and conjunct his dsc.
you have a pluto transit to your natal mercury .. by conjunction
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he also looks to have a saturn transit on .. conjunct his 'ic' and jupiter .. opposite his 'mc'
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augentier
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posted July 21, 2008 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for augentier     Edit/Delete Message
Hm...Im starting to think its our Venus sq. Venus that is really getting in the way..

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librasunleomoon
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posted July 21, 2008 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for librasunleomoon     Edit/Delete Message
could you show the composite?

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Happy Dragon
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posted July 21, 2008 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
** .Im starting to think its our Venus sq. Venus that is really getting in the way.. *
transiting Chiron is at 19 degrees aquarius and moving back to 16 degrees ..
potentialy conjunct his venus and square yours ..
would be effecting his natal pluto as well ..

direct/retro dates ..
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Kick It
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posted July 21, 2008 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kick It     Edit/Delete Message
If he is being like this:
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One moment he is upset, brooding, won't talk to me

Don't keep on at him, just let him be like that.

If your details are correct, he is Gemini rising and you are Scorpio rising, which is not the best match out there. AC isnt always a big factor, but it does make a difference. I guess with Sag on his 7th he is looking for some freedom withing the relationship, whereas you are a Scorpio rising and want to be binded together and share every emotion, thought and feeling.

Venus square Venus is not the best as you express your Venus in different ways. Moons are inconjunct and both Mercuries are also square each other.

Personal name asteroids are there?
I never met a bloke called Eros

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Diandra23
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posted July 21, 2008 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
well i guess that the fact that his pluto conj you venus is making that conection very intense and yup pluto stands also for possessiveness and power struggles.But im surprised tht its you who are more jealous-i though that the Pluto person were the one most intense on that "part".

mars conj sun - adds spice and energie to your relationship - maybe somtimes you appear to be somehow agressive with him?EVEN if it´s uncounscious you may show him that image.

Venus conj IC - very loving aspect:you feel very much conected to his way of loving,and the fact that his venus conjyour ac means that he naturally loves your inner core.

NN conj Sun - you were on his Path,it+s a fated conection and somehow you and him will grow together and become more evolved by being a couple.

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augentier
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posted July 21, 2008 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for augentier     Edit/Delete Message
KickIt..the names on there read as NICOL and PATRI .. (nicole and patrick)

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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