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taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 03, 2008 08:38 PM Can someone read my chart for me and tell me how long this is going to last. I am feeling very emotional and rejected from every which way! I know at this time my taurus sun temper and leo moon are not a good combination. I need insight please! 4/29/74 freeport, ill, usa 2:08 pm IP: Logged
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007	posted August 04, 2008 06:46 AM IP: Logged
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007	posted August 04, 2008 06:50 AM The thing that jumped out at me was transiting Uranus Conjunct Venus in your 7th house. And I haven't looked at anything else at all yet - somehow my eyes were just drawn in to that. Uranus is a real shaker, and here is it distrupting Venus, a planet who symbolises how we interact with other people, our social relationships and indeed our close relationships. It is powerful on your chart, in the 7th house, and exalted in the sign of Pisces. But right now it isn't having an nice time, and as the aspect is applying, I am afraid you are going to have to sit tight and suffer for a while longer. But like all transits, it will pass. EDIT: As pointed out further down the thread by Happy Dragon (who took the time to read the chart properly) it is in fact retrograde and seperating, but will be back later before it finally moves away. IP: Logged
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007	posted August 04, 2008 06:59 AM p.s Venus is Square Saturn on your natal chart so that aspect (not the easiest) is being triggered by Uranus. Reading up on natal Venus Square Saturn and transiting Uranus Conjunct Venus might help a little. Looking at your progressions, you have Venus Conjunct Sun coming up in a few years, that is a great one, and you are likely to have plenty of attention and admiration so there are good times ahead when you have gotten through this. IP: Logged
Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 3121 From: Registered: Apr 2005	posted August 04, 2008 01:23 PM re feeling slighted .. my immediate thought .. without looking at the chart .. was .. a Chiron transit .. given that Leo Moon potentialy needs attention and aproval .. and like the other fire signs .. sometimes emotionaly insecure and lacking in confidence .. plus transiting Chiron has abilty to make people feel wounded .. seems to me .. that .. transiting Chiron aspecting natal Moon would be a likely candidate .. ( plus the fact the current transit is via an 'opposition' aspect .. ( and therefore could be potentialy felt as coming from 'others' .. as it were .. add in a potentialy depressing transit like tasmaster Saturn opposing faith giving natal Jupiter .. ( again an 'opposition' aspect ) re: and tell me how long this is going to last. end august for 'transiting Saturn opposite natal Jupiter' end october for 'transiting Chiron opposite natal Moon' transiting Chiron is retrograde and is re-applying towards natal Moon ( currently prior to 'exact' by 3 degrees ) some notes regarding Chiron ~ http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/018404.html ~ recent past transiting Chiron aspecting natal Moon by 'opposition' .. may .. 2007 feb .. 2008 Chiron wounding is often accidental ( as noted in that seminar transcript ) .. and i would agree when thinking about my own Chiron transits past .. and by observing postings and transits to natal charts via this forum over a few years .. i.e. under a Chiron transit it's potentialy quite easy to 'take something the wrong way' .. and end up feeling hurt .. *Looking at your progressions, you have Venus Conjunct Sun coming up in a few years, that is a great one* i would agree with that one :-) btw .. transiting Uranus ( re the Uranus to natal Venus transit ) is retrograde .. and two degrees past exact .. and separating .. i.e. untill it goes direct again end november .. at which time it will start to re-apply towards conjoining natal Venus .. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ direct-retrograde dates .. ~ http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006052.html ~ various bits of astrology info .. ~ http://www.happydragon.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/jkbx/audiofls.html ~ IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 05, 2008 07:22 PM Thanks so much for your insight, I know in my heart things will get better somehow. Just all of a sudden I feel so alone, having to let my bff go after 20 years, and after someone saying that dreaded JUST FRIENDS, and more than that, I just feel a bit hopeless. Like no one is there for me in the world and im 34 years old. Thanks for not judging; I felt the only place I could turn is lindaland, I was really crying out, u guys just dont know. I was kind of embarrassed, bc i usually hold it together. Some may think that its a bit silly, but thanks for respecting others feelings. Everyones feelings are valid no matter what! IP: Logged
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007	posted August 06, 2008 06:45 AM If you take rejection badly, you are not alone, I'm right there with you. IP: Logged
EighthMoon Knowflake Posts: 1400 From: Registered: May 2007	posted August 06, 2008 07:10 AM Hi TaurusVirgo, Just to add to what Happy and Blue have already said...Along with transiting Uranus conjuncting your Venus 7th, and transiting Chiron "breaking your heart" with it's opposition to your Moon, transiting Pluto squared your Venus throughout last year. Those squares from t Pluto tend to upheave things in your life that aren't really for your highest good, and it's very painful. Maybe once Chiron moves away from that moon, you'll start to feel better and see the positive side of the changes. 8th IP: Logged
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 1258 From: Australia Registered: Jun 2008	posted August 06, 2008 07:42 AM hang in there taurusvirgoleolady1974. You were right to turn to LL. You've just gone through a huge event. Feeling alone is one of the worst feelings to have. But there are good people out there who would love to be your friend. Bluemoon had good news for you with Venus conjunct Sun coming up. I wonder what you need to do, to get ready for that IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 06, 2008 02:53 PM AWW, thanks you guys made me teary eyed, thats so sweet! Although, today is even worse, I dont know how much more I can take! The phrase "everything happens for a reason" means absolutely nothing right now. TRying to see the forest thru the trees. I was hoping I could start eating again today, but official rejection once again, which has to do with the rest of my life. I had broken off things with ex who I knew was going to propose (my 12/21/71 ive been complaining about, saying he was too soft) and then i realized no one is perfect, a BIG lesson. I took for granted that he was always there, and now after being told by someone else (the just friends thing) i realized I leta good thing g with my sag.I tried to go back now he tells me NO. He kept trying to get back with me, he was crying, and i ignored his calls. Now he