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Topic: Who do you know if Mars in Scorpio women is attracted to you?
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jack sparrow Knowflake Posts: 24 From: london, UK Registered: Jul 2008
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posted August 06, 2008 02:50 PM
Heard all about Mars in Scorpio and what it can do to! How can you tell if a women with this placement is attracted to you. I've heard they can hide their desire for a long time, so maybe I'm wrong for thinking she has feelings but she blows hot and cold because she also has Venus in Aquarius. I can't tell if I'm coming or going. IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Pennsylvania Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 06, 2008 03:35 PM
Yeah, I know the feeling of "coming or going" with an Aqua-Venus and Scorp-Mars woman. I know a Capricorn (Taurus Moon) with the Aquarius Venus and Scorpio Mars placements. I'm a Scorpio with Capricorn Mars, and she and I have mutual (and very tight) Sun-Mars synastry conjunctions. She is in a relationship, but some days I can feel as though she really wants me. Maybe it is because she is already involved with someone, but I feel her energy strongly, and it is indeed often "hot or cold". Interesting... IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted August 06, 2008 04:06 PM
I have this placement and if I wanted you, you would know. My asc is also Scorpio with my Eros there. Actually my first house of Scorpio is packed. Anyway, you would know because I hate superficial interactions, I live only once and I know what I want and although I can act coy, it's for your comfort and not my fears because I am overwhelming. my life is all about trying not to overwhelm and scare people so maybe she's wants you but is trying not to freak you out. If she didn't find you attractive she wouldn't waste her energies on you. She is probably trying to tell you to wait a bit and not lose interest while she decides on what to do. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted August 06, 2008 04:07 PM
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swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 06, 2008 05:03 PM
I have lots of girl-friends with that placement and they usually act like that, hot and cold, if a guy is treating them differently, if only slightly, from day to day AND it shows that they are expecting you to treat them in a special way, with extra attention IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted August 06, 2008 05:15 PM
Maybe I'm being biased and speaking subjectively because who knows? I could be giving off mixed signals and not know it. If I imagine myself acting hot and cold it could be due to pride, trying to take back being vulnerable and also to show the person that they should be humble about my feelings for him and not get a big head. IP: Logged |
jack sparrow Knowflake Posts: 24 From: london, UK Registered: Jul 2008
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posted August 06, 2008 05:15 PM
I get the stares. Don't think I'm stupid but I know when someone is coming on or not. Relationship is bit complicated though as I'm seeing someone very close to her. Just wish there was something concrete instead of coming out and asking her and I get it wrong.IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted August 06, 2008 05:22 PM
If you knew she wanted you, would it change your situation? Just for interest's sake, why do you want to know for a certainty that she has feelings for you because as you say, you know she does? IP: Logged |
jack sparrow Knowflake Posts: 24 From: london, UK Registered: Jul 2008
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posted August 06, 2008 05:44 PM
its causing arguments. sometimes I dont even know why. If I knew for definite then at least maybe we discuss things cos I really like this person even if it wasn't a physical relationshipIP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted August 06, 2008 08:19 PM
I see. I think she finds you attractive or there could be twist- she might think that you like her. So, she's likely waiting for your direction but then freezes up when you do not encourage her moves. IP: Logged |
Soulflower_13 Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Grand Rapids, MI USA Registered: Oct 2007
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posted August 06, 2008 09:04 PM
"Anyway, you would know because I hate superficial interactions, I live only once and I know what I want and although I can act coy, it's for your comfort and not my fears because I am overwhelming"I have the same placements as well, and what Unmoved wrote is probably the best way to put it. Based on what's been said, I agree with Unmoved and think she is attracted to you, very much so. If your going to pursue her seriously, I'd suggest doing it quickly and getting straight to the point, because she might not stick around for much longer. *also as a disclaimer, i also have my sun in aqua so relationships are not my strong suit! IP: Logged |