is very gullible, and he has been seeing someone for TWO WEEKS and says i should have stopped ignoring his calls, he didnt know what else to do. I could always depend on him to love me the way I needed to be loved. Its only been two weeks with this girl! I said you dont even know her, your making a big mistake. We treated eachother good just big communication problem and I just needed a break. I really didnt have a choice. So he did try, but now too late. Is he going to come back, because I did treat him good, tried to get him to open up , never cheated. and he put me on a pedastal, just tried too hard sometimes. No one ever treated my like he did. Oh my God I feel horrible. I just want to wake up. I am zoned out, and lost about 5 pounds already. This is a dream, gotta be. I keep looking at those dates for change in my life for inspiration, it seems so far away. i guess i will pray for strength bc this is too much. IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 06, 2008 03:21 PM edit IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 06, 2008 03:22 PM my daily forecast for yesterday says ("Mars Semisquare Moon" It's exhausting, sure, and you've just about had it. But if you can keep your eye on the ball for a few more weeks, you'll have everything you were after.) does this mean him, or is it something else. Should i just leave him to make his own decision or what? He said he would do what it takes to get me back last month, now i am saying ill do what it takes to get him back. Is this karma at its finest or what.I dont feel like i should be punished bc the situation was making me miserable, just needed breathing room. Am i being punished for my feelings. I am really trying to persuade him. I know as a taurus, i can have a tendency to be pushy. I cant just let it go without a fight! its hard just to sit and wait isnt it. seems like your always waiting on something. Have to always remember God is in control, I guess. But I can damn sure put my two cents in! IP: Logged
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007	posted August 06, 2008 03:32 PM Try and force down a bit of toast. You sound like you are in a state of shock. I've been there and no matter how bad it seems now, chances are in a couple of weeks you will start to pull inner strength from hidden reserves and will not feel like you do now. "Everything happens for a reason" ~ a load of cr@p if you ask me, but don't tell anyone I said so. IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 17, 2008 07:56 PM ok i am really down and out now. I am still feeling the same. I have really been reaching out to my love, we had a long talk yesterday and he says he still loves me just bad timing now. We havent talked like this ever and I hate that it is happening now. I told him I would do what i have to do to make it work and keep the dialogue going, but there is still this girl...both families on both sides want us to work, and i am so down and out. i told him that i had just needed some space bc i was frustrated with the non-communication. we both said we were sorry. i am so depressed, he said he was depressed too. i said i lost 12 lbs he said he did too. WHy didnt i return his calls. i am so sick of beating myself up i dont know what else to do. he should hate me but he doesnt. u know, i never really had a regular relationship and now i realize i was a bit uncomfortable. he is a good family man and took care of me for 4 months while i was sick. his sister said this new girl is the same old kind of girl hes used to being with, so we both had to get used to something new , something good. if we would have just talked to eachother this would not be happening. Should i keep trying, bc he said he still loves me than there should be a chance, right. My brother says astrology isnt everything and theres nothing wrong with fighting to get the one u love back. he gave me the family i never had and i just threw it away, bc thats what im used to. i thought i had everything together and it was all him. what do i do, i am so lost. IP: Logged
BLKFox Knowflake Posts: 473 From: Registered: Nov 2007	posted August 17, 2008 09:06 PM Taurus Lady, I have been attempting to communicate with someone who has the same Sun/Merc/Venus/Mars combo as you, & I have to tell you, that combo seems to create great sensitivity AND frustration!---It's not you, it's the stars..... IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 17, 2008 09:12 PM cant we change some things, i mean dont we have some kind of control? dont we have more control over things than we think? if i use practical techniques, wont that help instead of leaving everything to the heavens? i look in the mirror and i see hell, i look like hell and im just a failure and hurt people i really love i dont know why, and then wonder why im sitting here crying. im just a failure maybe ill get it right next lifetime, bc this is too much to bear. i wanted this my whole life, love and threw it away and deserve whatever i get in life. IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 17, 2008 09:15 PM edit IP: Logged
BLKFox Knowflake Posts: 473 From: Registered: Nov 2007	posted August 17, 2008 10:00 PM TL, you're going too far... Go back to the original event that caused you to feel bad, be honest about your feelings about that event, THEN remind yourself how wonderful AND beautiful you are....I'm certain that you have several secret admirers because you are "versed" in many things.. So, JUST STOP IT!!!!!!! IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 18, 2008 03:09 AM i just woke up feeling horrible, and then i realized i mean, there were two ppeople i this relationship. he had plenty of chances to talk to me and find out why i seemed frustrated. He could have said ":honey i noticed we are not communicating. what can i do to help us to talk." or what are your feelings, you look like you have something to say." he could have damn emailed it at least, wrote it or something, even if he didnt want to say it. I rememer asking him what was on his mind and he would say "just thinking". In other words, there were two of us so i cant blame myself only. its really sad we are talking too late. so im going to try not to be so hard on myself bc its not healthy. i know he is feeling good right now, and its ok hes only human, too. hes going to send me an email today, bc he can never say anything upfront so it will probably be some closure for him, and i will make sure i am not too hard on myself, and remember why i needed a break in the first place. i mean, he even said, and family members, that he is not used to a strong woman like me and from what i have seen from his past relationshiops, hes right. so i guess thats a compliment, i mean i dont need alot of guidance, and he didnt seem to know quite where he fit, and i didnt either. im used to certain things also IP: Logged
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008	posted August 18, 2008 03:12 AM BLKfox, thanks, we must be "right here" .thanks for the comment! ur right! ill get it together somehow. still very sad, but ill get it right. IP: Logged

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